Marriage and having children are all major events in a lifetime, and before selecting a person to enter the palace of marriage and have children, we must make sufficient preparations, so as not to end up with a situation where the entrusted non-person is entrusted and the people and the wealth are empty.
And sometimes, parents, as people who have come over, the marriage that they strongly oppose may really have obvious flaws, and they cannot be blinded by love for a while and give everything they have regardless of.
Event review: Liu Xin can be said to have suffered from love, young Liu Xin met her boyfriend Zhao Kun, and the two had a honey in their feelings and wanted to enter the palace of marriage.
But unexpectedly, Liu Xin's parents strongly opposed this relationship, although the daughter insisted on marrying Zhao Kun, the old couple still resolutely disagreed with the daughter to be with him, and for this reason also took away all of Liu Xin's documents.
But these obstacles did not prevent this girl who was in love with her head, and she ran to her love without hesitation, she came to Hunan with Zhao Kun alone, and she was still unmarried and had a child with Zhao Kun.
After the two were together, their lives were also very hard, and they have been renting a small rental house.
If the two just live in poverty, after 8 years, Zhao Kun suddenly disappeared from the hut he and Liu Xin rented, and even returned the house.
Desperate, Liu Xin inquired about the whereabouts of her boyfriend Zhao Kun and wanted to question him in person about the origin of the matter. When Liu Xin searched hard to find Zhao Kun's hometown later, Zhao Kun's family was not surprised to see her.
When Liu Xin had just "eloped" with Zhao Kun, she also got along very well with Zhao Kun's parents.
Zhao Kun's father said that Liu Xin had lived in his home for 7 years, during which the old couple treated her like their own daughter. At the beginning, Zhao Xin was also cheerful and smiled, generous to people and things, and was once a model daughter-in-law in the hearts of the old two.
However, as the two spent more time together, the contradictions gradually became prominent.
Liu Xin believes that the old Zhao family has always disliked her and did not give birth to a son for the Zhao family, and after giving birth to her daughter, her physical condition does not support having another child. The Zhao family also felt that Liu Xin had not fulfilled her mother's responsibilities and often threw her daughter to the old couple.
Both sides were dissatisfied with each other's words, and their relationship gradually broke down, and they once signed a breakup agreement. Liu Xin always thought that it was just a small fight in the relationship between the two, but he did not expect that Zhao Kun had already made up his mind, and even quickly found another wife in his hometown.
In the end, Zhao Kun signed an agreement to pay alimony to Liu Xin's daughter, but the relationship between the two also came to an end.
Author's Point of View:
Having children out of wedlock is a very risky thing. In the case of Liu Xin, she does not know how she handles a series of procedures such as birth certificates for her children, which is very insecure for both mothers and children.
Seven or eight years of feelings scattered, there is no guarantee of marriage, if Zhao Kun has no conscience, he can completely leave it alone, so that Liu Xin and his daughter's life is too sad.
Girls must carefully consider before entering the palace of marriage. Although the young love is hot and precious, the chai rice oil and salt after it can completely wear away the passion that was once desperate.
You must not believe that a vow similar to that will be good for your whole life, the so-called "too beautiful vow because it is too young", to be responsible for their own choices.
People's life is very long, do not take advantage of the happiness of the second half of your life for a momentary impulse.