When Wang Jianlin started a business, a female boss invited him to dinner, paid 500 yuan less, and the waiter went to the private room and said: Boss, I'm sorry, there is a bottle of wine forgotten to give you, you need to make up the difference

When Wang Jianlin started a business, a female boss invited him to dinner, paid 500 yuan less, and the waiter went to the private room and said: Boss, sorry, there is a bottle of wine for you to forget, you need to make up the difference of 500 yuan. The female boss said: Your front desk is not written with cash in person, and you are not responsible for leaving the cabinet, that is your business, who miscalculates who pays.

The waiter almost cried out after hearing it, and said pleadingly: I am new, I don't understand the business, sorry to give you trouble, I hope you can forgive me, make up for the difference, I am also a part-time worker, a monthly salary of only 2500 yuan, if you do not make up, the boss will use my salary advance, this is the consumption list, you can check the next.

When Lao Wang heard this, he said, "Shall I pay?"

The female boss immediately said: Don't pay, this is not our responsibility, I will arrange someone to deal with this matter later, let's go back first, right?

Lao Wang saw that she said this and was not embarrassed to resign, back to the office, the female boss took out the contract for Lao Wang to sign, Lao Wang said: I want to sign this contract later, because I don't know enough about you, I want to consider it again.

As soon as the female boss heard it, she was anxious: Didn't you just say okay, sign it when you come back after eating, how to say that the change has changed?

Lao Wang said: I did say this just now, but after eating, I think we still have to understand each other, I'm sorry.

The female boss had no choice but to sign the contract later according to his wishes. In fact, Lao Wang is reluctant to sign a contract because he felt that this female boss had potential risks when he was eating just now, and he needed to understand it again to implement it.

To participate in the social dinner, you must understand the 5 "unspoken rules"!

1. The meal is the place where the most important position is respected

Whether it's in the seat, toasts and conversations, people of high status are always at the heart of the dinner, especially when you're working within the system. If your position is relatively low, you must remember to help others add tea and pour water at the dinner table, talk less and eat more vegetables, and never make a fuss and not be able to put yourself in a position.

2. Chance meals, try not to go

Because others are probably just being polite and don't really want to invite you. According to the convention, if you want to invite others to dinner, you will usually invite 2 to 3 days in advance to make arrangements for others to make time. Participating in a casual dinner party will not only lower your own rank, but also make others think that your emotional intelligence is too low. You know, the biggest cultivation of an adult professional is to have self-knowledge.

3. You can respect one person by multiple people, but you cannot respect multiple people by one person, unless you are a leader.

When touching a glass with someone in a higher position, the rim of the cup should be slightly lower than the other person to show respect for others. If you are the leader, then don't put it too low, otherwise others will not be able to touch your cup. In addition, toast must have a toast, that is to say, why do you toast others, and why do others want to drink the wine you toast.

4. It is still very necessary to regularly participate in some dinner parties and move around more.

On the one hand, you can get a lot of news that cannot be heard through normal channels, and see some people and things clearly;

On the other hand, the meal is also an effective carrier for expressing loyalty and narrowing the distance between the leader and the leader.

5. Organize and participate in the dinner, be sure to figure out what your purpose is, whether you want to thank others, or ask others for help. It should be noted that in the dinner table, if you are criticized by the leader, you must accept it with an open mind, and you must not raise your eyebrows and look at it coldly.

Six precautions to use when socializing at dinner:

First, when eating, if you take a photo with your mobile phone, then the impression of others on you will definitely be discounted, especially some business meals, you should pay special attention to put away the mobile phone, and do not put it on the desktop.

Second, family dinner or business dinner, do not turn over in the dish, this is the most taboo, you want to eat a plate of dishes, it is best to clip near a third of yourself.

Third, dinner drinking is a common thing, if you want to pour wine for the leader, you must remember, as long as you pour 7 points full.

Fourth, the order of toast is also exquisite, to the workplace dinner, the general situation is that after the leaders toast each other, you as an accompaniment, according to the level of the position, from large to small, in turn to give them a toast, if it is a different company, do not understand the situation of people on the spot, then touch the wine according to clockwise, not favor one over the other.

Fifth, when there is a little toast, be sure to raise the glass with both hands, raise the cup with the right hand, hold the bottom of the cup with the left hand, hold up the bottom of the other party's cup when you touch the glass with the other party, let the other party feel respected, and after drinking the wine, aim the cup at the other party, and show your hands.

If you invite guests to dinner, how can the opening toast be said to open up the atmosphere more easily? Here are 4 common examples:

First, please colleagues:

The first is the opening statement, "Usually work together, it is rare to have dinner together, today everyone has to relax a little, come to us to dry this cup of wine first, I wish our career as dry as possible!" ”

Second, please lead:

Today is very touching, thank you Mr. Zhang for being able to take time out of your busy schedule to come here for a small gathering, these years under your leadership we have gained a lot, we will toast you first!

Third, please customers:

Thank you General Manager Liu for coming, the smooth development of our business is inseparable from your support and care for us, we first toast you a cup, I wish us a happy future cooperation.

4. Ask relatives:

Today there are so many people in the family, I am particularly happy, usually we are only in the New Year's Festival to get together, today just take advantage of my mother's birthday, everyone must eat well and drink well, are their own family, don't be polite, come and go, wish my mother a happy birthday, but also wish everyone everything is smooth!

We must not think that the social skills are useless things, on the contrary, its actual use is more powerful than your professional knowledge, some people are because they know how to socialize, so his connections will be extensive, in the work or life, many things can be handled easily.

When you learn to socialize and know how to socialize, then at the dinner table you have given enough face to others, and others will also give you face. The impression you leave on others will be better and better, the network will be more and more extensive, not only the leaders like you, the partners will also appreciate you, the promotion and salary will be faster and faster, and it will be easier to talk about business!