The first rich man originally deserved not to be divorced:
As soon as Zhang Rumei appeared, she was a powerful aura, big sunglasses, famous watches, famous bags, and she was the kind of original match that had not been treated financially badly.
Look at the large mansion she lives in, the palace-like decoration, completely like a "female rich" fan.
However, as soon as Zhang Rumei speaks, you will find that she is simply an ignorant, irritable and unreasonable old madman:
The first requirement is that after the divorce, Sun Jianye must ensure that he cannot remarry, no matter which woman he fools around, that is, he is not allowed to marry again.
When Zuo Na and Pan Yan explained to her that these were invalid clauses, she became emotional and aggressively asked this ridiculous sentence:
Does the law stipulate that the wife of the chaff does not go to court!
It has to be said that Pan Yan is grounded, and he immediately searched out the provisions of the Civil Code from his mobile phone to show Zhang Rumei. Because Zhang Rumei will only truly admit defeat when she sees black and white paper. Then Zhang Rumei put forward the second absurd condition:
After he remarried, he was not allowed to have children.
When Zuo Na and Pan Yan told her again that this was an invalid clause, she became irritable and immediately said that there would be no divorce, and then she roared out something like this:
Marriage is my life, and I defend it to the death.
Then she started beating people, like a madwoman, and after being persuaded, she began to cry bitterly:
Do you think I'm a crazy person, people don't love me anymore and want to divorce me, I don't leave, death drags on. I really don't have self-respect or face.
Here, pondering her two absurd divorce conditions, you will soon find a very simple thing:
Zhang Rumei loves her husband and children deeply. Because of deep love, I don't want to divorce, because I love deeply, so divorce is still considering the interests of my children.
But what was the attitude of her husband and children towards her?
Her husband didn't want to see her at all, not even at a glance, and hearing her voice, her husband could be so disgusted that he fainted.
And her son, who was bored when he heard her voice, only felt that he had such a "tigress" mother, which made him miserable, even to the point of needing psychological counseling.
Like a madwoman, everyone betrayed and left, and everyone avoided it.
The second rich man originally deserves not to be divorced:
Lao Chunxue, extremely well maintained, has a gentle personality, and looks like a good wife and mother.
She has a brother who loves her, and this brother can work hard for her sister.
She has a well-behaved and filial daughter, who always pays attention to her mother's dynamics.
She lives in a spacious and comfortable mansion, and even has her favorite swing tied to the courtyard of the mansion.
But such a comfortable and comfortable life, she can't see it at all, in the face of her husband's cheating, her attitude is completely tolerated, she feels that her husband is a child, just playing outside, and will return to her when tired.
When her husband's affair had a child outside, she chose to commit suicide by cutting her wrists.
Even more ironic, when she was pushed out of the operating room by cutting her wrists and committing suicide, she completely ignored her terrified daughter and grabbed her husband's hand.
And her husband, who would rather die than divorce, only glanced at her in the hospital and went to talk to her lover You Nong My Nong.
Lao Chunxue lay in the hospital, waiting for her husband, and even forced her daughter to call her husband, but her husband, who only transferred 50,000 yuan to his daughter, did not care about his own.
Lao Chunxue, who does not divorce, wants to die or live, has a nervous breakdown, and is like a dead flower.
Two women who do not divorce, one with slit wrists, the other with bipolar disorder, rich and leisure, children and daughters, but they all present a "life is better than death" look. Another common feature of them is that they especially want to see their husbands, and they do not hesitate to go crazy and even cut their wrists.
Look at the two old rich people, whether it is Zhang Rumei's husband Sun Jianye or Lao Chunxue's husband Zuo Dajian, the degree of disgust for his wife is almost to the point of morbidity, so indifferent and ruthless that he doesn't care about the life or death of the original match.
The first reason why the old rich man wants to divorce:
Sun Jianye, an old rich man, liked his wife Zhang Rumei's spicy personality when he was young, because he was a poor boy at that time, married a daughter-in-law who was not spicy, and could not suffer at all and earn a family business.
At that time, Sun Jianye was very good to Zhang Rumei, and when his career was successful, he was full of gratitude to the woman behind Zhang Rumei.
However, when men have money, they change their minds.
When he was young, he needed his wife to be spicy, and when he was rich and became rich, he couldn't stand his wife's spiciness, and he didn't need it, so he abandoned it if he wanted to. Sun Jianye said with a straight face:
I like flowers, she is a tree, of course not to say that trees are bad, but what I like is flowers. No matter how hard the tree works, it can't become a flower. People used to not know about themselves, I used to think that what I liked was trees, when I was my age, I felt that I didn't like trees, at the beginning, she was strong, I felt very good, I didn't like disease-free moaning and crooked, but later, she became stronger and stronger, how to say, like a fire, burning more and more, burning more and more, roasting you, you still don't run ah, you don't run and you will be buried in the fire.
