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In the folk song "Picking Mushrooms on the Mountain", it is written: "The new man enters through the door, and the old man goes from the cabinet." ”
People are "like the new and tired of the old". If this is not the case, why do so many people change houses and cars at every turn, and some people use their crooked brains to treat divorce and marriage as a show off.
There is a saying: "Money is like dung, and the face is worth thousands of dollars." ”
Everything is new, and such a person has face.
If you look closely, you will find that many people do not love face too much, their mobile phone numbers have not been replaced for more than ten years, and there is no idea of changing the number in the future. Such a person has the following characteristics and deserves praise.
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First, people who have a clear conscience, do good deeds all their lives, and are not afraid of anyone finding themselves.
Su Dongpo, a writer of the Northern Song Dynasty, had many ups and downs in the official arena.
When Wang Anshi changed the law, he wrote to the book and said: "The words I want to say are only three sentences: I hope that the emperor can unite people's hearts, thick customs, and save the law." ”
When Su Dongpo was demoted to Huangzhou, he lived a hard life, but no one embarrassed him wherever he went. Instead, there were local officials who gave him the land to cultivate.
"Fortunately, there are hundreds of songs of Qingxi, and they are sent to Huangzhou without resignation", the days are very bitter, but there are still poems as companions, and the heart is accessible.
As a person, if he has always been self-denying and obeying the law, then he will not be afraid of others finding him, even if there is a basin of sewage poured over, it does not matter.
Being human, like a lotus flower, comes out of the mud without staining. Then contact anyone, will not be weak-minded, and do not block anyone.
Only those who are "thieves with a weak heart" are afraid that someone will find themselves. The most feared thing is that the creditor comes to the door to ask for the debt, forcing the old lai to have nowhere to hide; the most embarrassing thing is that he has done ugly things, has been exposed, and is eager to find a crack in the ground to drill into.
A person does not change the number, indicating that the heart is not "virtual", along the way, very calm.
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Second, truly mature people, stay sane, and never be controlled by others in life.
When you walk into the store, there will be waiters around you asking what to buy and whether you want to choose a new way of consumption.
"Tell you what, we are doing activities, the intensity of the offer, can be big; besides, free things, do not have to use in vain..." After some good words of persuasion, you are moved, and you are immediately led by the nose.
In fact, many people change their mobile phone numbers, not their own intentions, but by others to fool.
To be a person, the so-called growth, is to know what is going on; the so-called maturity is to know what others want to do, but not to say it yourself.
At any time, keep a clear head, see the words and deeds of the other party clearly, but pretend to be confused with understanding. Let others instill a lot of thoughts, but they respond with an "Oh" word.
When people interact with each other, they will invisibly compare and influence each other. Mature people, posture, even if they are inferior, can not be humble; naïve people, blindly follow the trend, but lost what they have.
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Third, people who know how to cherish are very nostalgic for the past and grateful for the "little by little" in life.
Bill Gates once said, "You don't leave school with an annual salary of 40,000, you don't immediately become a vice president with a company's mobile phone, and you have to earn both." ”
A person really has a particularly favorite mobile phone number, which mostly has warm or shabby stories.
Fifteen years ago, I was a migrant worker in the South. At that time, there were not many people who bought mobile phones. And most mobile phones mostly only have the function of receiving and receiving calls, and text messages can only be made in pinyin letters.
At that time, a very popular mobile phone number needed to spend extra money to buy. In a sense, the mobile phone number also represents "success, achievement". So I envy numbers like "8, 66."
One day, a friend got a number with a tail number of "8" through an acquaintance. Later, he gave me this number. Until now, I haven't lost it.
Perhaps, like me, keeping a number is actually keeping a story, a relationship. In particular, the things sent by friends, lovers, and relatives must be cherished for a lifetime, and if they are lost, they must be found back.
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Fourth, the person trapped by love, love but can't, and wait for "his" connection all his life.
A star once said: "Mobile phones do not repair the inner emotions of traditional life, but they can alienate contemporary life and play many roles." ”
If you're a man and your girlfriend gives you a cell phone, you'll love it. Even if the phone is broken, you are not willing to throw it away, or you will put it in the drawer - see things and think of people.
If you meet someone you love but can't love, then you won't stop there, you will talk to him often, and when you are in trouble, you will rely on each other, fight together, and go out.
Although there is no chance to be a husband and wife in this life, you can keep in touch and see each other's living conditions through WeChat.
In fact, you've been looking forward to a reunion. Even if the other party is blocked and deleted, it is still necessary to find it. Maybe in a few years, the two will have the opportunity to live together.
Writer Jimmy wrote in the article: "At the peak of happiness, who still remembers the telephone number of the god of love, who remembers the many interesting days around him. ”
Yes, for most people, new love can replace old feelings, but people who love to the bone are always obsessed.
Not being connected doesn't mean not missing. You keep your phone number, the original intention is to leave the original contact information, when he misses you, you can tell it.
There is a sweetheart, time is not lonely; there is a contact number, the ends of the earth can be found.
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I like the phrase, "Remember someone else's name and call it out very easily." It is equivalent to giving someone a clever and effective compliment. ”
Yeah, it's not easy to get someone to remember you. It takes a long time, maybe years, for people to remember your number.
You never change the number, so the impression you give others is that you are mature, reliable, nostalgic, affectionate, and kind-hearted.
When you meet an old acquaintance, say "My contact information has not changed", and your heart will be calm.
For the rest of your life, change your mobile phone number less, and don't miss the fate.
Time flies, may you and I warm up together.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.