If you have a successful career, there is a suitor around you who cares for you, for decades as a day, happy you are happy, sad you are sad. If you change into an ordinary person, I think you will cherish it more and see the sincerity under the baptism of time.
But Gu Qingyu is not, she is 36 years old, although her career is successful, but her emotional life is a mess. There is a blue-faced confidant like Zhan Xiang around, but she has never thought of marrying him, but she is obsessed with her first love, which is really a bit excessive.
In the latest plot of the TV series "Heart Residence", Gu Qingyu carries Zhan Xiang on his back and secretly dates Shi Yuan, the man who haunts her soul. Although there is nothing wrong with dating, she should not lie, obviously two people eat a big meal together, but she deceives Zhan Xiang on the phone, saying that she wants to work overtime, and ignores his invitation.
I don't know, just not far away, looking at her goddess, with her first love in her heart, eating together with talk and laughter, how sad Zhan Xiang's heart will be.
At this moment, I am heartbroken. After all, his conditions are not bad, he wants money and money, he has humor, and he knows how to take care of people, and he really doesn't understand why he is obsessed with Gu Qingyu, such a cold old leftover woman.
Some netizens said that Zhan Xiang is quite suitable for Feng Xiaoqin, but the emotional matter is often a fan of the authorities and a bystander. Although outsiders can see it, the parties may not have that height, and in a posture of staying out of the matter, they will go to see all sentient beings.
The reason why feelings are bitter is that love is not allowed. Just like Zhan Xiang, although he has a hippie smile all day and does not speak very well, his feelings for Gu Qingyu can be said to be unswerving.
Like he himself said, being nice to her was an instinctive reaction, unless one day the nerves were necrotic. But even so, Gu Qingyu was still not grateful for his efforts. On the contrary, shi Yuan, who has no house and no car, and has a debt of 1.5 million yuan, has a special affection.
1, too easy to get feelings, often will not be cherished.
For Gu Qingyu, she has a successful career, does not worry about eating and wearing, and her pursuit of feelings is higher than ordinary people, not a woman like Feng Xiaoqin, who married herself for a Shanghai hukou.
Although the conditions of Zhan Xiang are not bad, there are many real estate, in short, not bad money, at the economic level, Zhan Xiang is far superior to Gu Qingyu, but Gu Qingyu has always been Qinggao, she does not care much about the Zhan Xiang that has always appeared around.
Because Zhan Xiang was so good to her, it was too easy to get, and she had always been pampered, like a princess. So much so that she herself forgot that she was not a princess, but a worker who was crawling in the dust.
Of course, it is not that Gu Qingyu does not read Zhan Xiang's kindness, she knows Zhan Xiang's dedication to her, and she also understands his intentions for her, but there is no such impulse to marry her.
This is also the reason why in reality, many friends of the opposite sex who are good friends from beginning to end, and do not take a step forward. One silently continues to pay, one pretends to be stupid and accepts with peace of mind.
In fact, Gu Qingyu was brutal and knew Zhan Xiang's affection for her, but secretly dated Shi Yuan behind his back. Even if he was bumped into, Zhan Xiang was still generously blessed, and it was really not worth it for him.
2, the first love that can not be forgotten, the peak circuit is more surprising after the turn
Gu Qingyu remembered Shi Yuan, but she did not expect that she would actually reunite with him in that way. In order to buy a house and avoid the policy of restricting purchases, Gu Qingyu thought of "fake marriage", and this man was actually her first love.
At that moment when the four eyes were facing each other, they were stunned by each other. In Gu Qingyu's mind, the appearance of the "white shirt teenager" appeared, he was shining.
But now he is not at all what he remembers, and even a little bit of frustration. Gu Qingyu also panicked, and the contract given to her by the intermediary did not have the heart to look, so she had to say that she would contact her again.
She wanted to "fake marriage", but did not want to complete the first love of her youth, but fate played a joke on her, bringing her long-cherished first love to her in this way.
Since then, in her mind, there have been more beautiful images between the two of them. For the sake of the old convention, she had been waiting for him. But he was slow to show up, and the extent to which she liked him could be seen from the ex she was looking for.
There is a scene in the film and television drama that Gu Qingyu's ex-boyfriend, who can't stand her requests and chooses to leave him. One of the lines says that she wants her ex-boyfriend to wear a white shirt all the time.
Even if she has a successful career now and does not worry about money, she still follows the appearance of her first love emotionally and draws scoops according to the gourd. Even if that person is not him, try to dress him up as that him.
3, the fall of her first love has aroused her desire to protect
If you want to choose a husband from Zhan Xiang and Shi Yuan, a woman with a little normal mind, it is bound to choose Zhan Xiang, he will get an overwhelming victory, after all, no one is a saint, the beauty of love is inseparable from the solid material foundation.
But Gu Qingyu is not an ordinary person, she has her own unique pursuit of feelings, if she is really like an ordinary person, she must have had children a long time ago, and she will not let Zhan Xiang wait for so many years.
Originally, after Gu Qingyu learned that Shi Yuan had deleted her without a word, she was ready to reconcile with the past, but by chance, she still met her on the streets of a foreign land.
She was more happy about this arrangement, so she took the initiative to greet him, talk to him, and at the same time answer her inner confusion. Why didn't he come to him in the first place?
After some free talk, she liked him a little more. Others looking for a marriage partner will look at the strength of the other party, whether it is hard or soft, they must weigh it, but Gu Qingyu is not taking the usual path.
She knew that Shi Yuan had been married twice, had no house or car under his name, lived in an old house with his parents, and had 1.5 million debts, but she still wanted to marry him and live the married life of her dreams.
I have to say that Gu Qingyu is really too brave, and as an ordinary person, he does not have such courage. Only because she has wayward capital, of course, she is not stupid, did notarize the property before marriage, divorced later, but also the man's clean house, she does not suffer losses.
Compared with marriage, Gu Qingyu enjoys the process of falling in love more. A woman with special achievements in her career, her vision of marriage is often not high, for them, marriage is the icing on the cake, by no means to compromise with the world.
For Gu Qingyu, it is not a risk for her to marry Shi Yuan, because she has two purposes, one is to buy the house she likes through marriage, and the other is to see if the former first love is the right person, who can walk the road of life hand in hand.
Although the plot has not yet broadcast the follow-up of the two, it is known from the original book that they were later divorced. Because Gu Qingyu knew that the female neighbor in Shi Yuan's mouth was not a simple ex-girlfriend, she was pregnant with his flesh and bones.
At this point, her only love for Shi Yuan also passed away with the wind with the arrival of that news. Although the love between men and women is gone, the love of the past is still there, and she will still want Shi Yuan to comfort her grandmother when she dies.
Because when she was young, her mother died of illness, Shi Yuan also came to comfort her in that way, for her, Shi Yuan was not a pure good partner of youth, more like a force against life.
Even if she is not understood, she will marry him, knowing that he has no house and no car, and 1.5 million debts, and has had the experience of "fake marriage" before, and after learning his heart for himself, she still chose to go forward.
Although high-quality leftover women like her are rare in reality, they also give us a good enlightenment, as long as they are good enough, they can still be willful, at least have the ability to calmly cope with emotional changes.