"The World": Jin Yueji's last words before her death are the most ruthless calculation of Zhou Bingyi's life

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2024-06-01 23:37Published in Shandong

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"Touching the Dragon and Saying the Empress Dowager Zhao" has clouds:

The love of parents for their children is far-reaching.

In fact:

Hao Dongmei didn't know until her death that Jin Yueji's last words before her death were the most ruthless calculation of Zhou Bingyi's life.

And this kind of calculation is also the most comprehensive plan that Jin Yueji has made for her daughter's happiness.

As everyone knows, pity the hearts of parents in the world, no matter how fair people are, they can't go beyond that human nature.

Favors and personal feelings

Before she died, Jin Yueji asked the people who came to visit her to give herself a favor for the sake of her and her husband's years of struggle and dedication.

Zhou Bingyi, who has a younger brother, his own brother, was sentenced to nine years, the people have internal contradictions, he behaved very well during his sentence, and his sentence was commuted twice in a row, according to the day, he should be released on the first day of the Spring Festival, but, I think, during the Spring Festival, will the administrative staff in the prison be on vacation, then if so, he will have to go through the procedures after the Spring Festival, so, I think, please two leaders, can you bother to coordinate, see if this problem can be handled flexibly, let him go home in time for the Spring Festival, Can I go home and have a reunion with my family?

And the reason why she made such a request was both a personal favor and a private one.

is reasonable, she has to give a reasonable outlet for her daughter's happiness in the future, and even for the guilt in her heart.

The marriage union between Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei is not universal.

In the original work, the author once expressed it through the mouth of the novel written by Zhou Rong.

The relationship between marriage is naturally fateful at work. The so-called fate is premised on the social hierarchy of the family. Super-hierarchical fate is not universal, and is probably directed by abnormal times or talented women—as was the case with my brother and my sister-in-law's marriage......

And this marriage, which is not universal, has been under pressure and disapproved of from the beginning.

From the very beginning, the Hao family was full of prejudice against the Zhou family.

In the original book, it is written:

If you are strong enough to keep the minimum bottom line of mate selection, won't the standard of selection be higher again?

What kind of family can't you find? Just look for the corners and corners! Mom has heard of that kind of place, can ordinary people in that kind of place produce such excellent young people? If you don't meet, Mom can also estimate what kind of husband you marry!

Unequal classes often lead to unequal relationships.

And if there is no reciprocal relationship, there will often be more estrangement and contradictions.

And the Zhou family and the Hao family are in such an unequal situation, the two sides have been getting along with each other for 30 years, and the parents of both sides have never met in their lives under such circumstances.

But lying on the hospital bed, looking at the white ceiling above her head, she also knew in her heart that her life, after all, was coming to an end, and some things couldn't always be pretended not to see, not to do, and not to go.

What's more, when the time comes, some thorns will not be pulled out, and it is not only themselves who suffer, but also their beloved daughters.

After all, as long as you are human, you will inevitably have weaknesses.

The subtleties of human nature

Jin Yueji doesn't believe in Zhou Bingyi's love for Hao Dongmei, but she doesn't believe in human nature.

And people become particularly sensitive when they are near danger, or when danger is imminent.

And after he left, what about his daughter's future and life?

She herself knows that Dongmei is a good boy, and Zhou Bingyi is also down-to-earth and steady, she shouldn't think so, but sometimes people can't take risks in this regard, right?

What's more, when he was transforming below, he had seen the most extreme side of the dark side of human nature, and she had to say just in case, whether she was afraid of the well rope after being bitten by a snake for ten years, or that she was calculating.

It's just that, in front of her only daughter, she can't afford to gamble, and she can't afford to take this risk.

I have been locked up in solitary confinement for ten years, and I have the sequelae, and my blood pressure is high as soon as I am too much.

As soon as my Dongmei first said that her husband was the son of a light word piece, my head buzzed, for fear that the so-called in-laws would come to the door today and tomorrow to cause trouble......

So simply don't interact with the in-laws on both sides. Bingyi's house, except for his sister who came once, no one else even entered the door of my house.

I thought it was good, worry-free.

But now I feel that this is too indifferent and impersonal.

I sometimes reflect on how I became like this.

Originally, we were people from the common people, we were people who risked our lives to carry out revolution for the sake of the common people, and we were people who kept saying that we would "serve the people wholeheartedly."

Logically speaking, people like us should feel that the people are the closest, but how did we become the people who are most afraid of marrying the people?

It's as if a common man has become our enemy if he marries a family like us.

And the shrewdness of the old rivers and lakes is also here, she doesn't care if there is danger or not, but she will definitely extinguish the danger in the cradle before it is completely wantonly burned.

But the Ollia incident is vivid, a person with a "criminal record", no matter how much she trusts it, she has to keep a hand.

