The extraordinary things about ordinary little people will glow wonderfully in any age. No matter when you read it, whether it is adapted into a movie, a TV series or someone has written a fan story, the keywords in "Ordinary World" have never changed, and those "simplicity", "self-esteem" and "love" that naturally grow from the yellow land and are full of infiltration of the world make us warm our hearts, and at the same time, we are comforted.
In this increasingly impetuous era, in the midst of a chaotic society, we seem to be more and more selfish to give blazing and meaningful emotions, fortunately, there are three families from Shuangshui Village in the northern Shaanxi Plateau (Sun Family, Tian Family, Jin Family) composed of complex and real civilian hero series, with their intertwined life stories of family, friendship and love to witness the extraordinary faith in ordinary life for us.
At the same time, the eating and drinking of that era mentioned from time to time in the book, the ordinary exudation of various emotions, is emotional.
About family affection: Family is the heart of every forerunner
Suffering creates extraordinary stories for ordinary people, and family affection supports people to continue to move forward in the years of suffering. People who have family affection and gratitude will not be lonely in their hearts, and that kind of love is full and full, and it lasts for a long time.
The Sun family is poor and sloppy, but at the same time it is an ancient and affectionate loess house, and everyone in this poor but not barren big family will prefer to be wronged and sacrifice themselves for the sake of others.
Father Sun Yuhou spent his whole life worrying about the affairs of the family, borrowing money and grain for his brother for his children, in that era when food, clothing and warmth were still luxurious, "the rotten account of a river beach" did not let him shed a tear, but the guilt of his children made him cry like a child several times holding his gray head.
Naturally, Shao'an became the family member who carried the heaviest burden. At the age of 6, he began to work as a farmer, and at the age of 13, he dropped out of school to help his father support his stormy home, and the "capable person" of Shuangshui Village began his farming career with an almost fanatical persistence, and became the production captain at the age of 18 with "shrewd and tough and terrible spirit of hardship".
No matter how "rotten" the family is, Shao'an has never shown his dislike and disgust for the family, and he has not been selfish for the family, and even gave up Runye's love for this - when he received Runye's confession letter, the ecstatic "strongman" Shao'an finally chose to give up. At that time, he only knew that everything he did was for the family, and he was succeeding his father as the "father" of the family, sheltering his brother and sister to complete their studies, so that the sister's family could barely survive.
To some extent, it is precisely because Shao'an Town guards the "big rear" of the family that Shaoping dares to go outside to "break into the world" and chase his dreams.
Shao'an's most enjoyable daily state is "crazy and greedy to do a day's work", "crazy" is a wordless struggle against the burden of life, and "greed" implies hope for the future. He is willing to give all his energy to the little hopes of his family, but this does not mean that he is a village man who can only do it.
After several unsuccessful challenges and breakthroughs, in ten years, Shao'an grew from a family "rotten bag" production captain to a rural ten thousand yuan household with two brick kilns - do not laugh at this long-lost title, can lead his family and even more villagers from material poverty to abundance, at that time the yellow land was already an admirable event.
In those ten years, Shao An poured out his little hope with uninterrupted hard work and hard sweat, dared to take risks, and even if he failed, he had the courage to face life again, because behind him, there was his father and mother who were willing to pay for a lifetime, there was his wife Xiulian, who was a strong former contractor, shaoping, who was now a coal miner, and Lan Xiang, a sister who studied at China's top universities that the whole Dongla River Basin envied... Such a big family full of flesh and blood affection is the powerful beating heart of Shao'an and every family member, so that they will always have unremitting fighting spirit and endurance.
And for a long time, the family's daily eating and drinking is a problem, sorghum black beans money porridge, black noodle bun or sorghum noodles and potato shreds mixed steamed to make staple food, a few chopsticks sour cabbage have to eat frugal, rough and nutritious is never the focus of consideration, the number is not enough is the biggest problem. But the family's table rules are also strict, mutual humility to let a little thicker porridge become the norm, slightly better things must be reserved for the elderly grandmother, no matter how difficult the day, will also make a small bowl of thin noodles for each meal for the elderly, or steam a few white noodles on the steamed black noodle steamed pot.
