Disappointment is not terrible, what is afraid is to comfort yourself calmly after disappointment after disappointment, and try to continue to believe with luck.
However, even if everyone knows, they still can't really let go of their hands, because love, because of desire, or reluctance, can always easily defeat reason.
It seems that people in relationships will be hurt more or less, for some people, the most painful thing is to deceive themselves, and some people will be loved and cannot be hurt to the skin.
But no matter what kind of harm, as long as there is still love in each other's hearts, all problems can be ignored, afraid to be afraid, you think that the other party is gambling, but in fact, she is real.
In fact, a woman's real desperation is not to delete the blackout, but to do so, don't be stupid and don't know.
It is said that a relationship is not suitable for talking for too long, if it exceeds a certain number of years and has not yet achieved positive results, it will inevitably end up going its separate ways.
Recently, Li Yang has been thinking about this sentence, because he and his girlfriend have been in love for 4 years, he does not know whether this time is long or not long, but he is definitely not a scumbag, he is going to get married.
Just talking about marriage, Li Yang is still a little hesitant, in the past he did not want to be tied up by marriage too early, and now he is worried that he can't give his girlfriend the bride price, house and other material conditions that his family wants.
Because not long ago, one of his good buddies got married, the bride price was nearly 200,000, plus a large three-bedroom, and other bits and pieces, it cost almost 2 million.
And Li Yang's family is generally poor, can only reluctantly buy a house in full, the other may be OK, afraid that the girlfriend does not agree, more afraid that the two sides will collapse, so the girlfriend does not mention, he did not mention.
But recently Li Yang always felt that something was wrong, since the eleventh holiday girlfriend returned home, he felt that his attitude was different.
Although the two still live together, but there are very few words to say every day, the former girlfriend will twitter like a little sparrow every day, and now suddenly she does not speak, even if Li Yang takes the initiative to find a topic, she has no interest in chatting.
Occasionally go out to dinner at night, the girlfriend does not want to call herself again, even if Li Yang wants to follow the past with a thick skin, she does not agree, always saying that it is inconvenient.
Li Yang wanted to offer her affection and buy her a small gift, but his girlfriend showed no signs of happiness, which made Li Yang very distressed.
In the past, the two had quarrels, and the girlfriend even blocked out his contact information, but it had never been like this, feeling cold all over the body, making people unable to get close.
Just when Li Yang did not know how to be good, his girlfriend suddenly proposed to him to break up, and packed all his luggage, no matter how Li Yang kept it, he could not make her change her mind.
Li Yang did not understand how it had become like this, until he called out his girlfriend's girlfriend, he did not know that the original girlfriend's family had been urging marriage for two years, and the pressure was very great.
And the girlfriend has also been waiting for Li Yang to take the initiative to say this matter, but the time passed little by little, Li Yang never took the initiative to talk about it, this time eleven home, her parents mentioned it again, and gave her a final wanted order, if there is no following this year, they are not allowed to be together.
The girlfriend also thinks a lot, although she feels that her parents are a bit arbitrary, but it is not without half a point, a woman's youth is just two years, she can't afford it, since Li Yang has no idea of marriage, it is simply long pain is not as good as short pain.
At this time, Li Yang suddenly realized that he did not regret it at the beginning, but even if he showed his heart, he could not pull his girlfriend who could not turn back, and then he understood that a person's absolute love was not to blacken the contact information, but to die completely and thoroughly.
In life, even two people who love each other may have contradictions because of various things, it may be that men do not clean up in time, or women may over-consume.
And in every argument, we may use all the words that can hurt each other to vent our dissatisfaction.
When we are hurt, we always can't help but feel that the other party is really ruthless, especially women who like to block contact information, but also let men feel that the other party is making a big fuss, and it is enough to be desperate.
But in fact, when you stay out of the matter and look at the problem from the perspective of a rational bystander, you will find that this is just a means for the other party to provoke you, and it has nothing to do with absolute love.
A truly desperate woman is often accompanied by heart death, they will not deliberately kick you out of their own lives, but they will no longer spend too much half distraction to deal with things related to you.
Sometimes the encounter between people is like a shooting star, bursting out of an enviable spark in an instant, but it is destined to just pass in a hurry.
The beauty of a meteor always makes people want to keep it, but since she is a meteor, how can she keep it?
For these loves that are already passing, or have left her, we just need to bless her, and we must also learn to learn lessons, make ourselves more perfect, and improve the success rate of the next relationship.