Children are lively and active, always curious about their surroundings, but to be honest, when it comes to releasing their nature, adult discipline is really a headache. Adults often say that children are naughty. In fact, in the eyes of some people, these naughty children are actually very smart, and their IQ is relatively high, so there is a saying that the smarter the child, the more difficult it is to bring.
First, it will be difficult to carry a child's IQ
So if your kids are going to have these naughty things, then I congratulate you
Not long ago, the genius teenager Cao Yuan, because of his deeds on the Internet caused a fierce debate among many netizens. Born in 1996, he was admitted to the University of Science and Technology of China with excellent results at the age of 14. At the age of 22, he published two high-profile articles in the journal Nature, this time two in this magazine. He was only 24 years old.
Obviously, it is no exaggeration to call him the "big wave" on the internet. So what was his childhood like for such a talented young man? Is he an obedient child or a headache for his parents?
Cao Yuan's parents revealed that he liked to ask questions when he was a child. Whenever he didn't understand or was curious, he would ask why. Although the children often asked their parents questions, Cao Yuan's parents would patiently answer him.
In addition, when he was a child, he was very keen on demolishing things, and even wanted to demolish the small electrical appliances in his home, so Cheng was also known as the "King of Demolition". But even so, his parents didn't stop him from tearing down the house. If you really broke the appliance, buy another one. That's what their parents used to say to him.
Second, the following performance is also a manifestation of high INTELLIGENCE
1. Love to ask questions
When children have the ability to express themselves, they are eager to express their thoughts and curiosities. Children often ask questions to show that they are thinking, which is a way of learning. Children with high IQs have more flexible brains and are more willing to ask questions.
2, like to open things with your hands
The development of fine hand movements in children greatly improves their hands-on ability. Driven by curiosity and a thirst for knowledge, children are eager to take things apart and find them. For children with high IQs, their preference for open things not only indicates that they have a strong hands-on ability, but also that they think regularly and have good thinking skills.
3. Like to be alone in a daze
Some parents think that children are active and smart, but in fact, children who like to be in a daze may have a high IQ. It is said that Einstein was a confused child, and even the teacher felt that Einstein was different from a normal child and felt that he had some problems. But Einstein's mother believed that Einstein's son was thinking. Yes, once a child falls into contemplation, he is not affected by external things.
Third, the child's IQ is not only innate, but also needs to be cultivated and guided by parents
1. Provide a free environment for children to grow
When children doodle, parents will find a picture book to copy for their children, and when asking questions, parents will give their children the answers to the rules. On the surface, parents meet the growing needs of their children, but in reality, they create a restrictive environment with many rules and regulations. A free environment to grow up stimulates their imagination, gives them more freedom of thought, and makes them smarter.
2. Protect your child's curiosity
When a child is under pressure from too many tasks and goals, the child's curiosity and ability to explore will continue to be compressed. Therefore, parents need to protect their children's curiosity about the world and not let education interfere with their children's growth. When children think that everything in life is vivid and interesting, their minds are open and their brains absorb knowledge like a sponge.
3. Pay attention to the development of children's potential
Parents should pay attention to the development of children's potential during the rapid development of the brain, give enough environmental stimulation, and encourage children to develop hobbies. Especially in the age group of 0-10 years old, proper educational guidance from parents is likely to make the child's brain neural network more diverse.
The words and deeds of parents are important to children. Parents usually adopt the correct teaching methods and concepts, and the children will be excellent in all aspects. The usual guidance of parents can not only broaden the child's thinking, but also make the child's future better.
The book is the Observational Concentration Memory Training Book, a total of 12 volumes. There are many puzzle games in the book, including mazes, numbers, connections, and more. When children focus on games, their attention is exercised, and their brains are developed to the maximum extent in games, allowing children to become smarter and smarter in easy and simple games.
summary:
Parents want to develop their children's emotional intelligence in the right way. Let children enter society in the future and thrive even if they are not well educated.