When we were young, we always thought that sincerity could be exchanged for sincerity, so we would show a hundred points of enthusiasm and sincerity to treat everyone.
But in the end, it turns out that everything is too naïve for us, and those who we have really paid, perhaps for them, we are just dispensable, and even for their own interests, they will not hesitate to hurt you.
Later, as we grew up, we learned to protect ourselves and fight for ourselves with actions, but someone put a knife in your chest, and in turn said that you are sensitive, you put the knife back, and he said that you are "this little thing."
For such a thing, many people feel aggrieved at the same time, but helpless, people living in this world, it is indeed impossible to completely cut off the connection with others, but sometimes we should really pay attention to ourselves, for others, if it is a well-meaning friend, you can make a heart, otherwise you can not try to adjust to the "silent" mode.
In the eyes of many friends, Huang Juan is a very strong woman, she feels that things, basically others are difficult to change, no matter how others persuade it is useless.
Just as she decided to resign to do micro-business, the micro-business industry at that time has long ceased to be the original, and many people are unwilling to believe in the entire "businessman" in the circle of friends, especially the purchasing type, everyone is more willing to go to the official website to buy, thinking that this is more secure.
So when her friends heard about Huang Juan's decision, almost no one approved of it, and asked her to turn back as soon as possible, but Huang Juan couldn't listen to anything and plunged into it.
In the time since then, everyone can see her in the circle of friends every day, sending various commodity messages, everyone thinks that after a period of time, Huang Juan will turn back after tasting the hardships, but she did not.
Half a year later, when everyone got together again, they knew that Huang Juan had really done a good job in business during this time, and earned more than going to work.
In fact, for the "unreliable" matter of micro-business, Huang Juan naturally knows, but what makes her different from others is that before officially doing micro-business, many people around her will help buy various daily necessities through her.
After the number of people increased, Huang Juan was a little annoyed, and she wanted to reject everyone through the euphemism of the price increase, but she did not want to accept it, and it was she who came up with the idea of doing micro-business.
She also knows that this matter is like a "gamble", if she wins, she can take her life to another stage, if she loses, she may have nothing, but if she does not try once, maybe life will be as stable as ever, but after many years of looking back, there are still some regrets.
Just when Huang Juan's micro-business is doing more and more prosperous, a friend also wants to join together, Huang Juan agreed, she is willing to share her supply to each other, after all, everyone is a friend, she is also willing to pull each other.
But what I didn't expect was that just after the other party basically gave up, he began to spread various rumors in the circle of friends that were unfavorable to Huang Juan, ruining her reputation at the same time, and also pulling many customers to his side.
For a time, Huang Juan's business fell directly to the bottom, and friends who understood the reason were naturally on her side, but they could not change anything.
Until the outbreak of the epidemic, many overseas channels for taking goods were all broken, but fortunately, Huang Juan has relatives abroad, and after the epidemic recovers, she can help her replenish.
In contrast, the previous ill-intentioned friend, because he had received a large order before, lost the trust of customers after the supply of goods was not available, and then was forced to quit the line.
In fact, in life, women who live more and more vigorously often adjust their lives appropriately to "mute" mode.
Many times, we need to listen to the opinions and voices of others, not to completely take ourselves out of the group, but also not to care too much about other people's opinions.
Can't be crushed by other people's tongues, go your own way, take your own ideas, make your own decisions, and do everything with a clear conscience.
Many people are too concerned about other people's opinions, so that others directly become the leader of their own lives, but it turns out that in this case, once life becomes a chicken feather in the future, the most direct victim is everyone, not others.
Therefore, everyone must learn to take the lead in life in their hands, and appropriate stubbornness is the code to success.
At the same time, in the process of getting along with people, do not be too kind, the old saying "the heart of harming people must not be there, the heart of preventing people must not be without", in the face of interests, many relationships may become vulnerable.
Therefore, we must learn to adjust our lives to "mute" mode, properly block the voices of these sinister people, and do not let them affect the quality of our lives.
In this world, most things may be robbed, but life must be your own, so choosing how to live and how to live is something that only everyone can decide.
Maybe your choice may not be the best, but at least when you think about it in the future, you will not feel regret and regret.