The mouth of a parent determines the fate of a child!
Eliminating disasters and avoiding disasters requires morality.
As the old Chinese saying goes, "evil comes out of the mouth," and a person who doesn't speak in proportion will often lead to great disasters. A man's mouth can not only destroy his blessings, but even his life.
As a parent, you must not say these words to your children, otherwise your children will be in constant trouble and tragedies!
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Destroying a child requires only a few bad words
The Fa-Ching Sutra says: Vicious language is like a sharp axe hidden in the mouth, and if you are not careful, you will hurt yourself and hurt others.
The "suggestive effect" of psychology reminds us:
If parents only know how to blindly criticize, suppress, blame, and insult their children, what children get from their parents is a negative evaluation, which will lead to children's inferiority, depression, and self-denial.
Slowly, they will become the kind of people their parents say, and finally live a negative life and achieve nothing.
Someone once did such an experiment:
Two identical green plants were placed in the same environment, and the experimenter was asked to play a recording of insults on one of the green plants, while the praise recordings were constantly played on the other green plant.
After 30 days, something unexpected happened: a constantly abused green plant, withered leaves, withered and died. The green plants that are praised are full of life and leafy.
The harm of vicious language to plants is still so great, let alone people?
Say some vicious things to your child often, and your child's life will be slowly ruined.
The survey found that many parents do not know how to educate their children, and only know how to curse their children with vicious language after the children have problems.
These words cause great harm to the child's heart and have always grown with him.
Eventually their children will develop in the direction of their insults, willing to degenerate, and even the gods will not be able to change.
Buddhism says: Planting melons to get melons, planting beans to get beans, cause and effect are not vain. What we plant in the field of our hearts, we will eventually reap.
If you often blame the child, you will inevitably get a child who is inferior and rebellious; if you often praise the child, you will inevitably get a sunny and confident child.
It is easy to create a lot of bad karma often, and these bad karma can consume the wealth and even merit that we have in our destiny!
Only by saying good things with a good heart can we make our interpersonal relationships harmonious.
Give children full freedom, respect, and love, and they will be happy in the future!
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The mouth of the parent determines the child's life
The Buddhist scriptures tell us that if you want to know the results of the next life, you only need to look at what he has done in this life.
To know what a child's future holds, you only have to look at the mouths of your child's parents.
The words spoken from the mouths of parents will be realized one by one in real life.
There was once a true story: in a remote town, there was a couple who had a son, and the son was very rebellious and always ran into trouble outside.
The couple was very annoyed and couldn't help but scold the child, who ran away from home in a fit of rage, and three years later, the child heard nothing.
The child's father was very distressed, found a Zen master, confided in him, and told the Zen master about his son's shortcomings.
After his father finished speaking, the Zen master asked him, "How long have you been cursing your child like this?" ”
The father shook his head in surprise and said, "How can I curse my son, I have always hoped in my heart that he can correct his shortcomings and become a useful person in the future!" ”
The Zen master smiled and said, "You have been talking about your son's shortcomings, and all that comes out of your words is blame for him. ”
The father suddenly realized that since then, the couple has never said anything wrong with their son, and everyone has said good things about their son.
It wasn't long before a miracle occurred when the son, who had never been in touch before, actually called the couple and made an appointment to have a meal with his parents.
After meeting, the couple re-embraced their children and kept praising them.
The son thought that his parents would count themselves down as before, but found that they not only did not blame themselves but also praised him, and felt very guilty in their hearts, and soon reconciled with their parents and moved back home.
The improvement in the couple's relationship with the children began when they stopped "cursing" their sons.
The Dharma has clouds: "When the mind is born, then the Dharma is born." ”
What kind of thoughts arise in the heart, what kind of words will be said in the mouth, and our lives will also develop in the corresponding direction.
Many children will position themselves through their parents' evaluation of themselves, and what their parents say in their daily lives will form a certain concept in their children's minds.
If the parents pass on negative information, the child will also become negative, even self-denying.
Therefore, teach your child to be very serious, but don't say something that hurts your child!
Whether a child's future is bright or bleak often depends on the mouth of the parent.
A harsh and mean mouth can consume thousands of blessings. Only by protecting the mouth can children and daughters be blessed endlessly.
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Speak well to improve family feng shui
The "Auspicious Sutra" says: If a person wants to obtain auspiciousness, he must say something that makes people happy in his heart when interacting with people.
Say good things to make good luck!
There was once a test like this:
A little boy was calling his mother, who was in a bad mood and scolded after receiving the call: "I will arrive soon, you don't want to urge anymore, like a hypnotist!" ”
The little boy heard his mother's words and was too frightened to speak. After hanging up the phone, he secretly began to cry.
The staff then asked the mother to take the initiative to call the little boy back, asking her to change the tone of speech, the mother adjusted her mentality and said to the child gently: "Child, don't be afraid, the mother is coming, you wait for the mother, don't run around." ”
The little boy stopped crying after listening to his mother's words, immediately laughed, and waited quietly for his mother in the same place.
To put it nicely, the more goodwill we send to the outside world, the stronger the positive energy around us, the weaker and weaker negative energy will be, and the better luck will be.
The evil mouth hurts people, as if swinging a fist to hit the wall, so that the stronger it is, the greater the reaction force, and the greater the damage to itself.
In family education, the words and deeds of parents have a profound impact on the growth of children.
Parents are always quarreling, the family atmosphere is tense and cold, and children born in such families will feel inferior from an early age, and they will often encounter unhappiness when they grow up.
Saying good things can not only educate children, but also improve the feng shui of a family.
If the heart is good and the mouth is vicious, the blessing will also be transformed into disaster; the good heart will speak well, and the descendants will also receive infinite blessings!
The wisdom of the sages