Because of this old man's exclusive white-faced bun, Xiulian, who is unaware and in love, has also been scolded by Shao'an - in this family, no one has ever eaten Grandma's white-faced bun. And if Shao'an and Shaoping go out to run errands, they must also buy a little soft food for Grandma. And the bottle of painkiller that Shaoping bought for his grandmother in high school spanned nearly ten years without a single pill - every time, the old grandmother just groped to pour out the pills and counted them one by one.
About love: the beautiful warm sun in suffering
Life is hard and full of happiness because of love. The love that has been handed down to the world can only make us look up at the stars, and the love of ordinary people constitutes a gallery of the truth of life, full of fireworks, tacky, but deeply popular.
The loyal orchid idiot waited until the second-rate husband Wang Manyin repented; the kind Runye completed his redemption in several entanglements with Li Xiangqian; Runsheng would hold up a new sky for his former classmate and widow Hao Hongmei and her widow; even Sun Yuting's eldest daughter Wei Hong, and the bastard Jin Qiang, who had "reformed evil and returned to righteousness", walked firmly together in the strange eyes of all people.
Of course, there is also the love between Shaoping and Xiaoxia, who breaks through the world and ends against the "talented and beautiful reunion". It is entirely conceivable that without Xiaoxia, what would Shaoping look like when he "had to take the train to the outside world one day"? Can he still have the romance of a poet in the face of the sufferings of life?
There has always been love in Shaoping's struggle song, and in addition to warm affection, love is also like a brilliant warm sun in suffering, illuminating his world. Even the flower of the crush with Hao Hongmei, who quickly withered away and even brought a hurt before it began, had also given him a glimmer of hope in his embarrassment. At that time, the worst students in the two classes always rubbed until the end to silently take away their two black sorghum noodle buns, the two people who were sympathetic because of the misery had more contact by borrowing and returning books, and Shaoping, who was once embarrassed to give up his reading career, also "rediscovered the friendship and warmth that had been lost for many days" because of the few white breads that Hao Hongmei brought with him when he returned the book.
Shaoping's first meeting with Xiaoxia stemmed from a request from RunyeJie, there was no thrilling love at first sight, nor was there a romantic fragrance of a tree blossoming instantly, and even a dirty body he had just eaten a good meal after studying in the county town. In fact, they always seem to have been at great distance, the peasant boy and the daughter of the deputy director of the county revolutionary committee, the laborer and the female college student, the coal miner and the governor's daughter, the provincial newspaper female reporter - the suffering yellow land this time young and confidently sang a beautiful love song, even if the final note turned to heavy poignant.
Both Shao'an and Shaoping had eaten with the Tian sisters in the county canteen. The shy Shao'an did not know that it would be the last time he and The Runye of the Green Plum Bamboo Horse had eaten together, and it was also a rare wasteful moment in his life, a large table of dishes was left, but he did not pack it up and take it home- frugal as Shao'an did not want to show the tacky and ridiculous side in front of his beloved. The first time Shaoping went down to the restaurant, it was the county canteen invited by Xiaoxia, which was also the meal bought by the daughter of the Tian family, but unlike his brother, Shaoping and Xiaoxia made an agreement on "etiquette and exchange", and xiaoxia also came to Shuangshui Village as promised. After repeated exchanges and encouragement, there was a future meeting and love between the two in Huangyuan and Daya Bay.
About friendship: Consensual friends come and go, confidants to speculate
The basis of friendship lies in the greatest similarity between the hearts and souls of the two people - this proverb is undoubtedly the best portrayal of the best portrayal of Shaoping and Jin Bo's best friends, and in the end even their love encounter is almost the same: when Xiaoxia died in order to save people in the flood, Shaoping almost did not have the courage to open the three diaries she left behind; and his friend Jin Bo, after struggling to find the Tibetan girl he once fell in love with, stood at the crossroads of the plateau town in the cold, singing with tears and deeply over and over again: "In that distant place, There's a good girl..."
