A person's name is not only a formatted symbol of TA's existence as an independent individual, but also a beautiful meaning that family members, elders, especially parents, especially parents, have ardent expectations and send beautiful messages.
Some people say that names are very important and will affect the trend of life, such as affecting these aspects: personality, academics, fortune, official luck, happiness index, etc.; others say that the name is just a code name, just like a cat and a dog.
As for whether a person's name is important, it is probably the wise to see the wise! However, the names of people in each era have a unique atmosphere of the times, and the names of "Jianhong" and "Patriotic" from decades ago are almost one in every dozen people.
When people stride into the new era with their heads held high, names like "Zihan" and "Chenyu" are also extremely highly repeated, with 40 students per class, and the teacher has to rank No. 1, No. 2, No. 3...
Today's parents give their children names, and there are many more creative tricks, some parents are particularly fond of multi-stroke words, and deliberately take those difficult and stroke-rich names for their children.
Maybe you want to show that your child has a personality, maybe you want to set off your own high level of culture, more meaning is that there is no one who has never come before, and it is impossible to repeat the name. For example, the name:
The advantages of such a name are obvious, it is too special, the disadvantages are very prominent, and it is very likely that teachers and classmates cannot pronounce it. When children go to school or deal with people, it is estimated that they must prepare their names with pinyin in advance so that they will not read a big joke.
When parents take this name, they may only think that they can embarrass many people, but they never think of harming their children. If nothing else, whenever the exam is held, when the children write their names, the other students have already solved several questions.
This is not the worst thing, until the child grows up, every time because of the pain of the name, it should be like upgrading to fight monsters, each time more difficult to get it. At the very least, the matter of going to the household registration makes it difficult for the staff to cry, what is the benefit?
There is also the next school, whether it is the primary examination, the middle school entrance examination, or the college entrance examination, is one of the most important turning points in life, and if you accidentally record the wrong name, the consequences are clear to everyone.
To say that taking names is exquisite, some people like to use some complex and strange words, while some people think that the simpler the more personality.
No, the first-grade teacher took the roster and looked at it for half a day, and there was a name that could not be read for a long time.
Compared with the name with nearly 100 strokes above, this name is really simple, with only two strokes of the name and surname. The "B" surname is very rare, a stroke in place, and the name has only one "one" word, and it is a stroke in place.
If the little friend named "Xuan Yi" meets this "Yi Yi" child, it is estimated that he will be so angry that he will run home and be too lazy to pay attention to his parents for a few days. Don't say that the exam can win people, just this name will lose at the starting line.
Naming a child is indeed a very nerve-wracking thing. Use words with complex font structure, and worry that children will not write or write a name is too time-consuming; use simple words, and there is no rich connotation; sometimes take care of the meaning, but ignore the pronunciation of the name with the surname.
There is nothing wrong with reading the text alone, but after pronouncing the sound, what? Make no mistake about it, right? Read it again, absolutely not mispronounce "toilet lid" or "toilet".
Parents give their children such names, they can't wait for their children to cry and faint in the toilet after going to school, and when they go to the police station to register, they will be stopped by the staff.
If naming children is a test of parents' cultural level, writing skills, and the amount of reading of books, this is also a spelling father. Nowadays, the education of children is definitely the era of fighting for mothers has quietly come.
Do not let the child lose at the starting line, the mother shoulders the positions of pregnancy, nanny, teacher, coach, driver, chef, etc., the mother has become a multi-functional robot, to be more hardworking than the nanny, more professional than the chef, more able to read stories than the radio, and more love to learn than when she was a student.
Mothers hover over their children's heads like helicopters 24 hours a day, not only to fight for family economic strength, but also to fight for mothers' time, energy, emotional intelligence, and emotional management capabilities.
There are often parents on the Internet who say that tutoring children to write homework, either by roaring, or the heart can not eat, anyway, when it comes to homework, it is a chicken flying dog jumping. If you really think that all you need to do with your homework is this, you are very wrong.
Today's education has particularly high requirements for the title of mother, at least the following four points:
Know how to respect
The child is an independent individual being, and the child does not belong to the parents, but comes into this world through the parents. Parents are only their children's companions, guides, and listeners. Parents should not only respect their children, but also follow their growth laws.
High quality companionship
Some parents think that their children are writing homework on the side and brushing their mobile phones on the side, which is companionship. Parents are the child's first teacher, in order to grow up healthily, parents must not only achieve high-quality accompaniment, but also grasp the principle of parenting: family affection first, personality second, knowledge third, to cultivate children's lifelong happiness ability
Accept the child
Some parents only have "other people's children" in their eyes, and it is difficult to accept their own children in front of them. Do you know? When you compare your own children with other people's children, you are hurting your child's self-esteem and shame step by step, and these two hearts are the soul of self-confidence. A person with insufficient self-confidence is impossible to succeed. Therefore, no matter whether the child's grades are good or poor, whether the child is beautiful or average, whether it is talented or talented, parents must accept it unconditionally.
Self-improvement
There is a saying that parents study well, and children are improving every day. On the road to children's growth, children need to study well, and parents should keep pace with the times to improve themselves, so as to keep up with the pace of children's growth, to put it bluntly, not to drag children's hind legs.
In short, giving a child a name, although it seems simple to operate, but to educate the child well, to cultivate the child's lifelong happiness ability, but not a decision to pat the head, we must study well, upgrade the education system, and be a good mentor of the child's life.