What's more, Zhou Bingyi himself admitted that he used to be a little tempted, which shows that when he makes a move, he doesn't need to be high or low, just look at whether it is suitable or not.

What's more, why did she and Lao Hao choose Zhou Bingyi among the people who were selected and made him the successor of the career?

In the final analysis, it's because of my daughter.

First, the two have an emotional foundation, even if they are forcibly separated, Hao Dongmei may not meet a better one in the future; Second, it is because of Zhou Bingyi's loyalty, and this is the most ruthless plan of the couple against him.

Zhou Bingyi's good point is that he is loyal and sincere, but his weakness is also in his loyalty and sincerity.

And often such people are most likely to be manipulated by people with moral bottom lines and social dogmas, and this is the reason why Zhou Bingyi, as the son of the Zhou family, kept his distance from the entire Zhou family and even his classmates.

Since you accept other people's families, you need to accept other people's rules, and this is the source of Zhou Bingyi's most pain - at least before he thought through the rules and saw through the class gap.

What's more, on the other hand, Zhou Bingyi is the choice that best meets their needs and interests and their daughter's emotional needs under that condition.

There are people with better talent than Zhou Bingyi, why did they choose Zhou Bingyi, and why did they choose Zhou Bingyi?

In the final analysis, it is because he is in the best interest of his own interests.

For example, in the military factory incident, you can see that the two students that Jin Yueji brought before are already in high positions, and in the face of the problem of job transfer, the two of them are even confident, so you can know how strong their family's foundation is in this regard.

But the smarter people are, the more selfish they are, and the more they think about it, not to mention, the more questions that Jin Yueji and his wife can think of, can't their young students think of it?

And this is where Jin Yueji and Hao Jinlong are worried.

Human nature cannot be tempted, but the subtleties of human nature remain in a gray area, this is their only daughter, and they cannot take this risk.

Therefore, they may not choose the best one, but the most suitable one.

And it was because of this that Zhou Bingyi began to become involuntary step by step - after all, in that environment, he must always maintain decency and keep the so-called distance.

Third, it is the kindness and affection of her and her husband for Zhou Bingyi.

People may not miss kindness, but they may not miss the feelings of support.

In this world, no one is obligated to take the initiative to be nice to you, except for those who have a common interest.

And Zhou Bingyi's career and future after that, it is precisely this Hao family who did their best to support him, which led to such achievements.

If he survived step by step, maybe Zhou Bingyi might not have such a future.

Kindness and interests are equally important, and after several pressures, people don't want to bow their heads, and they should bow their heads.

The eyes that see through everything

In fact, Jin Yueji had already seen everything before she died.

Although he has always been prejudiced against the Zhou family, he has always been very sophisticated and vicious in his view of Zhou Bingyi's career and his character.

It is reasonable to be reasonable, the Hao family does owe the Zhou family in this regard.

In terms of human feelings, the Hao family does not live with the Zhou family, and in terms of reason, the same is true.

And Zhou Bingyi has endured for so many years, and she has always seen it in her eyes, but when people face situations that are in line with their own interests, they naturally like to pretend to be stupid.

But after all, people are dying and their words are kind, and in front of the hospital bed, she looked at this man who was still gentle and kind, and felt guilty and sorry for the first time.

As a son-in-law, she admires Zhou Bingyi's character, but from the perspective of a bystander, she regrets the other party's background, which is not only the biggest strength of Dongmei, but also the biggest shortcoming of herself.

Wandering around the flowers, passing by the clouds, the years are hurried and unforgiving, and a person's life is limited after all.

She herself knows that in fact, the problem has always been there, of course, to solve the problem, but it is the self-esteem and the so-called class that have been dragging on, so that the problem is stuck there and not up or down.

The requirement of the dying premise is just to knock Zhou Bingyi one last time, don't always read about the past contradictions, some things - in fact, he doesn't say it, he can know it.

And after all, people are emotional creatures, aren't they?

When people are old, after all, they have to take care of their feelings.

For example, accepting Feng Yue to live in, giving ideas to the problems of the Zhou family and Luo Shibin, and beginning to flexibly use her ability to solve problems, and for example, the private relationship she asked for before her death, step by step, she was changing her thinking and slowly adapting.

And this is also the last thing this old man who has dedicated his life to his family and country can do.

For her daughter, she has been supporting her happiness for the rest of her life for a lifetime; For the son-in-law of this half-son, this is the last dedication she has made to the other party's career; For the indebted Zhou family, this is also the maximum concession she can do and the biggest concession she can pay.

And what the road to do after that can only be done by themselves.

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Author: Hua Yuchi, freelance writer, both romanticism and rationalism, focusing on women's growth and emotional writing, inspirational to be a woman who writes hard and loves reading.

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