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When a man blacks you out, do it
When two people are in love, anything that can be done can be done, even if it is a Cold War quarrel and a fight. When you don't love, any action is inaction, even if it is a confession full of affection.
Those who want to go, can't stay. Those who have the heart to stay will not go easily.
Those who can't stay, it is better to forget it. Love and can't help it, it's better to let it go. Everything has fate, no one has God's perspective, it is better to go with the flow with a positive attitude.
People always say that women are desperate, but they don't know that men are more desperate than women.
For a woman, anyone who has loved from the bottom of her heart, she will not easily leave. Even if they eventually separate, they will turn back three times in one step and will not let go so easily.
The breakup that women say is often not really wanting to end, but only hoping to get the warmth and care of men.
However, once a man decides to leave, once he says the breakup, he is often determined and will not change easily.
If a woman interferes with his silence frequently at this time, the feedback obtained is that the man is more determined to hurt.
Although Ling Shan and Zhao Kun have been together for three years, the two are in a long-distance relationship and have met very few times.
Ling Shan is sensitive and insecure, so she told Zhao Kun several times that she wanted Zhao Kun to come to her city to develop.
However, Zhao Kun considered that his career was in the ascending stage, so he repeatedly refused Lingshan's request.
Ling Shan did not think about going to Zhao Kun's city, but just thinking about her parents, she dismissed the idea.
Zhao Kun's work was getting busier and busier, so he often had no time to take care of Lingshan, which made Lingshan, who was thousands of miles away, can't help but panic and fear.
Once, when Ling Shan logged on to Zhao Kun's QQ, she found that Zhao Kun and a girl frequently chatted and interacted frequently in the space. Ling Shan began to be uneasy, wondering if Zhao Kun had a new beginning in other cities.
However, in fact, the girl who interacted frequently with Zhao Kun was his cousin.
Unbeknownst to Ling Shan, she began to panic, she began to urge Zhao Kun to come to her city more frequently, and also began to make unreasonable trouble...
In the end, she even used the breakup to force Zhao Kun to compromise, but the killer she thought was a killer tool eventually became a "sharp weapon" for her to hurt herself.
Zhao Kun angrily agreed to break up...
At this time, Ling Shan began to panic, she knew that she did not mean it this way, so she made various redemptions and sent small essays to Zhao Kun every day.
Later, she was directly blocked and deleted by Zhao Kun, but she would still use various methods to disturb Zhao Kun.
Zhao Kun may not not love Lingshan, but the various redemptions after Lingshan have caused harassment to Zhao Kun, causing the two to really not be able to go back.
When a man removes blocking you, do it.
First, give the other party quiet, do not disturb
In fact, the vast majority of men will not choose to block and delete each other after the breakup, they will still let the girl stay in his friends list.
However, if you break up and can force him to delete and block you, then it means that you have frequently sent him small essays.
The vast majority of men block and delete the ex who just broke up, not necessarily because they don't love it, but it may be that the ex has disturbed him, making him have emotional rebellion and rejection, so he made this move.
When a man has a rejection of a woman, then he cannot look at his feelings rationally, so he will really obey his emotions at the first time and completely disappear from the girl's world.
If the girl is deleted and blocked, and still uses a variety of other methods to not be spared, it will only stimulate the other party's rebellious psychology, push the other party farther and farther, and even make the other party begin to dislike you.
When a person is in an emotional state, whatever you say, he will not listen. Therefore, when you want to save a man who broke up with you, the first thing you have to do is to give him a period of time to calm down, do not contact frequently, do not send him small essays...
Give him time to let his sanity brain come back and re-examine his love for you.
Second, the man who loves you will come back
If a woman can choose to be calm for a while after the breakup, then she will never lose the other party by disturbing the other person's quietness, but she is likely to win a big reversal.
The man who loves you will choose to come back to you because you give him a period of calm.
Emotions are washed away by time, and the rational brain will return and be able to see your heart in an all-round way.
On the contrary, if a man still has no news after calming down and does not take the initiative to contact you, then it means that he does not love you at all.
He chose to break up because he didn't love, and to remove you from blackout was to purely want you not to disturb his life anymore.
Although the results may not be satisfactory, at least give yourself the last glimmer of hope, and leave the last self-esteem for yourself.
When you are in a rainy day, you can't help but feel self-pity and self-pity, and even mistakenly think that life can only be dark for a lifetime. However, after the rain has passed, if you look back, you will find that the original choice, the departure of the person at the beginning is the completion of your beautiful life.
It's naturally good to reconcile the old with the man who loves you. Losing a man who doesn't love you is also worth rejoicing, even if it will be painful in that moment of loss, and it will take a while to heal itself, but it has ushered in a new life.
You have to believe that time will heal you, and that there will be people who will love you and stay with you until the twilight.
Some defeats seem to lose, but when you pull it apart, you win. We are in the red dust, experiencing encounters and separations, and then meeting the right people.
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I am Hexu, a creator of warm and happy emotional fields in the heart, writing emotional texts, I hope my words can help you, and deeply wish you peace, health and joy!