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The recent entertainment industry can be described as a succession of good news, first South Korean stars Xuan Bin and Sun Yizhen held a wedding, then Chen Qiaoen and her boyfriend received a license, and on April Fool's Day, some netizens broke the news that child star Hao Shaowen successfully proposed marriage.
Hao Shaowen's fiancée was pickpocketed: married and divorced, with a 7-year-old daughter
Hao Shaowen on April 1, the official announced the news of his successful marriage proposal, instantly received a large number of netizens blessings, we watched the grown child star also want to marry a wife and start a family, let people feel both relieved and emotional.
When everyone sent their blessings to Hao Shaowen, everyone was also very curious about his fiancée identity, and it is understood that Hao Shaowen's fiancée Lin Ningrui is a makeup artist in the crew, 2 years younger than Hao Shaowen.
The two people met in the crew, from January 2019 to now, have been in a relationship for nearly 3 years, the feelings are sweet and unstable. However, after a deeper level of deep picking, it was learned that Hao Shaowen's fiancée was actually a divorced single mother, and her daughter was now 7 years old.
And Hao Shaowen chose to marry his fiancée, which means that he is 32 years old and has become a stepfather at a young age. However, Hao Shaowen does not seem to mind the result of becoming a "stepfather" when he gets married, and from the perspective of his fiancée's social platform, it seems that Hao Shaowen gets along well with his fiancée's daughter.
Hao Shaowen married a "second-married" wife, and netizens had mixed views on this
For the news that Hao Shaowen announced his marriage, many people sent blessings, after all, in childhood, "stinky fart text" brought us a lot of joy. But when it was learned that Hao Shaowen was married to a second-married wife, everyone's speech changed direction.
Many netizens expressed their incomprehension, thinking that Hao Shaowen was very good, why should they find a divorced girl with children, and even suspected that the purpose of the girl was not simple, and Hao Shaowen's motives were not pure, and the implication was that he had taken a fancy to Hao Shaowen's money.
You know, although Hao Shaowen's acting career is not so prosperous, his live broadcast career is booming, how can there be tens of millions of sales in a month's live broadcast, and his personal monthly income is estimated to exceed 5 million. Such a high income will inevitably make people feel excited.
Some netizens also feel that although Hao Shaowen is already in his 30s, he still looks like he was a child, and the whole person also gives people a feeling of humility.
On the other hand, his fiancée, with a strange and bold appearance, even shows a fierce face, is not a very good person to get along with at a glance, Hao Shaowen and such a girl together, very worried about whether the future marriage will go long.
From the comments of most netizens, it is not difficult to see that everyone is very concerned about the identity of Hao Shaowen's fiancée as a single mother, thinking that it is inappropriate for an unmarried boy to find a single mother, and then any behavior of the girl is not pleasing to the eye.
In life, would you choose a divorced single mother with children?
Nowadays, the number of divorced people is getting bigger and bigger, and some of them have become single fathers or single mothers, and in the later aspects of mate selection, children often become the biggest obstacle, although people are now open-minded, single mothers with children will still be treated with "colored glasses".
There are still many issues to consider when starting a family with a single mother:
The first thing to understand is why single mothers divorced:
For the problem of a single mother's last failed marriage, it is best to understand clearly whether it is her responsibility or the responsibility of the man, and do not initially subjectively think that the woman must be a vulnerable group;
Second, try to adapt to the role of being a stepfather:
Choosing to become a partner with a single mother, the biggest difficulty is still in the problem of children, not only do you have to adapt to the role of being a ready-made father, if you can't accept this fact, then you still have to give up early;
With single mothers, you must pass the child's pass, you need to work hard to make your child like you, if the child is against it, then the single mother will have a lot of concerns and need to work hard to make the child like you.
The most important thing is that after marriage, how to play the role of a good stepfather, the stepfather and the stepmother are just as bad, not to mention that after having their own children, how to treat the two children is also a problem that needs to be faced.
Becoming a single mother is something that many women have to do, and many women are not willing to take this step, and taking children is a responsible attitude towards children, and it is a strong performance.
The strong, independent, and responsible nature of a single mother, is such a woman not worthy of being loved? Therefore, for women who are divorced with children, they do not have to be too entangled in their divorce, but also with children, first of all, they must have a wonderful life, have weight, in order to attract others.
Today's topic: Will you choose to divorce a single mother with children?