Someone wanted to go to the former leader to pay a New Year's greeting, but the former leader's wife refused on the grounds that she had gone out to visit relatives. Someone blamed me for taking advantage of the red envelope of the former leader...
A leader of someone's company thinks that the company gives less, and resigned last year to go it alone. But he has always been in contact with someone, when someone has technical problems, he goes back to ask the former leader, and the former leader will let someone do a favor when he lives a lot, and the relationship is still very good.
Saying that it is a former leader is actually only technical guidance, and is not responsible for someone's promotion and salary increase. That is, related to money, it is the boss who has the final say, and this former leader cannot be the master.
In the past, we used to live in a neighborhood with this former leader, and we also went to their home, and we also knew the wife of the former leader. Occasionally, we chat on WeChat.
Last year, before the leader resigned, the leader's old father died, and someone like other people in the company gave the money to the elements, and also went to the leader's house to see and comforted.
Probably because of this share of money, the former leader's wife sent a red envelope to someone during the Spring Festival, saying that it was for the child's pressed age money. Someone didn't want to take it, so I advised someone to take it. I said take it first, and then we'd go and pay him a New Year's greeting and buy him about the same amount of wine and cigarettes to bring.
Then, someone accepts the red packet. The next day, after buying tobacco and alcohol, I told the leader that I wanted to go to the New Year. The leader's wife probably guessed that we would give gifts, so she said that they were not at home and went to relatives. It is tantamount to politely rejecting us.
At this point, someone said that I was collecting red envelopes because I wanted to be greedy and cheap. I said to him, you look at this tobacco and alcohol we bought, which is taking advantage. Such a good opportunity to move around, isn't it better to have a better relationship! Someone who is dismissive of this, he wants to be able to stay at home, to be less than one thing, [cover his face]? I'm really a nosy dog with a rat!
You say, is this someone who doesn't understand people's feelings, or shouldN't I take this red envelope?
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