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I have always liked a sentence written by Lao Tzu in the Tao Te Ching:
"The opposite is the way of moving. ”
Those powerful characters in life and history, their ideas and ideas are always different, and the Great Wall will subvert your cognition, perhaps because of this, there is an unexpected effect, and the sound is exchanged for unexpected surprises and gains.
Many times, the law and truth of things are often abnormal, and sometimes what kind of emotional instinct you have, as long as you control and choose in the opposite direction, you can collapse with one blow.
My friend said to me earnestly:
"Do things according to human nature, and demand yourself against human nature. ”
When you are watching "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", whether it is Cao Cao, Sima Yi, Liu Bei or other characters, they are actually masters of outstanding insight into human nature, because they understand human nature, so they can better control life.
Even if you have wisdom like Zhuge Liang, but when your opponent is destined to be a character like Sima Yi, you may also be a fierce opponent that you have not met for a thousand years, you can't say you're lucky, but it's not tragic.
Lu Xun said:
"Beasts of prey always walk alone, and cattle and sheep are in herds. ”
After reading Sima Yi's strategy, I had an epiphany about how to fight against the "opponent".
02
I wrote an article before, sharing with readers and friends such a concept, I said, life is unsatisfactory nine times out of ten, suffering is the normal state of life, it is because of this, a person must work hard to be a person who cannot be defeated.
Life is impermanent, if the inconspicuous wind and rain make you weak and lose early, it is a kind of suffering.
Like Su Shi's words:
"Those who have achieved great things in ancient times are not only superb, but also have perseverance. ”
Since ancient times, there have been many hardships and hardships, and there have never been many great men.
When watching "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", whenever Sima Yi appeared, he really sweated for Zhuge Liang.
Even if there is a head-on conflict, Sima Yi may not be Zhuge Liang's opponent, but Sima Yi can see through Zhuge Liang's troop strategy, and he can often grasp Zhuge Liang's weakness, and food is a fatal wound.
Once, because of the frontal war, Sima Yi really suffered a big loss, so he closed his door and did not take a step, and CBA Zhuge Liang died in a hurry.
So, Zhuge Liang sent the envoy Yang Yi to send Sima Yi a woman's clothes, intending to humiliate and provoke Sima Yi to fight with him, but the strategy has long been clear to Sima Yi, even if he is willing to calmly put on this "humiliating" clothes, he did not go along with Zhuge Liang's intentions, and asked the messenger about Zhuge Liang's food, clothing and daily life.
War should not be an impulse to "rush to the crown and be angry", but to control the overall situation, as long as your opponent can't defeat you, let them not attack themselves, and be sad, you will have a few more chances of winning.
03
Those bigwigs often have an excellent ability to control emotions.
A truly powerful character will hardly put himself in the category of emotional out-of-control, because this will only leave your competitors to find more loopholes and flaws in you, so as to catch turtles in the urn and be stable.
When a person is emotionally disturbed, it is really terrible, and the so-called impulse is the devil, when you see those people who go deep into the quiet after going deeper, many of them have a look of regret.
Whether in your career or in life, as long as there are so-called opponents, they often have their own expectations, hoping that you will develop at those bad levels, hoping that you will have emotional internal friction, hoping that you will be chaotic, and hoping that you will lose more combat effectiveness, so that you will not constitute a huge threat.
The more your opponent tries to provoke you, the more you have to be consistent.
When your opponent gloats, you keep your composure.
The more your opponent wants to destroy you, the more high-spirited you will be.
The more your opponent wants to see your jokes, the more you don't leave them with the jokes to give them fodder.
When you have an opponent, the greatest blow is to let the opponent consume themselves and explode on the spot.
04
Sometimes, when sharing with the book friends around me, I often talk about such a concept:
"A person's strength is sometimes achieved by your potential opponents. ”
As long as the difficulties in life can't defeat you, they will eventually make you stronger.
A great man cannot be made in a comfortable life, and it is difficult to train an excellent sailor on a calm lake.
The more your opponent wants you to open the gates and fight them head-on, the more you have to hold on to them.
When your opponent is stalking against you, the more you have to hold on until the last breath and wait for the best counterattack.
The more your opponent wants you not to move towards a strong state, the more you have to try to put down roots, absorb enough nutrients, and try to rise to the sun.
Sometimes, the opposite way of thinking may only be your competitors frightened and self-friction, so the situation is often reversed in an instant, you are active, and the opponent is passive.
05
There is a sentence in "The Art of War" that says:
"Surprise and attack unprepared. ”
Many times your opponents, most of them are playing your wishful thinking in their hearts, and they have their own little ninety-nine, that is, they develop according to their expectations, that is, they are under their arms, making them feel uncomfortable, and even celebrating with their hands in their hands and celebrating there.
When your opponent criticizes you hysterically, the more you keep your vajra heart unmoved, and still calm and light, so that such criticism is not painful in your world.
When your opponent secretly curses you, the more cautious and careful you are, the more you know that caution can sail the ship of ten thousand years.
The most relieving move to deal with opponents, I think, is to make them feel powerless when they mention you, no matter what means they use, they still can't defeat you, and they can only lose weakly.
When your opponent wants you to have a bad life, you will "eat steamed buns and fight for breath" to show them how your life is doing.
The more the enemy jumps, the happier I become;
The angrier the enemy, the calmer I became.
The more the enemy tried to destroy me, the more spirited I became.
The greatest blow is to let the opponent consume themselves and explode on the spot.
After reading Sima Yi's strategy, I had an epiphany about how to fight against the "opponent".
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