The people who are closest to themselves in the world are their parents, it is the mother who gives us life, gives us careful care from childhood, cares for our growth step by step, when we are sick, it is the mother who stays up all night, on the road to growth, it is the mother who brings encouragement again and again, and we have the courage to persevere.
The mother's love is sensual, intense and fiery, and the father's love is rational, silent but profound. However, regarding family affection, there will also be some appalling events in society. Is there an eighty-year-old mother who has the heart to poison her forty-six-year-old son with intellectual disabilities, is the mother really such a vicious person? How could she do it in the face of her own son?
First, look forward to the son, carefully raised
The old man's name is Huang Juan, and her husband Li Gang is newly married to Yan'er, the couple has just married, and is still immersed in the sweetness of the new marriage. However, as the days passed, Huang Juan did not conceive a child for a long time after marriage. The husband did not care on the surface, and did not want to put too much pressure on his wife, so Yun gently comforted Huang Juan, don't worry, it will always come, and the child will be pregnant sooner or later.
The couple gradually calmed down and wanted to wait for the arrival of this child, but it was six years of waiting. In 1971, it was an ordinary day, Huang Juan felt uncomfortable, and after going to the hospital for examination, she found that she was pregnant. The child who had been waiting for six years was finally expected by her.
After learning the news of Huang Juan's pregnancy, all the people in the family were very happy and waited for the arrival of new life. Pregnant in October, this little life conceived with hard work was finally born, and there was a lot of laughter in the original cold family, like all parents, Huang Juan's biggest hope is that their son can be healthy and safe, and grow up smoothly.
However, as the children grow up day by day, Huang Juan and Li Gang's son seems to be a little different, compared with other children of the same age, he seems to be different from other normal children. This discovery really saddened the young couple, and the son who was originally good now seems to be unable to grow up healthy as desired.
Second, the discovery of illness, the husband and wife are sad
Ordinary children, about one year old, can speak the Tao, can walk and run, and can communicate with their parents about their growth. However, Huang Juan's children did not barely speak a few words until they were three years old, and the words were not clear and could not communicate with people normally. Not only that, but the three-year-old son still can't walk and needs the help of his parents.
Huang Juan looked at her son, who was different from other children, and her heart was particularly anxious, and she didn't know how to be good. Huang Juan wanted to take her son to the doctor, but her husband comforted her, maybe her son developed later, later than other children, the husband firmly believed that his son was normal, and always advised Huang Juan to want to open up.
Until the son reaches the age of five, he can barely open his mouth to call his parents, and his walk is shaky, and he needs adult support to walk. At this time, Huang Juan and his wife can no longer relax their hearts, the child is not stunted, it is clear that there is a physical problem. After many trips to seek medical treatment, many doctors gave the same diagnosis, and the son suffered from Down syndrome.
At that time, China's medical level was not very developed, pregnancy can not detect the health status of the fetus, if in today's society, pregnant women to detect that the child has Down syndrome, will be the first time to take measures. There is no cure for his son's illness, he cannot take care of himself, his intelligence is only about five years old, and he cannot leave the care of his family for the rest of his life.
Many people have advised Huang Juan and his wife to have a normal child while they are young and take care of their son in the future. However, Huang Juan did not believe in fate, and worked hard to teach her son the most basic life skills, over and over again to let her son learn to be a normal person. Finally, at the age of fifteen, the son seems to have learned some basic life knowledge and can communicate normally with his parents.
Third, worry that no one will take care of it, and take medicine with a fierce heart
Huang Juan had thought that life would go on like this, and her son would get better day by day, but the good times were not long, and when her son was about thirty years old, he was paralyzed in bed due to cerebellar atrophy. At first, the husband could help Huang Juan take care of his paralyzed son, and the two were quite handy together, but unfortunately, Li Gang's death gave the family more pressure.
When her husband died, Huang Juan was left to take care of her paralyzed son alone, and Huang Juan once thought that if she died one day, who would take care of her son? Huang Juan wanted to find a wife for her son who was willing to take care of him, so she prepared a lot of money for this, and wanted to compensate the girl who was willing to take care of her son, but after searching for a long time, no girl was willing to marry her son. Although Huang Juan was helpless, she could only support herself bitterly.
Until Huang Juan was eighty-three years old, she got up many times every night to turn over for her son, and because she could not move, she had to massage her son's atrophied muscles every day. The elderly Huang Juan really couldn't stand it, she felt that she didn't have the strength to take care of her forty-six-year-old son anymore, and she didn't want her son to be left unattended after her death.
She added a lot of sleeping pills to her son's meals, hoping to make him walk peacefully with sleeping pills. Huang Juan ruthlessly fed her son medicine, and eventually because the amount of medicine was too large, her son died. Huang Juan was arrested, she washed her face with tears in court, did not refuse to confess guilt, only said one word, I really can't help him.
epilogue:
Huang Juan said in court, I have never abandoned him, he is my son, I am willing to take care of him, but if I die, who can take care of my stupid son like me? In order to free him, I drugged and killed my son. No mother would kill her own flesh and blood with the heart of her own flesh, and there was really no way to force herself.
Although Huang Juan loves her son and cannot bear him to suffer any more, Huang Juan's behavior is not allowed by law, and killing people and taking drugs is even more illegal. In view of Huang Juan's voluntary admission of guilt, the law proceeded from the perspective of human feelings and sentenced Huang Juan to three years' imprisonment with a four-year suspended sentence. Although the mother is for the sake of her son, she must also do things within the scope of the law.