I have always liked those who have a sense of boundaries, and they know how to abide by the necessary distance and measure between people, so that they can maintain an independent personality and have respect for the independent personality of the people around them.
Some people always like to stand on their own level and use the only little insight and experience to guide other people's lives. A male classmate, divorced for many years has been single, the daughter of the previous few years seriously ill, physical and mental exhaustion. There are always classmates around the area with guidance similar to "you are like this, find a similar person will live a life", often chattering and persuading. The person who persuades looks bitter, and the person who is persuaded is upset. Some people have an inexplicable condescension, seemingly able to pinch their fingers and count other people's lives, which is an ignorant evil in my eyes.
I strongly support him believing in his waiting and not being tied up. Without companionship, at least there is freedom, and it is true loneliness to hate each other and not get rid of it. "Will be" into an inappropriate relationship, not qualified to deceive others can not deceive themselves, and finally can be peacefully separated is not too bad, the terrible thing is that you can't get rid of it and can't escape.
Recently, I have seen my classmates become busy, diligent and cheerful, and the whole person exudes a clean and fresh sunny temperament, which turns out to be a person who has already met. Finally waited for a beautiful and quiet girlfriend with a successful career, the two were busy together and leisurely, he liked to travel, he bought a Mercedes-Benz car, changed the camera, and sprinkled sweet dog food everywhere.
All the splendor in life will eventually be repaid by loneliness. All losses will return in another way, and your waiting will eventually live up to expectations.