Yes, I used to like her, loved her, but now I don't like it, can't I love it? Can't marriage be reversed? Is it heinous if you repent of it? Let's just say this cup, like her now, ten years from now? And twenty years from now? Take myself, I'm a person, I like to eat offal, the doctor said that you are older, you eat again is not good for the body, I in order to live a few more years, I don't eat, I change to eat light, you say I'm sorry for the offal I used to eat? And the clothes I liked in previous years, now I can't wear them, I'm fat, so do I have to wear it?
This passage is very long, but you must see it clearly word by word, Sun Jianye compares his wife who accompanied him to suffer from scratch from beginning to end: trees, fire, cups, offal, clothes. From beginning to end, he completely forgot that his original wife was a living person.
Sun Jianye is like Xu Bochang, who forced his wife to death with indifference in "No Questions", and asked with a straight face: How can you not regret this thing of marriage!
It was they who loved them at the beginning, and it was they who did not love later, they changed their hearts, and they had to question women, why can't they change their hearts.
What is even more dirty is that Sun Jianye is so emotional that he twice roared "Does a man have to have an affair when he files for divorce" to prove his innocence.
However, when he sat down to talk with Zhang Rumei calmly, Zhang Rumei suddenly said the woman next to him, and Sun Jianye was speechless all of a sudden, and began to evade.
He has long changed his heart, and after changing his heart, he didn't bother to give his wife any explanation, and began a long period of family cold violence, until he drove Zhang Rumei crazy and forced him into bipolar disorder, making everyone feel how necessary his divorce was, and how unreasonable Zhang Rumei was.
Hypocrisy, treachery, cruelty, selfishness.
The second reason why the old rich man wants to divorce:
The second old rich man is Zuo Na's father, Zuo Dajian. He has lived in a thousand flowers, even his daughter's only best friend Cai Xiaolei.
Why did he get a divorce?
Because Cai Xiaolei was pregnant, a big drama was staged to force him to divorce.
Compared with Sun Jianye's indifference and ruthlessness, Zuo Dajian has always been in a state of "wanting to refuse and welcome" the original match.
After he cheated on him, he begged his wife for forgiveness again and again, making her feel that he was just playing outside and would return to him sooner or later. Zuo Na questioned Zuo Dajian again and again, since she couldn't control herself, why she gave her mother hope again and again.
Zuo Dajian's answer was that her mother couldn't listen to this.
In particular, after Lao Chunxue cut his wrists, he clasped Lao Chunxue's hand. It's not that he still has much affection for Lao Chunxue, he is purely overflowing with feelings and false feelings.
Does Zuo Dajian really love Cai Xiaolei?
He didn't love much, he just coveted Cai Xiaolei's young beauty. For divorce, he was not too decisive and positive.
Zuo Dajian is a person who is selfish, weak, careful, and not responsible.
But why do such men and young girls pounce?
Just like Cai Genhua in "It's All Good" who took a fancy to Su Daqiang and naked the money.
Because they are rich and rich, even if they are old, diabetic, abandon the chaff and have worrying quality, there are still women like Cai Xiaolei who pounce on them, wanting to exchange their youth for the comfort of half of their lives.
Look at the room full of famous bags, jewelry, and cabinet after cabinet of clothes when Lao Chunxue found Cai Xiaolei.
Because the old rich man can provide them with this, even if the old rich man can be her father at her age, she is still willing to eat, even unscrupulously.
How ironic, the old rich people actually know clearly that the original pair has a deep affection, and the lover simply wants his own money, but the old rich will still abandon the original match and be obedient to the lover.
Why?
Just like Nan Jianlong in "Xiaoshede" chose Cai Juying, it has nothing to do with love, but with needs. Those old rich people, old and rich, want to spend money to buy youth and happiness. It doesn't matter if you love it or not, it's important to make them happy.
Cai Xiaolei is righteously a third party, the object of choice is still her best friend's father, and after tearing her face with her girlfriend, she can even rightfully entrust a lawyer, wanting to transfer property and fight for her own interests.
The law stipulates that illegitimate children can also enjoy property. The child is innocent, but this is not a loophole that a third party can exploit.
Are the rich original partners after the divorce really miserable?
Zhang Rumei agreed to the divorce, the child is hers, the house is hers, and all she lost is an old man who does not love her. She can shop, she can shop, she can fit, she can travel as long as she wants.
In this world, there are many more worthy people, and there are more beautiful landscapes.
When marriage reaches a level that affects physical health, loss sometimes means rebirth.
There is also Lao Chunxue who has a filial daughter, and a younger brother who works hard for her, has money and leisure, and still has the charm of being over fifty, and she can even turn around and meet a good man.
When a man is ruthless to you to the extreme, leaving will be the best degree of love for himself.
The old rich have their own lives, and when they are old and sick, I hope that those young girls have the affection of the original and the filial piety of children.
The rich and original partners, when they love, they have no hesitation, and they have also died and lived for love, they are hurt and cold, and if they love the person they should love, they may not have a more brilliant life.
In this life, no one can live, as long as they are alive, they should live well and wonderfully.
As for my lover, I am fortunate to gain it, but I am to lose my life.