There is a saying:
"There may not be friends in the circle of friends, but there are always deceased people in the blacklist."
Maybe many people have such a person in the blacklist.
Once you were intimate, now you are not in touch with each other.
You canceled his WeChat pin and replaced it with his WeChat notes.
You know your story is over, and there's no more to it.
You pulled him into the blacklist, but you were reluctant to delete his friends.
Although you don't want to admit it, you always have a place in your heart that is his.
As this sentence describes in "East Evil and West Poison":
"When you can't have it anymore, the only thing you can do is not forget."
Start a relationship by adding friends and end a relationship by removing the block.
At the beginning of the story, we blush and say hello.
At the end of the story, we say goodbye with red eyes.
Many people, many feelings, it seems that it is difficult to escape this fate.
No matter how deeply the love was at the beginning, under the teasing of the so-called fate,
We all went from being the people we loved the most to the people we loved each other.
Between love and love, spanning an entire past.
Just like the person who entered the blacklist, he used to be a very loving person.
Blocking him is not that he does not love anymore, but that he cannot love anymore.
Love can not be, abandoned and not give up, had to be put into the blacklist and deadlocked.
Compared to deleting friends, blackout is much gentler.
Deleting a person means not wanting to intersect with him anymore.
It shows that you have opened up, let go, and let go.
Block a person, you can also send him a message, from time to time to see him.
You still have attachments, reluctance, and expectations for him in your heart.
Rahebi removes mercy a thousand times.
Maybe people are like this, and for those who have loved deeply, there will always be more softness and magnanimity.
Even if they are separated now and do not love, they still miss him in their hearts.
Still willing to thank him for giving you love, every scenery is a proof of your love.
Most of the people who have entered the blacklist have gone through the heart.
Some time ago, I accidentally clicked on the blacklist and saw that my ex-boyfriend's WeChat was still inside.
Still that familiar avatar and nickname, nothing has changed.
Some things haven't changed, but some things have changed.
For example, our feelings.
Together for two years, from knowing and loving each other to separating from each other.
During this time, we exhausted all our love and patience with each other bit by bit.
On the day of the breakup, we had a big fight.
He thinks I'm too clingy and always wants him to reply to the message in seconds.
One day when I couldn't see him, I sat in a difficult position, suffering from gain and loss.
I don't think he loves me enough to give me enough security.
Obviously, it is a WeChat thing that can reassure me.
He was always reluctant to tell me what he was doing and with whom.
Girls who are insecure, and boys who are not mature enough, are destined to go far.
After the fight, we told each other to break up.
The night of the breakup, I pulled him into the blacklist.
The moment I pressed the confirmation button, I was relieved, but I turned my head but my heart was like a knife.
The heart was like a missing piece, empty, not bleeding, but it hurt.
We haven't been in touch since we pulled him into the blacklist.
We are all equally stubborn and self-respecting people.
He couldn't wipe his face to text me, and I couldn't lower my head to pull him out of the blacklist.
But in the days when I wasn't in touch, I thought about him almost every day.
Missing is the pain of breathing, it lives in all corners of your body.
People are always accustomed to taking the pain after separation to feel the depth of love.
I'm no exception.
Until I was ready to release him from the blacklist, I wondered if I wanted to start over with him.
My friend made me think twice.
She said it's been so long, you're not all you guys at the time, and it's said he's doing well now.
"Forget it, don't bother each other anymore."
All she wanted to say was "stop bothering him."
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After two people are separated, the obsession of one person will cause a kind of distress for the other party.
I realized this for the first time.
Forget it, I said to myself.
If my reluctance is a difficulty for him.
Don't bother, don't pester, just be the last tenderness I left him.
Not all exs can be friends back.
Not all ending love can start all over again.
Those people and things that cannot go back have their reasons and meanings.
Some people, getting it is a love, and not getting it is a lesson.
Like all encounters, it is either a gift or a lesson.
You should always grow up, you should always try to mature.
Let go of someone or thing you once thought was inseparable.
Even if the process is long and painful, it is used as a light to turn off before going to bed.
So stop adding your ex's friends from the blacklist.
Past feelings, let it stay in the past.
Don't think about the beginning, don't say if, don't talk about maybe.
Love is fluid, and all losses come back in another way.
One day in the future, you will also have a happiness that is truly your own.
As for now, the people who have been blocked, forget it.
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