Love is beautiful and marriage is very happy.
If a person can meet a person who loves each other in this life, from acquaintance to love, to stay together, it is really a lucky thing to be able to stick to it.
But life is not satisfactory, and so are feelings. We will meet many people and fall in love with some people, but the fate will always be broken in the middle and will not be able to get to the end.
In relationships, women tend to be more mature than men, and she will put love in her heart and will not be able to express it very well.
Men, on the contrary, will love vigorously as long as they love, telling women how much they love her. When two people are together, they will also do a lot of things, hoping to touch each other's hearts.
And a woman's love is single-minded, she will put all her energy into a person, hoping to go on happily with that person for a lifetime.
Many men will do their best to give the best to the person they love when they are alone. He will not linger in the same place, and he will not hesitate to wait for the other party.
A man's love is brave, he will go to the side of the person he loves, he will also understand the world of the other party with his heart, and every concern and problem is very timely.
In relationships, if a man doesn't love you, he won't do those three things for you, really accurately.
1, for the purpose of marriage, no matter how difficult it will accompany you
Love is the greatest force in the world, and it can destroy all the difficulties that stand in the way of two people. Because of the power of love, they will do everything well in front of their lovers.
If a man loves someone for the purpose of marriage, he will occasionally mention marriage in the relationship between two people.
He will plan for the future of two people and will also begin to act on each other's future. A lifetime is too short and he wants to be with you all the time, to snuggle up with you all the time.
If a man has not even mentioned it for a lifetime when he is with you, let alone thought of marrying you, then this kind of love can only be regarded as his temporary enthusiasm for you, and once the enthusiasm has passed, he will stay away from you.
Then there is the fact that if you take the initiative to mention your future and he doesn't answer, or keeps avoiding your topic, then this man has no intention of going on with you for long from the beginning when he was with you.
Love is uncontrollable, because of love, so it will plan to give the best to the lover. The man is so real that if he identifies a person, he will start planning all your life after marriage.
2, as long as there is time for you to prepare surprises, will also take the initiative to share the housework for you
If love cannot be implemented in the trivial matters of chai rice, oil, salt, eating and sleeping, then love will not last long.
I have always believed in this sentence, if even the most basic life can not be guaranteed, how to talk about love, where to be happy?
For example, after two people get married, you leave work later than him. He first came home from work and did nothing, just lying on the couch watching TV and playing games waiting for you to come home to cook, you open the door to see such a scene, aren't you angry?
Love is mutual understanding, such as if you go home first, then you make a meal for him; if he comes home first, he prepares a meal for you. In this way, when two people go home, they will see a table of steaming meals, and their happiness will explode in an instant.
In addition, if he leaves the table and sits aside to do his own thing after eating, he does not even bother to look at you when you clean up the dishes, which is not called love, and there will be no happiness.
Love needs to be implemented into the bits and pieces of life, the man who takes care of the family will put the family first, and he will take the initiative to share your housework, let alone machismo, thinking that men should be outside the Lord, and women should be inside.
Men who love you will occasionally prepare small surprises for you on ordinary and trivial days, such as buying you some flowers on special holidays or sending you small gifts.
Although these small things are insignificant, he did do them with his heart. Compared to men who do nothing and are silent, men who can remember your special day and are willing to spend time and energy preparing gifts, your marriage is basically not contradictory.
3, when you are sick or unhappy, he will silently guard your side
I remember a friend before, after hearing the news of his girlfriend's illness, took a special leave of absence from another city to his girlfriend's city, took care of his girlfriend in the hospital for three days, and did not go back until she was discharged from the hospital.
Compared with the various concerns of boys across the screen, girls want to get real care.
When many girls tell boys about their illness, I believe that most boys will say things like "take care of yourself" or "don't go to the hospital to see it".
In fact, these girls know it, and she knows that she will go. The purpose of her telling her lover is to hope that her lover can accompany her, even if she does nothing, silently guards and is satisfied.
But it's such a simple thing that many men can't do. It's not that they don't want to do it, it's that they don't want to do it.
Especially for people who don't love, putting so much energy into it will not end up together anyway, so there is no need to waste time.
Men are very realistic and will take the initiative to do a lot for you when he loves you and will not ask you for anything in return.
But once he doesn't love you anymore, then everything he does for you, he will remember very clearly, and even ask you to pay the corresponding return.
When men don't love you, all your emotions don't matter either. He won't care about your mood changes, much less about your physical condition.
This is the most realistic feeling, as long as it is experienced by everyone who feels it.
In the relationship, many times it is not that the man is not careful, he is just unwilling to pay the heart and is too lazy to do it.
Some men have a huge change of mindset once they reach a certain age, and he is not looking for someone to love, but to find a free "nanny".
As long as you do the housework well at home and reduce his burden on the outside, it will all be enough. He won't care about your feelings, and he won't blame himself for your unhappiness.
An unworthy relationship will make you scratch your body, and a happy relationship will make you feel good in the world.
Therefore, when looking for a lover, please be sure to polish your eyes and not be confused by men's rhetoric.
A person's inner is more important than the outside, the appearance is only temporary, and the inner is a lifetime.
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