The friendship between Shaoping and Jin Bo, Lan Xiang and Jin Xiu began from childhood, the children of the car driver and the children of the most fearful people in the village, the rich are not ostentatious, the poor are not inferior, and the deep friendship between the two families has long exceeded the height of ordinary friendship.
Whenever Shaoping encounters difficulties, the most supported for him is Jin Bo, the bicycle in his youth, the paper cigarette in the box, most of the basin noodles and a dozen eggs in his youth, as well as the deliberate change of broken overalls and messing up the original neat hair... Jin Bo carefully and thoughtfully cares about the only iron brothers, large and small, and Shaoping is surprised by the sudden discharge of his best friend for no reason but does not open his mouth to inquire, trust is the only fruit on the tree of friendship, all the friendship is hidden in the beginning of the sentence "Need me, you say a word...", even if they have a geographical distance after growing up, the deep meaning of the affection has never changed. Best friends may not be around, but far away, but, so what?
About the world: Eating a full meal is the truest and greatest happiness
It was an era when eating a full meal was happiness, and even luxury, a country out of hardship, it takes a long time, it needs everyone's patience and progress, not to mention, the road ahead is winding, twists and turns are inevitable.
There are hierarchies at all times, and when the lunch at prefectural high school is jokingly divided into "European, Asian and African" and "A, B and C dishes", we should understand that people's situations are different after all. White noodle buns, corn noodle buns, sorghum noodle buns, meat dishes, vegetarian vegetables, oil-free radish, simple lunches try to classify a group of students coldly, but the students naturally converge after a short period of stratification, they eat and drink differently, personalities are different, but they will be worried about the safety of their classmates, when Shaoping rescued the lame girl who had embarrassed him in the flood, everyone rushed to the shore and cried.
At that time, food even became a good "false" reason for fighting, when Jin Bo gathered a group of people to beat gu Yangmin in order to give Shaoping a blow, the reason used was that Gu Yangmin slandered his classmates for stealing his biscuits - stealing was also the notoriety of being despised in that difficult era, which should not be taken lightly.
At that time, there were also privileges that made people in poor and remote areas envious. Simple people envy the chubby cooks in the canteen, and "eating meat every day" seems to be the best treatment. Many times they could only eat chaff dumplings, and they would naturally feel resentful and helpless when the father of the commune leader ate and drank in the cauldron of the collective canteen.
In the face of embarrassment, the person who stood up was still Shao'an, and this man who desperately took care of his own land but never had enough to eat and wear warm clothes resolutely borrowed money to go out of the far door to stir up work after realizing that the policy allowed, and after earning the first money, he started his own brick and tile factory business. Do any people remember: Lan Xiang saved money from the bursary to buy a pound of cabbage and cut a pound of meat, and there were several white noodle buns, far more than usual, but the sumptuous dinner made Shao An's nose "rush with a spicy taste". When he was ready to buy vegetables after work, the market was gone, and the vegetable leaves left by others became a good object in the eyes of this man who wanted to be strong in his life, and accompanied him through the most difficult period with the big green mule.
The world is bitter, but it is also mixed with sweetness, the kindness of the good people has always been relayed, they may have their own imperfections, but they silently support in their own way when the people around them encounter embarrassment: Runye will bring food to the stupid Tian Er father and son every time he returns to the village; the unfortunate Hao Hongmei will rush to give him dumplings after seeing his old classmate Runsheng; Shaoping and his co-workers "radish flowers" eat in the way of stirring up workers before leaving Daya Bay, and help "Lao Luo", who is in a worse situation, and help "Lao Luo" who is even worse off. And in order to ensure that his blood pressure is normal, he found a Henan master to buy a dime or two of vinegar, so as to form a master-apprentice relationship... Perhaps, the orange water and tears that Li Xiangqian mixed with the drinking of life is the truth of life, "How much suffering you have, and how much sweetness you have!" ”
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