Before Valentine's Day, Li Yang, the founder of "Crazy English", accused his ex-wife of what? On February 13, Li Yang's ex-wife Kim posted on social media that she had received a notice from the Beijing Fa Hospital that Li Yang wanted to take her up.
As early as 2021, Li Yang had sent a long article saying that his ex-wife had slandered him, and he had never abused his daughter at home. At that time, I did not have an ex-wife, so why did I think of it again today? Let's look at the whole thing.
In August 2021, Li Yang's ex-wife Kim accused Li Yang of using the excuse of "Chinese culture" to commit domestic violence after remarriage, brutally beat her daughter, and threatened her children to shut up.
On August 31, 2021, Li Yang denied the "domestic violence allegations" through a lawyer's statement, and explained that because the teacher reported that his daughter was absent from class and early love, there was a "fierce verbal dispute" when educating his daughter, but he did not commit any domestic violence against his daughter throughout the process. Later, Li Yangfa wrote a long article saying that his ex-wife had slandered him, saying that he had never abused his daughter at home.
We don't know exactly what happened, but what is certain is that Li Yang's domestic violence against his ex-wife Kim is a fact, and it is also a fact that he has ignored his daughters for a long time. He once talked about his wife and children in an unconcerned tone in an interview together.
Claiming that he "didn't want such a thing as a family, because the family needs energy, art, management, and will." My wife is American,...... I don't even know when she got pregnant with the baby and told me when she was born. After two or three years, I found that this little girl was well educated, and slowly realized that I was a father. ”
I don't know when the child was there, but after two or three years, I found that the child was well educated. This passage shows the essence of the family's "widowed parenting".
The so-called widowed parenting refers to the lack of one party in family education, such as one of the parents goes out for a long time, or stays by the child's side, and one of the parents has no communication with the child and has no emotional output.
Widowed parenting is generally more biased towards the absence of the father in family education, and it is more likely to occur when the family earns money to support the family and the care of children is female.
Widowed parenting, the father's inaction, is harmful, not only hurting the child, but also destroying the happiness of the family. For children, if they do not get their father's attention and love for a long time, then his sense of existence at home will become weaker, he feels that he is not important, and his heart will lack a full sense of an, thus becoming inferior, introverted, and does not love to communicate with people.
For boys, dad is a role model, his words and deeds will affect the child, teach him to be strong, courageous, resolute, have masculinity, if there is no dad as an example, long-term with the mother, the son may be more feminine in personality.
For the daughter, the father is an important source of an all-round feeling, in the father's company and care, the daughter will be more confident, cheerful, happy, and know how to get along with the opposite sex, if there is no father's participation in its growth process, the daughter is likely to seek other emotional sustenance because of the lack of love, early love behavior.
Li Yang argued that he had a "fierce verbal dispute" when he was educating his daughter because of serious problems such as absenteeism and early love. However, behind his rough education, have you ever thought about "raising or not teaching, the father's fault"?
It is his absence in life that leads to the daughter's psychological need to seek a substitute for her father to rely on, resulting in early love.
Mothers in "widowed parenting" families are also advised to do two things well for their father's inaction.
First, don't make a big deal out of it. In the matter of taking care of children, the mother should not be a big package, when it is time to let go, let go, give the father a chance, just started may not do well, but with the passage of time and training, will always gradually get started. With the sense of accomplishment of taking care of children, fathers will not be "immovable" and "self-reliant", but will take the initiative to share the responsibility of taking care of children.
The second is to learn to show weakness appropriately. When the two have a conflict over parenting, the mother should not be tough, which will make the father stay away and be the "hand-throwing treasurer". You may wish to learn to show weakness appropriately, with a gentle attitude and a gentle tone, so that dad feels needed, so as to take the initiative to take on family responsibilities.
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