Text/Themi Mama (original article, welcome to share and forward personally)
As parents, we all hope that our children can receive a better education, so that they can be admitted to prestigious schools and live a relatively smooth and easy life.
Of course, if you want to hope for a dragon, in addition to family education, more important is school education, then, after the children enter school, many parents want to let teachers pay more attention to their children.
Especially those kindergarten children who leave their parents for the first time, as parents, it is inevitable that their children will not adapt, so they hope to form a deeper connection with the teacher, so as to understand the dynamics of the child in all aspects.
This includes academic performance and daily status, but everyone knows that teachers can't go around their children all the time, so what should parents do to not make teachers disgusted, and can teachers pay more attention to their own children?
01. Gift-giving, speaking brush sense of existence, self-defeating and annoying
Before we share how to do it better, let's talk about how to do it that is self-defeating and offensive.
When my family dabao entered the kindergarten, in fact, some things happened that can tell us the answer very well.
At that time, after the start of the new semester of kindergarten, the teacher pulled a group for our parents, and at that time, there was a mother in the group who was particularly active, not only clocked in on time every day, but also as long as the teacher appeared in the group, it would chatter, all kinds of patting and not saying, but also especially love to speak.
Even in private, this mother will talk to us about which festival to care more about the teacher and so on, but everyone knows that the profession of a teacher is very sensitive to such things as gift-giving.
Moreover, the teacher has to take care of so many children every day, it is difficult to have time to stare at the mobile phone all the time to answer the questions in the group, so later the parent group is left with this bao mama to direct herself, and several times the teacher just wants to notify something, this bao mom began to keep speaking and brushing the sense of existence, and the scene was very embarrassing.
Therefore, before doing things as a parent, it is still necessary to pay attention to the occasion and do not do some super-special things, otherwise there may be no good effect, and it may be counterproductive.
02. When new students enter the kindergarten, parents are afraid to do this
I have a cousin who is a kindergarten teacher, because our two children have had some communication with her before kindergarten.
In fact, the work of kindergarten teachers is, to be honest, quite trivial and energy-consuming, and the daily process is particularly tense, coupled with the fact that the children are small, so the difficulty of nursing can be imagined.
So before the cousin said, many parents of new students, it is reasonable to worry about their children, but the teacher can not always report to the parents about the child's situation, because just the class, life care, every day is busy, some parents do not understand, temper is also more urgent, not only in the parent group to ask, but also will call during class time, really will make the teacher want to cry without tears.
In fact, as a parent, I also came from the child's kindergarten, especially to understand the mood of the parents, eager to live broadcast the child's situation, but in fact, we must also give the teacher and the kindergarten more trust, otherwise if the teacher wastes time on the parents every day, it is not to talk about how to take good care of the child.
03. How to make teachers pay more attention to their children?
When new students enter kindergarten, we can't help but worry, so how can we make teachers pay more attention to their children? Three points suggest that you may wish to try.
First of all, be prepared before entering the park.
The so-called preparation before entering the kindergarten, refers to the child's life self-care ability, expression ability, emotional control, etc., there is no doubt that every teacher likes those well-behaved, strong ability of children, because they will save a lot of heart, so before the child enters the kindergarten, we must cultivate the child's expression, independent toilet, dress and undress these basic life skills.
Only in this way, after the child reaches the kindergarten, he will be more handy, and he can integrate more quickly into the new environment, the key is that for this kind of child, the general teacher will give extra praise and encouragement, list him as a benchmark, and also prefer this kind of child.
Second, start small to make connections.
In fact, after the child goes to kindergarten, he will also have his own preferences, such as he will like a teacher in particular, so as a parent, he can actually start from the subtleties to establish a deeper connection between the child and the teacher.
How? Not to say that gifts and the like, but to let children bring some food, such as milk tea, snacks and the like, encourage children to share with classmates and teachers, one after another, it will deepen the impression of the teacher, and it is a kind of moisturizing and silent expression, you can try to do this more.
Finally, actively cooperate with the teacher's arrangement.
In the process of going to kindergarten, because the child is still young, parents and teachers are actually a cooperative relationship, so many times, the child's nursing and learning problems need the cooperation of parents.
When the teacher has such proposals and arrangements, parents must respond and cooperate positively, such as kindergartens to organize children's spring excursions, then as parents, on the one hand, we must do a good job in the psychological construction and preparation of children before going out to play, such as what dangers to pay attention to, how to communicate with teachers and so on.
On the other hand, parents themselves should also adjust their emotions, do not pull and pull with their children, cry and cry, do not use their own anxiety to affect the children, the correct way is to actively encourage the children, let the children take this step boldly.
Mother Themi's message:
In fact, as parents, we all have the same mood, but after the child goes to kindergarten, this is the first real separation from the parents, and what we have to do is to help the child better integrate into the new environment, so as to open a new chapter in their own lives.
As for how to make teachers pay more attention to children? In fact, in my opinion, it is not the so-called so-called sophistication, but the child's own strength.
As the saying goes: If you are fragrant, butterflies will come.
Today's Topic:
I would like to ask you, have you done anything to make teachers pay more attention to their children?