When we first started in love, we all wanted to be stuck with each other all the time:
There is always an endless topic to talk about, a little thing is eager to share with each other immediately, and I am curious about every word he says.
But the moment of passion will always fade slowly, when the feelings return to plain, many people's feelings are maintained, relying on not the 24-hour telephone porridge, but the memorization and contact of important moments.
Some people contact you to pass the boring time, and the people who contact you in these 4 moments are really loving you.
Contact you when you're busy
In today's fast-paced era, everyone's time is precious, and we have to be busy working, busy with life, busy meeting friends, busy socializing.
Therefore, only people who really care about you will take time out of their busy schedules to give you the security of responding to everything.
We used to have a colleague who was working on a tough project with us.
During that time, everyone was really busy, every day was not testing products, or meetings, summarizing reports, often so busy that there was no lunch break.
But the colleague always took advantage of the half-hour of lunch and the video call of his fiancée.
Almost every day, without exception.
We all quipped that they were already expectant wives, why were they still so slimy? With this time, it is better to rest a little longer.
He said that after being together for so long, he was used to hearing her voice every day, and he wanted to know how she was doing this day, and it seemed that this habit could not be changed.
For busy people, time is the most precious resource.
If he's the one who will take the time to reply to your messages when he's too busy to get his feet on the ground, he'll love you too.
Because you're really important to him.
Contact you after a fight
In love, it is impossible to be as sweet as ever, there will always be contradictions and disagreements, small quarrels and small quarrels.
Some boys will throw their heads away after an argument, talk coldly and ignore you, and use a cold and violent attitude to force you to take the initiative to bow your head.
In this kind of boy's heart, his face is the most important, at least more important than you and this relationship, let him take the initiative to show weakness after the quarrel, bow his head and apologize, don't think about it.
And those who really care about you will be willing to put down their bodies after the argument, take the initiative to talk to you, try to make you happy, and try to repair the relationship.
Not because he has no good face, but compared with the so-called face, he cares more about you and is more reluctant to the feelings between you.
Behind the active contact is reluctance, fear of hurting you, and even more afraid of losing you.
Contact you before making a big decision
Some time ago, a friend shared something:
The company had two promotions, and he happened to be among them, but the condition for the direct promotion was that he had to work in the field for two years.
Another colleague agreed without even thinking about it, but he hesitated, saying that he wanted to discuss it with his girlfriend:
He had been with his girlfriend for four years, and had recently been preparing for the wedding, and going to work in the field meant that the wedding would definitely be postponed.
Colleagues advise friends, this promotion opportunity is not every day, the wedding postponement your girlfriend will certainly understand. You can decide this for yourself, her opinion doesn't matter.
My friend said very firmly: She is the person I decided to live for the rest of my life, and her opinion is very important!
At the moment, he chose to call his girlfriend to discuss whether to accept a job abroad.
I don't know how my friend's fiancée felt when she heard this, but I was quite touched anyway, and there is a person who will put your feelings first when making decisions, at least it shows that you are really important in his heart.
In any relationship, mutual respect is paramount:
Because of respect for you, your attitude is very important; because I care about you, I want to know your thoughts first.
Contact you when you are frustrated and sad
Many boys actually have strong self-esteem, and most of them do not show their fragile and sensitive side to outsiders.
Unless it is in the face of the person you trust the most, the most defenseless.
If he contacts you when he is frustrated and sad, even if it is just talking to you, staying for a while can show that you are really important in his heart.
Whether it's a good or bad emotion, he wants to share it with you, and your comfort and companionship is his best motivation.
There are many people in this world who can share happiness and success, but there are few people who can understand your frustration and sadness.
It's really rare to have someone around you who can speak your heart all the time.
If you encounter it, please cherish it.
In our lifetime, we will always meet many, many people, but 95% of them are hurried visitors in our long lives, and it is not easy to meet someone who really loves each other.
Some people contact you just to pass the boring time; some people choose to go back in seconds, just waiting for the bait before the fish is hooked, and the people who contact you at important moments really care about you and value you.
It shows that you are really important in his heart, and you must know how to cherish it.