My daughter has been dating her boyfriend for two years and that day she told me she was pregnant. I had to talk to my parents in the South about marriage. Unexpectedly, the other party was not only an hour late, but also finished eating

My daughter has been dating her boyfriend for two years and that day she told me she was pregnant. I had to talk to my parents in the South about marriage. Unexpectedly, the other party was not only an hour late, but also did not even say a word after eating. When I came back from checkout, I found my daughter sitting there crying, and after hearing her say why, I was furious.

　　I am 56 years old and have my own flower shop. The business is booming, and the monthly income is over 10,000. Ten years ago, my husband died in an accident. I live with my daughter Lingling. Considering my daughter's feelings and the good business in the store, I was fully capable of raising my daughter alone, so I did not consider remarriage.

　　My daughter has been very sensible since she was a child. She never asked me about her father. But in the two years since her father's death, sometimes I can hear her crying alone in bed at night. I feel sorry for my daughter and I know she can't accept a new father, so I never considered remarrying.

　　My daughter did well in school and was admitted to a prestigious university after taking the college entrance examination. After graduating from university, she returned to Tianjin to work for a local company with a monthly salary of 15,000 yuan. My daughter gives me ten thousand a month. In this way, her money plus the income from the shop, I saved her a very rich dowry.

　　When my daughter was in college, I suggested that she could fall in love, but my daughter said that falling in love in college was a waste of time and energy, and it was better to spend more time studying. So I've always felt that my daughter has a positive view of marriage and love, and I don't have to worry about her feelings at all.

　　A year ago, my daughter told me she was in love and hoped I could help her with her staff. The boy was a sales manager for a company. His salary is about the same as my daughter's, his family conditions are fine, and his parents are small business owners. I told my daughter that as long as the boy was good to her, nothing else mattered, even if the financial situation was worse.

　　Later, when her daughter's relationship with him stabilized, she took him home. The boy's name was Zhang Wei, he was tall and big, wore a pair of glasses, and spoke and behaved very politely. From the way he looked at my daughter, I could tell he really loved her.

　　But there's one thing that worries me a little. He often mentions his mother when he speaks, and I am afraid that he is a mother treasure man. Of course, this is not a big problem. If two people are really married, they will live their own lives. Judging from the way he understands things, I think his parents are also sensible people.

　　That day, my daughter suddenly hesitated to tell me she was pregnant. I asked her what her plans were, and she said she asked me to talk to Zhang Wei's parents about the marriage. I originally thought that this matter should be opened by the man first, but the daughter was pregnant and could not be delayed any longer, so I made an appointment with the man's parents to meet.

　　I asked Zhang Wei to discuss it with his parents and then order a restaurant. Zhang Wei readily agreed.

　　But I waited for a long time, Zhang Wei did not call me back, asked my daughter, she said that Zhang Wei's family business has some problems, his parents are busy, wait for the busy to say. This drag dragged on for almost a month.

　　That day, Zhang Wei booked a hotel and made an appointment at 11:30 a.m. My daughter and I arrived at the hotel at 11:20 and found Zhang Wei already waiting for us in the lobby. We went into the private room, but we didn't see Zhang Wei's parents.

　　Zhang Wei said her parents would come right away, but we waited for nearly an hour before they were late. When they arrived, they just said, "I'm sorry, there's a traffic jam on the road." "It's over, I'm not very happy, but I don't show it when I think about what I'm about to discuss."

　　Zhang Wei ordered in advance, and his parents had not yet sat down to cook. Speaking of them during dinner, Zhang Wei's mother said: "In fact, I have always felt that they are too young to talk about marriage so quickly. After all, young people should focus on their careers. But now Lingling is pregnant. It's not good not to get married. Then get married. ”

　　After listening to Zhang Wei's mother's words, she felt as if she was not satisfied with Lingling and did not want Zhang Wei to marry her.

　　Because of Zhang Wei's mother's words, this meal was a little unpleasant. When talking about the bride price, Zhang Wei's mother said: "We have prepared a wedding room for Zhang Wei, which is very well decorated and can be lived directly." The car was also bought, and the furniture and appliances were ready. The bride price is symbolically given 50,000 yuan, and the dowry is whatever you want, it doesn't matter if you have it or not. "

　　For the marriage of the two children, although I was not satisfied with Zhang Wei's mother's attitude, I still put up with it, saying that I would give the dowry according to the current trend.

　　After the discussion, I thought that Zhang Wei's parents would go to the cashier to check out, and no matter how bad it was, they would also let Zhang Wei go. I didn't expect them to move, didn't say anything, and I had to go to the checkout myself.

　　When I came back from checkout, I saw my daughter sitting there crying. Zhang Wei sat next to her and coaxed her carelessly. I asked my daughter what had happened. She didn't say anything, just go home.

　　After saying goodbye to the family of three, I took my daughter home and asked her what happened when I went to checkout. The daughter said: "Zhang Wei's mother said that they owed the 50,000 dowry money first, and then gave it to me when the business was negotiated, and Zhang Wei sat on the side and did not express his position." ”

　　I immediately became angry and said to my daughter, "Lingling, such a family, such a man, even if you marry, you will be wronged." We don't marry, and the child in the belly is beaten off. There are a lot of excellent boys out there, let's find another one! "

　　The daughter cried even more sadly, saying that she was reluctant to Zhang Wei and the child in her belly.

　　Although Zhang Wei is a bit of a mother, his personality is still good. But people like Zhang Wei's mother are really difficult to get along with, and their daughters will definitely be wronged after they marry. What should I do?

@ Colorful Emotional Story has something to say: In this case, it is better to persuade your daughter to break up with Zhang Wei, otherwise you will not be happy after marriage. Zhang Wei listened to his mother's words, your daughter will suffer a lot of grievances when she marries, and her married life will be very sad. Long pain is not as good as short pain, and short pain now is for a better life in the future. It is also best to get rid of the child, otherwise it is not easy for your daughter to find the right one when she talks about her boyfriend and gets married in the future. #Emotion##Emotional Review Awards##Emotion Office ##情感PK台 #