Xu Qinqin said to her boyfriend, "There is no dowry at home, so I don't want the bride price." Xu Qinqin's younger brother said, "Sister, this is my money, why don't you want a bride price?" Xu Qinqin was born here

Xu Qinqin said to her boyfriend, "There is no dowry at home, so I don't want the bride price." Xu Qinqin's younger brother said, "Sister, this is my money, why don't you want a bride price?" Xu Qinqin was born in a patriarchal family, in her childhood life has not had any good memories, in her memory, her parents never had a smile on her, she grew up with a mouthful of food to eat, there is a dress to wear, is her blessing, not to mention her parents' love for her, after the birth of her brother, she has a more difficult life.

At that time, she was five years old and had to help her mother with the housework, but whenever her parents were in a bad mood, she would be inexplicably scolded and sometimes beat her. On the contrary, her brother was loved by her parents, which made her envy her brother.

As she understood, she knew that her parents were patriarchal and that it was not right. However, she grew up in such an environment since she was a child, and every day she would be told by her mother to be good to her brother in the future, and everything should be based on her brother first, and over time, she would get used to such a life. She worked after graduating from junior high school, and she wanted to continue her studies at that time, but her parents did not allow the family conditions and economy, and they had to focus on her brother's studies first, and she also listened to her parents and did not complain.

At first, her salary was not high, and then she learned the technology, and over time, her salary also rose, but no matter how much her income increased, she herself could use only enough for her to live, it was difficult to save a penny, and the rest of the money she gave to her parents.

Later, by chance, she met her boyfriend, the two fell in love at first sight, although she also reached the age of marriage, but her parents were not happy with the object she was looking for, or unwilling for her to find an ordinary family object, so she broke up with her boyfriend, but she went against her parents' will for the first time and did not choose to break up with her boyfriend.

In the process of her love affair with her boyfriend, her boyfriend has also met her parents, her parents naturally did not give her boyfriend a good face, but her boyfriend also found that her parents favor sons and daughters, but also found that Xu Qinqin has lived in such a family for a long time, and he did not feel anything about taking money to raise her brother, but he did not choose to break up with Xu Qinqin, but while following her girlfriend, she responded to the needs of her future brother-in-law, while knowing her girlfriend and moving with reason. In fact, Xu Qinqin has feelings in her heart, so her boyfriend's method is very effective, she gradually has the idea of changing her brother and the way she gets along with her own family, she just wants to get married, take it slowly, but when it comes to the table where the two families talk about marriage, her brother's words make her realize that some things must be fast enough to cut the mess. Her brother grew up doting on his parents and listened to his mother say to him every day, "Your sister's money is all yours." These words made Xu Qinqin's younger brother believe in it, and he was also accustomed to his sister's efforts.

This made Xu Qinqin's brother never think that his life should rely on himself, he did not know how to be grateful, he thought that his parents were good, or his sister, no matter how good he was to himself, he should be. It was the favoritism of her parents that made her brother a white-eyed wolf who did not know how to be grateful, but only knew how to take.

Xu Qinqin and her boyfriend talked about love for two years, is ready to get married, her parents did not stop Cheng, can only agree, but proposed to 180,000 dowry, but also to buy a wedding house to buy a car, this request exceeds the economic conditions of her boyfriend's family, but her boyfriend still agreed, he and Xu Qinqin said: "As long as you and your mother's family to do a cut, I am willing to take a step back." This made Xu Qinqin feel very sad, and she said at the table when talking about marriage that she did not want a bride price, nor a marriage house or a car, but her parents had not spoken yet, and her brother was angry first, and he said: "Sister, this is all my money, why don't you want it?" This made Xu Qinqin feel cold at once, how did her bride price become her brother's money?

This marriage talk was not happy and dispersed, but Xu Qinqin turned a corner, she did not give her parents a chance, directly and her boyfriend got a marriage license, and decided that in the future, in addition to giving her parents living expenses, she would do her duty as a daughter and would not give more than a penny.

@Ink Dye Fantasy Dust said: First of all, Xu Qinqin has lived in a patriarchal family since she was a child, which makes her not enjoy the love of her parents since she was a child, and the birth of her brother makes her life even more difficult, after going to junior high school, she will go to work, and later earn money to be wanted by her parents, and she only has to keep a living expense.

Secondly, if she hadn't met her boyfriend and slowly corrected her thoughts, she would have taken her parents' demands for granted, but in this way she would have taken her own money to support her brother.

In the end, when she talked about marriage, she was able to wake up, it was not too late, and her brother's words made her chill.

Therefore, her decision is not right, can not listen to her parents' requests, but to learn to refuse, like Xu Qinqin's parents such eccentricity is also wrong, the idea of son preference is even more undesirable, their doting also harmed their sons, for such a family, parents must treat their children, must be a bowl of water flat.

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