Calling people, often as juniors see the elders they know, kindly and politely call people. This not only shows greeting the elderly and respecting the elderly, but also allows children to develop the habit of respecting the elderly from childhood, so as to become a cultured and gentlemanly person in the future in work and life.
So what can we do in life to make children open their mouths?
First, guide children ideologically, be polite to people, and win the likes of others.
Calling people is a kind of upbringing, a manifestation of high quality. Then it is necessary to deepen this concept in the child's mind. When you take a child and meet other children who call you, you should praise the child loudly and say that the child is polite and very cute. Any child loves to be praised. Therefore, when he heard that other children were praised, he was not convinced. Seeing the elderly with high grades, you can remind the child, open your mouth to call people, if the child is called, you must give her a lot of praise.
Second, bedtime stories, you can buy some books for your children to talk about politeness.
When parents buy books for their children, they can buy some books about this aspect, so that when the child asks you to tell him about the book, you can tell him about it. Then let him know why he should call people, what is the benefit of calling people, and what is the benefit to himself. Thus telling him that a polite person will not only make people think you are cute, but also make everyone like you. Moreover, when you encounter a problem and need help from others, they will willingly help you because of your polite voice.
Third, take the child to contact people, politely greet people in front of her, and lead by example.
Many times, children are not called people because in the process of growing up, there is little contact with people, there is a sense of strangeness, and inner timidity. Therefore, in life, let the child contact outsiders, more in the process of contact, let the child see his polite behavior of calling people, he will be affected, and then from the beginning of timidity, dodging, to generous and polite call people. As long as the first step is taken, the child will not find it difficult to call people.
Fourth, motivate, encourage children to open first, call people after, be sure to praise children, and even have small rewards.
When the child starts calling people, he will bark loudly. At this time, you must not hit the child and reprimand him. Say the sound of his mosquitoes, and let the child repeat the call. In this way, the child will be disgusted and unhappy. You will feel that you have been asked, and you will be silent. At this time, you can privately affirm him first, saying that he is very nice and polite. Then tell him that the old man has the back of his ear, and if he shouts loudly, the old man will hear it more clearly. Moreover, it will be heard by more people and will win the likes of more people. Do it all, who does not want to do better, so the child will remember it, and when it comes to the next time, he will naturally try to shout loudly. Moreover, if the child behaves well, when buying him snacks, tell him that because he is polite and called, he can let her choose one she likes, so that he will be very happy.
Fifth, the whole family mobilization, there can be no members to sing the opposite, so that multi-party cultivation will become accustomed to nature.
The matter of the child calling people requires the mobilization of the whole family. When taking children, everyone should pay more attention to guiding children. The more times, the child will naturally not think how difficult it is to call people, so that he will slowly develop the habit of calling people. Don't, there are anti-tuners in the family, the child is not called, when guiding, next to a sentence: "If you don't call, don't call it." Call again next time. Such words. In this way, the child will think in his heart that calling people is not important.
Good habits need to be cultivated gradually, which is closely related to family education. Therefore, children do not call people, or they have to find problems from their parents. As long as parents guide correctly and give children certain help in thoughts, words and deeds, if they want to come, the children will not disappoint their parents.