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Men's calculations think they are seamless, but in fact, they are just carving insects in the eyes of women.
If love is mixed with calculation, then love is not love, but a transaction, an exchange of benefits.
Men always like to say that women are too realistic and materialistic, and have requirements for the size of the marriage room and the number of bride price. Isn't it realistic for men? Aren't men material at all? In fact, women mostly show everything on the outside, while men show it in the heart.
Men's calculations are often unimaginable to women and the city government.
Zhang Ailing said, "Love is like a shell on the beach, don't pick the biggest, don't pick the most beautiful, pick your favorite, and never go to the beach again." "Happiness is always about what you have, not what you've lost and missed.
After a woman meets love, her IQ and emotional intelligence are worrying. Even if the whole world tells her that the man can't marry, the woman still struggles to get herself. It's as if everyone has preconceptions about the man she loves, only she sees the truest, best, and most deserving side of men.
In this case of love, women often suffer big losses. If you don't know how to turn back in time and stop loss in time, it is no exaggeration to say that a woman's life has been ruined by half.
When fans Chen Dian and her boyfriend fell in love, friends, family, and relatives did not agree. Chen Dian believes that her phoenix boyfriend is a "dragon among men", and finally finds that he has looked away.
The boyfriend is the "dragon of men".
Chen Dian's boyfriend is a phoenix man, and she doesn't care about this. Although her boyfriend's family is very poor, Chen Dian is rich, and she already has her own house and car at a young age. So when she's looking for a boyfriend, as long as he's nice to her. Chen Dian is material and asks for nothing from men.
On Valentine's Day or on her boyfriend's birthday, Chen Dian will always prepare expensive gifts for her boyfriend. For example, Apple's mobile phone, laptop, and his favorite drone. At first, every time the boyfriend received a gift, he would hold her for a long time and then say softly, "Thank you, dear." ”
Later, when the boyfriend received other gifts, he would say, "Why didn't you tell me when you bought it?" The color is not what I like, and the configuration is not what I like. Chen Dian, instead of being angry, took the initiative to ask her boyfriend for peace, "Okay, I know, next time before I buy, I must first ask you the opinion of this professional, okay?" ”
When the two went out to eat and go shopping, sometimes Chen Dian was reluctant to buy things for himself, but he bought the coat that his boyfriend looked at twice without blinking. Friends around him think that Chen Dian is too accustomed to his boyfriend, but Chen Dian said, "His family is poor, and everything he can have now is his own efforts." My financial situation is better than his, and it is also right to take more care of him. ”
After the two were together for half a year, Chen Dian's car had been occupied by her boyfriend. Chen Dian can only take the bus or subway, and her explanation to the people around her is, "He is a man, and he always wants face." His colleagues and friends around him have cars, if he doesn't have a car, where to put his face, a man's most important thing is his face. ”
The girlfriend really couldn't look at it anymore, "Chen Dian, is your brain in the water?" He already has this attitude towards you, even the fuel money, the maintenance money of the car, he has to care about you, what do you want with him? I ask you, you two have been together for so long, has he ever given you a decent gift? And what kind of gift you give him can't get your hands on? ”
Chen Dian said, "This matter cannot be counted as such. I'm willing to spend money on him because I already make more. The gifts he gave me were not expensive, because he didn't earn much, and the conditions of his family were really poor. I'm ready to spend my life with him, how can I be financially involved with him? I love his people, not his money, and I'm not a material woman. The girlfriend was speechless.
After that, Chen Dian's friends, family, and relatives did not agree with their relationship. Chen dian did not listen to anyone's words, she identified her boyfriend, and wanted to marry him as his wife. Everyone said that Chen Dian's brain was in the water, only Chen Dian thought that his choice was the most correct. Her boyfriend is the best man in the world for her, and if she misses him, she will regret it for the rest of her life.
In this way, the two began to talk about marriage and marriage. No one agreed to Chen Dian's choice, only her own wishful thinking.
Finally woke up like a dream.
The boyfriend talked to his mother about getting married, and he said, "Chen Dian wants to marry me, and you know her situation." There are houses and cars, and the salary is quite large every month. She was willing to spend money for me, and I didn't spend anything on her. ”
His mother said, "Since she has money, let her spend more." Also, we don't have a bride price. Since she is so rich, she is not bad for the bride price, right? ”
The boyfriend said, "You can rest assured about the bride price, I told her a long time ago, I don't have a penny." At this time, his mother said to him again, "Son, have you not thought of counting her house and car under your name?" If it is not your name alone, at least it is a kind of protection for you. One day you two can't get by, the house or car has half of you, and you don't lose anything. ”
Under the mother's suggestion, the boyfriend began to pay attention to this matter. One day, he said to Chen Dian, "Honey, I don't think I can marry you now." ”
Chen Dian said, "Why? I have a house and a car myself, and the bride price also said that I don't want it, where is the difference? The boyfriend said, "I know you really love me, but I'm a man, and I can't live in your house." Also, I'm going to give you back the car. Every time I went for maintenance, the service staff laughed at me and said that the car was not mine. ”
Chen Dian said, "Then what does it matter?" As long as we have a good relationship, what does it matter? It's just a car, and when it's a big deal to get married, I'll buy you a new car. The boyfriend hurriedly asked, "What about the house?" ”
The boyfriend's expression betrayed his true intentions. At this time, Chen Dian was a little awake. The boyfriend mentioned the problem of the house and the car at this time, and it seems that he was prepared. He must have wanted to add his name to the housebook and then let himself buy him a new car. At that time, even if they can't live one day, the boyfriend will not be able to get out of the house.
Chen Dian didn't expect that her phoenix boyfriend was not stupid at all, and even began to calculate her premarital property before marriage. Fortunately, Chen Dian saw through his treacherous plan in time. Chen Dian said to his boyfriend, "I can give you the house and the car, do you dare to ask for it?" Do you know how many mortgages and car loans you have to pay back every month? With your ability, I'm afraid that you can't afford to give it to you. ”
Chen nodded awake. This time, no longer had to say anything against anyone, and she had already decided she was going to break up.
Women have times when they are blinded by love, just like Chen Dian. The whole world can see that such a boyfriend is not worthy of her love at all, only she holds on to herself.
The boyfriend will be with Chen Dian, mostly because of her money. As a man, he did not think about giving Chen Dian a life, on the contrary, he has always enjoyed the material life that Chen Dian created for him. Even when he received gifts, he was picky and picky, unlike a real man.
If it wasn't for the boyfriend's mother mentioning him, maybe he wouldn't have considered calculating Chen Dian's premarital property. But this is also good, although the two broke up, for Chen Dian, it is a thing that is beneficial and harmless. The boyfriend's calculation made her see his true face completely, and such a man really could not be entrusted for life.
The relationship between the two has come to an end, and I don't know if one day in the future, the boyfriend will complain about his mother. Chen Dian was lucky, she escaped a fire pit and was not dragged down by the men around her for a lifetime. Whether a man can marry or not, women must listen to the opinions of those around them. If everyone thinks that the man can't marry, the woman must think twice.
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