"Three-year-olds are also dogs", although this is a joke, it can also reflect some realities. When many children enter the 3rd year old, they begin to make many parents crazy.
Children make a lot of noise, cry and love to become commonplace, exaggerated is even more specialized in destruction, do not let what to do, parents explicitly prohibit things have become his "code of conduct"...
In fact, everything is normal, and parents must understand and then be prepared to deal with it.
Self-awareness gradually increases
From the child's around the age of 3, self-awareness gradually forms and strengthens, which also means that they care more and more about their own ideas, and the former well-behaved babies begin to challenge the authority of their parents.
Because children's physical and mental development is not perfect, they often do not understand their parents' statements and practices.
Before the formation of self-awareness, children will follow the parents' words, once formed, children are self-centered, will ask parents to listen to themselves, otherwise they will cry, serious will hit people.
This is also the so-called "small rebellion period", parents should understand this normal phenomenon, this is the growing pain!
Scolding is not education
Many parents encounter this kind of "bear child" situation, which is light criticism of education and heavy work.
But we must know that scolding is not education, and the result is ineffective.
To let children avoid scolding and other behaviors from an early age, parents should set a good example, once you start to solve the problem, the child has a sample, will think that violence can solve the problem, and the original intention of education is getting farther and farther away.
Therefore, parents should use a more "smart" method to solve problems, accompany and guide their children to grow up healthily.
Be gentle and calm
In the face of the child's willfulness, the first thing parents should do is to communicate patiently and pay attention to the tone of speech, so as to teach the child to express the problem when he encounters it, and crying cannot solve the problem.
Secondly, some children choose to do something out of the ordinary because of the lack of care, in order to win the attention of parents, so parents must accompany and care for their children, let children feel enough love from an early age, and most of the children surrounded by love are lively and confident.
In the face of the awakening of children's self-awareness, parents should also make changes, let children do some things they want to do independently, and many times the more they block, the more they will cause children's rebellious psychology, and children will also complain. Instead, it is better to let the children deal with it themselves, and the parents are secretly doing a good job of protection.
In any case, what the child does sometimes makes parents crazy. At this point, it is better to "cold treatment" than to deal with the trouble immediately.
In the face of children's noisy disobedience, parents can appropriately choose to "pretend to be deaf and dumb", after experiencing a few times, the child will give up this unreasonable way to make trouble, but take the initiative to seek a positive solution to the problem.
Raising children is not easy, the problems on the way to children's growth are endless, and any problem has different ways to deal with it. What parents have to do is to form the right parenting concept, so that they can respond to changes with no change.