#How to look at Gu Ailing's mother's education method #The 2022 Winter Olympics will be officially held in Beijing. As Gu Ailing completed the super difficult third jump and her personal resume was exposed after winning the gold medal, her mother's education method also triggered a heated discussion among many netizens. The gold medal is soft, Gu Ailing's proud record has become the top of this Winter Olympics, and what kind of wise mother does the "all-round girl" have behind her life?
Parents are not as good as teaching by example. In daily life, many parents in order to let their children study well, admitted to the ideal middle school and university, will always tirelessly carry out some empty preaching to their children, the result is counterproductive, the child not only does not accept, but resists or even rebels. Ask your child to learn, but you are playing with your mobile phone; ask your child to work overtime, but you are playing mahjong. How can such words and deeds transmit positive energy to children? Gu Ailing once said: "I really think she is the best mother in the world." It can be seen that the words and deeds of parents are crucial to the growth of children.
Interest is the best teacher. Many parents believe that if their children want to get ahead in the future, they must study hard, and only by being admitted to high-quality universities can they go to the top of life. How many children like to draw, like to sing and like sports since childhood, but they are snuffed out in the cradle by their parents for various reasons. Many people think that Gu Ailing is just a sports girl who can ski, but in fact, she is still a stanford school bully, she chose to complete the remaining two years of high school courses in advance from 2019 to 2020 school year, and successfully entered Stanford University with a high score of 1580 (out of 1600).
Accept your child's imperfections. Parents' excessive expectations of their children's education come from the collusion of two powerful forces, "selfish genes" and "lottery culture". Life is always broken, and it is this imperfection that makes us whole, just as dark clouds and storms are the best revelation of the sky, and imperfections can bring light in. Gu's mother told her children from her own experience: Don't be a perfect person, there is no perfect person in the world. Accept your child's imperfections, encourage children to learn to try and make mistakes, small mistakes continue, and only when they grow up can they not make big mistakes. Learn to wait until the flowers bloom.
Rest well to learn well. Adequate sleep is a prerequisite for learning well, and sleeping well is also part of learning. Gu Ailing has told her own energy and excellent learning ability on many occasions, that is, she sleeps enough for 10 hours a day. On the other hand, our schools, teachers and parents, for the sake of children's learning, do not hesitate to destroy students and children's physical and mental expenses, engage in sea tactics, work overtime to brush up on problems, and even sacrifice children's winter and summer vacations to attend extracurricular cram classes, many primary and secondary school students have to learn until eleven or twelve o'clock in the evening in order to complete extracurricular homework. Where is the rest of this kind of learning, and how can we talk about efficiency?
Good habits win a good life. 100% investment when it is time to study, and 100% relaxation when it is time to rest, is what Gu Ailing's mother has always asked Gu Ailing to do. Gu Ailing's mother has developed good study habits for her since she was a child, and in terms of learning and training, she has always taken the initiative to ask for this, rather than parents urging. In the face of learning, he did not buy a large number of reference books to read to his children like other parents, but let the children choose their hobbies freely, and encouraged his daughter to develop the good habit of learning her own practice.
The family is the child's first school, and the parents are the child's first teachers. Self-disciplined parents can cultivate excellent children. Gu Ailing's success may make her family education sought after. However, it must be pointed out that family education is very personalized, and different family backgrounds and individual children determine that family education methods are not necessarily universal. There is no shortcut to family education, let alone utilitarianism, parents can only help their children to be the best of themselves if they start from the education of respecting their children's personality and interests and choosing a talent path suitable for their children. (Picture from the Internet, invasion and deletion)
