Stal said: "Men are the history of a woman's life, but only an episode in a man's life." ”
Love is romantic and supreme, and it is precisely because of this uniqueness that it determines its preciousness.
However, not all people can take love seriously, and not all people can start from one thing.
The love of two people is fine wine, the love of three people is poisonous wine, and if a woman meets a man who is unfaithful to her feelings, it will be a nightmare.
Wilde said: "Usually for a man who is not emotionally focused, he can fall in love with any woman. ”
Case Study:
In the TV series "Thirty Only", Lin Zhengxian is a typical sea king, he meets a love one, obviously has a fiancée for many years, after meeting Wang Manni, he still pursues it fiercely.
Lin Zhengxian is a perfect man in the eyes of Wang Manni, he understands romance, after knowing Wang Manni, he felt that she worked hard, he gave her a car, and gave him material needs all the time, and knew how to create some romantic surprises for Wang Manni.
Although Lin Zhengxian pleases Wang Manni everywhere, he is a man that Wang Manni can't grasp at all, he claims to be an unmarried person, although he is in love with Wang Manni, he does not have any intention of marrying her.
And he brainwashed Wang Manni with the idea of an unmarried person, until the appearance of Lin Zhengxian's fiancée, Wang Manni truly realized the true face of Lin Zhengxian.
But when Wang Manli found out that he had a fiancée, he did not feel ashamed of this, and even lied and apologized, but said to Wang Manni very frankly: "Not to let you be a little third, but there is one thing I absolutely did not lie to you, I really like you, I have convinced Zhao Jingyu, you two one south and one north do not interfere with each other." ”
Obviously, those "come and do not refuse" Aquaman have no sense of responsibility to speak of, and these men, no matter how disguised, but his body language cannot deceive people.
Usually our language is expressed under the memory that the brain processes repeatedly, and our body language is the result of subconscious.
1. Inappropriate physical distance
Psychologist Bulo believes that the physical distance between people reflects the psychological distance between them, and the more intimate the relationship between two people, the closer the psychological distance between them.
Usually for men who are not specific to love, there is no proper definition of the psychological distance between him and others, and it can even be said that this kind of man, he and any woman will have physical intimacy.
Some emotion scientists have found that men who are prone to cheating have a very rich social state and a vague distance between them and women.
A man he always makes some inappropriate jokes about other women, and always mingles with women, and does not know how to respect you, often such a man, he does not understand the sense of responsibility of love, and will not respect his lover.
Maybe this kind of man is very good at rhetoric, and he is very able to understand women's needs, and will meet women's pleasure, but it is precisely because these subconscious behaviors reflect men's personality characteristics.
Second, the fluttering eyes
People's eyes are often primary, usually people focus their attention on a goal, then his eyes will subconsciously turn to this goal.
Men who come and don't refuse, he may be interested in any woman, so this type of man, his eyes are difficult to really focus on a woman.
First look at this man, whether he is focused enough on your eyes, whether he has patience, a man who is difficult to spend a long time looking at a person, indicating that his heart is impetuous.
Second, look at whether when he pays attention to other women around him, he often looks at other women, and even looks at other women intentionally or unintentionally.
The eye is the window of the individual's mind, and a simple look can reflect a man's state of mind.
The famous host Tu Lei said in the program: "I would rather give a ghost who raises a bar than a thief with a sweet mouth."
We found that the more men who can disguise, they will also show a different side, so his language and behavior are often very contrasting, and women must learn to recognize this man and stay away from each other in time.
As Yi Shu said: "The grievances that can be said are not grievances, and the lovers who can be snatched away are not called lovers." ”
Love is like a bet of youth, and if it fails, we can't afford to lose, especially for women, because youth is gone.
Miyazaki wrote in Spirited Away: "Life is a train to the grave, there will be many stations on the road, and it is difficult for anyone to accompany them from beginning to end." When your companion is about to get off the bus, you should be grateful even if you don't give up, and then wave goodbye. ”
To see a man's real face, you must learn to leave, otherwise the longer you fall into it, the more you torture yourself, the more amorous men are good at romantic confessions, and flashy love will not go long, they seem to love, but in fact, only he loves himself.
References: Subconscious, Psychology of Love