Uncle Lover's Introduction:
The smooth flow of a relationship is not a natural success, whether it is a man or a woman in dealing with feelings are skilled.
Why can some women hold on to men and make men willingly pay for themselves? In fact, it is because women know what men need, and they will not violate men's bottom line in their feelings. Smart women never ask men these three questions.
A man's ex love issue
Many white-headed and elderly couples have also experienced a lot of setbacks to have such an ending, and the beginning of their love is not necessarily smooth, and they do not meet the people they want to accompany for a lifetime at the beginning.
On the road to love, we can't judge who we will eventually spend the rest of our lives with. Just like many people have heart-wrenching feelings, but in the end they can't end well, in fact, there are many reasons involved, and some people are reluctant to touch and talk about it anymore, because the past has passed.
But there are some silly women who will still struggle with each other's ex questions when they are in love with men, and they will ask questions that are particularly embarrassing and even scarred. For example, you've talked about a few exes, who do you love the most, and when you ask questions like that, you're already a loser in the relationship.
No matter how many predecessors a man has, and no matter how deeply the person has the impression on him, the ex has become a thing of the past, why do you have to deepen the impression of the other party in his heart, this is actually just a matter of not being able to live with himself. A truly intelligent woman never asks questions about the other person's ex's love, she knows that what she has now is the best, and what you have to hold on to is the other person's present and future.
Men's leadership colleague problems
Women who struggle with various problems in love are actually particularly stupid, because there are some questions that you shouldn't ask. Why are some smart women so happy? It is because they know how to handle things in a measured manner, and they also know what things should not be asked and not said. When you understand this, your love will also be very smooth.
Smart women in love will not be too entangled in the problem of men's leadership colleagues, because this problem is also very sensitive. If you always have to dwell on men's work and leadership if there is nothing to do, guess what kind of thinking men will be?
Are you interested in his leadership colleagues? Or do you want to get some intelligence by asking this question? Love is a matter of two people, and if you are also interested in the leadership of a man's colleagues, it will make the man gradually lose interest in you.
Men's financial details
Love needs people to grasp the balance of it, and only if you hold it properly can you control it. If you yourself have lost your measure, then the relationship is in jeopardy.
Smart women understand this, so they don't ask too much, especially since the details of a man's finances are taboo for men. When you and the man have not yet talked about marriage, you don't need to know the man's financial details, you just need to know a rough idea. You know his approximate income and approximate expenditure, and you don't have to worry about where he spends every cent of his money. These are actually not particularly related to you, and if you go too far to find stubble, it will appear that your purpose is too strong.
Uncle Epilogue:
Sometimes in love, you are appropriate and casual, which will actually increase the man's good feelings for you, because no man wants to be completely controlled and bound. Everyone needs their own space, and smart women understand the essence of not asking more and not caring more, so that they can harvest the ending they want in love.