Pick up on the previous articleHow to make children more sunny and confident (2)
19 taught him to recognize his looks from an early age
For example, tell him that although he is not big-eyed, his small eyes are very good-looking as long as they have gods. A lot of unconfidence often stems from disapproval of your appearance.
20 Try to let the child go to kindergarten on time without dependence in life, and strive to let the alarm clock wake him up instead of the mother calling over and over again. Only children who can take care of themselves can be confident in the situation of not being dependent.
21 Get along and communicate with children on an equal footing
When traveling with children, tell him about the animals, plants, geography, allusions and other knowledge he encounters. To be well informed is to be doubly confident.
22 When a child encounters setbacks, help him analyze
The child encounters setbacks, analyze the experience with him in a relaxed tone, and the next time there will be no same mistakes. It's especially important to regain his self-confidence.
23 Difficulties encountered while playing games, encourage children to solve them on their own
Children encounter difficulties in fighting tangrams, and children should be encouraged to find ways to solve these difficulties. When you really can't think of a way, you can point out from the side. Overcoming difficulties can make him more confident.
24 When the child has made progress, when you want to praise the child specifically, often look for specific reasons to praise, encourage him with praise language, but do not praise the child emptyly. It can be said: "The baby knows that he is urinating, and he has made progress." Don't say, "Baby, you're so smart, mom likes you." Specific praise gives him confidence, and empty praise makes him arrogant.
25 Value your commitment to your children
Originally, I didn't want to take him to McDonald's, but I casually promised him to go, but I promised but didn't fulfill it. Your untrustworthiness has caused him to lose self-confidence and trust in you.
26 Support your child's dreams
Provide your child with books and materials to support him in doing what he dreams of doing. Let the child recognize his own talents and abilities, and he will be more confident.
27 No need to scold to punish children for their mistakes
Scolding not only hits the child's self-confidence, but also makes the child have a rebellious psychology.
28 Parents strive to be respected people
Parents are respected in society and can greatly increase their children's self-confidence. Parents should follow reasonable standards of conduct and strive to be respected people.