Text: Xi Xihuan
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Many people's ideal love should be long-lasting, from the first sight of that person, it is destined to be the fate of the rest of their lives on this person.
However, love is not all beautiful, even if you invest more feelings, even if the promises you once made are unique, maybe one day, love will really disappear, and the person you once loved will eventually become a passer-by in your life.
It is said that women are emotionally delicate animals, the same in the face of a failed relationship, perhaps men can quickly divert their attention and come out of the shadow of lost love, while women can't, she may become more unconvinced of love, may close herself off, and always taste the pain of injury alone.
Even if two people are no longer in touch, even if they block all the contact information of each other, the emotions they have paid cannot be erased, and the fact of love cannot be forgotten.
Therefore, some people say that a woman will never forget the man she once loved the most, and even if she marries in the future, even when she is old, she will still remember the man who once remained in her memory.
Someone on the Internet has asked the question, "After disconnection, how long will a woman forget the man she once loved the most?" ”
There are many answers below, many women give the answer with their own personal experience, as people who have come over, they have been hurt in love, and they have experienced rebirth, how are they living in the end?
01 "I will always remember him, but I don't love him anymore"
Ms. Zhang is now a mother of two children, her husband and she are blind dates, the two have been married for seven years, and are experiencing the itch of seven years.
Many friends around me have not been able to survive, and finally chose to divorce, but Ms. Zhang feels that it is okay, because even if she marries other men, she will also experience the itch of seven years.
In fact, to be fair, Ms. Zhang feels that her husband is very good to her, the salary is handed in, the family is taken care of, as long as she does not work at home, she will patiently play with her children, and will also take the initiative to share the housework, she really can't pick out his mistakes.
However, Ms. Zhang always felt that the lives of two people were too plain, perhaps because of blind dates, compared with free love, the heartbeat was not so strong, but she felt that the two people were matched in all aspects, so they would choose to get married.
Ms. Zhang also remembers that the reason why she agreed to meet her husband was because she was in the pain of losing love, she and her first love for eight years, even to the point of talking about marriage, but in the end because of the betrayal of men, this relationship ended.
The breakup was proposed by Ms. Zhang, she could not accept the man's prayer for forgiveness, betrayal is betrayal, which means that the feelings between them are not pure, even if she still loves him deeply.
After the breakup, Ms. Zhang is very painful, after all, she is the man she loves the most, remembering the sweetness and happiness of the two people in the past eight years, Ms. Zhang is even unable to come out of the shadow of lost love, she even told her friends that she will not love again.
When she first got married, Ms. Zhang could often think of the man she loved the most, counting that the two people had not contacted since the breakup, Ms. Zhang blocked all his contact information, and would not go to some social platforms to look for traces of him, but she never forgot him.
When asked if she would always remember him in this life, Ms. Zhang smiled, she said maybe, she would always remember the man who once made her love to the bone, but she didn't love him either.
In fact, sometimes as Ms. Zhang said, you will remember a person you once loved, after all, that person has made you cry, laugh, and fight for love, and even your youth has been colored in that person.
But after you are separated, you are no longer in touch, each returns to your original life, walking a different life path, running to a different end, you are no longer two people who love each other.
A woman may always remember the man she once loved the most, but that doesn't mean anything, but it buries a deep memory in her heart.
02 "Of course I will remember, although it is impossible to intersect anymore"
Ms. Zhao is engaged, the object is the type she likes, the two people are free love, belonging to love at first sight, very compatible.
Once Ms. Zhao thought that she would not love again in this life, the best years of youth were paid to the man she loved most, she thought that she would one day become the bride of that person, and thought that one day she would realize her wish to spend her life with that person.
However, all of it was just that she thought too nicely, couldn't say when it started, and men began to alienate her, wouldn't eat with her anymore, and didn't have the patience to listen to her.
She is a smart woman who is not willing to deceive herself in her feelings, and she knows that men's feelings for her have changed, so she directly talked to a man once.
Sure enough, the first thing the man said was "I'm sorry", he said he didn't want to, but he just didn't feel like he didn't want to continue, there was no new love, there was no change of heart, he just felt that he didn't love so much.
In fact, Ms. Zhao will always remember the chill of hearing this sentence at that time, because at that time she still loved him deeply, and was said not to love by the man she loved deeply, and that feeling was really uncomfortable.
Listening to the man's words, Ms. Zhao said in a dashing manner: "Then separate, get together and disperse, we can't be lovers, we can still be friends." ”
Her freedom actually made the man feel more guilty, seeing his appearance, Ms. Zhao smiled and let him have no psychological burden, and finally the man left easily, but she cried for a long time.
How can it not be sad? After all, the love is so deep, even if she is engaged now, Ms. Zhao feels that loving so hard is the only one who will never feel like that again.
In the days that followed, Ms. Zhao did not see the man again, even if she said that she could still be friends, but after the breakup, no one contacted each other again, and it seemed that some kind of tacit understanding was reached.
After all, it is difficult for two people who have really loved each other to be friends calmly, and Ms. Zhao has gradually accepted this reality.
She said that she would never forget the joy and pain that the man had brought her, that the feelings of the two men had not come to an end, that she did not blame him, but thanked him for his sincerity, and that she would remember him for the rest of her life, even if she knew that the two men would no longer intersect.
In fact, whether it is a man or a woman, for the person he once loved the most, there will always be a softness in his heart to keep for that person, not to reminisce about the past, just to keep the best memories of the past.
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