There will be no pie in the sky, people will not stay at home all the time, and nothing can be done all day, so we need to find our own value in life.
Marriage is an important stage of life, but it may not be smooth sailing, and now that the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, it cannot be said that it is the reason for one party, but also the reason for it from both parties.
In a relationship, what we need is the payment of both sides, not the fearless payment of one party, nor the fearless demand of one party, and the selfish end can only be separated.
Shan Dama, 68, also chose to divorce again.
Ever since she first married, during which time she had been abused by her first husband, she knew it couldn't be the end of her life. Since you can't live together, you can only get divorced.
It's to give your first husband a chance, and it's also a chance to give yourself a chance.
After the divorce, The single aunt also has a suite, the pension is 2500 yuan a month, and there is no problem in supporting herself.
After a few years of divorce, Aunt Shan found another wife, but the second husband liked the new and tired of the old, and soon got along with other women outside.
Aunt Shan was abandoned this time, but reality did not let her continue to be sad, because life still went on.
Shan Da Mama has a total of 3 children, the eldest son followed her first husband, the second daughter died of illness when she was 19 years old, and the younger son died accidentally when he went to play by the river at the age of 6. Do people always get unlucky when they are unlucky? Why did life make such a big joke to Aunt Shan.
However, Heaven still pitied Aunt Shan, giving her another chance to find her own happiness.
By chance, Aunt Shan fell in love with Uncle Guo, because Uncle Guo's temperament was pinched to death.
The 64-year-old Uncle Guo suffered a leg injury and walked a bit unfavorably, but uncle has 2 duplex bungalows under his name, and the pension is 3500 yuan in January. Just look at these, the conditions of the uncle are good.
After the matchmaking of the matchmaker, Uncle Guo and Aunt Shan began a blind date.
For the first time the two met, they had a good impression of each other. The two chatted happily, but at this time, Shan Dama made the atmosphere awkward.
Although Aunt Shan likes Uncle Guo, but she is a little uneasy, she feels that Uncle Guo's legs are the sequelae left by cerebral infarction or cerebral thrombosis, she also wants To let Uncle Guo take a few steps to see, it seems that Aunt Shan still cares about Uncle Guo's legs.
Uncle Guo's face suddenly turned black, and he took a few steps in desperation, but Aunt Shan was still not satisfied.
Seeing that the atmosphere was not quite right, Aunt Shan has been praising Uncle Guo, although the words are somewhat straightforward and not very good, but Uncle Guo still showed a smile.
Shan Aunt saw that Uncle Guo was happy, so she directly shifted the topic to discuss the distribution of property after marriage, she wanted to take her own salary, and Uncle Guo's salary was used as an expense for the two people's lives, and then she had to give pocket money to Shan Aunt every month.
Uncle Guo listened to Aunt Shan's unreasonable request and broke out in a cold sweat, but he still patiently said that marriage is a matter for two people, and it is necessary to bear it together, isn't it like this to live together? If it is what Aunt Shan said, it is not appropriate after all.
Aunt Shan was anxious and shouted directly to Uncle Guo, "If I follow you, it is your woman, and it is not natural to spend your money, you should cover me to eat and live, and give me a lot of pocket money." ”
Uncle Guo knew that he could not meet the requirements of Aunt Shan, so he turned around and left, and perhaps a silent answer was the best answer.
The blind date between the two ended in failure.
Marriage is not such a simple thing, we need to go through a lot of tribulations to get our own good match.
The first two marriages owned by Shan Da mama are unfortunate, and marriage is a matter of two people, so Shan Da Mama also has a reason. Now she has not seized the opportunity, but she can go to find her true happiness, and hope that everyone's blind date can go smoothly.
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