Is it worth it for someone who has lost their family money to treat cancer?
His father was diagnosed with lung AI at the age of 57 and died at the age of 59. When I first learned about the condition, I had an exchange with the doctor, and the doctor euphemistically said that the short period was as short as three months, and the treatment was extended by three years.
My father was also very open-minded, saying that he would treat it first, even if he really couldn't do it, he would never be tortured at the last moment (my father had just entered the hospital, and there was an old man next door who left, looking very miserable).
But as the treatment continues to deepen, no one tells the truth like the first one, a question is a high probability that it can be cured, but once the money is handed over, you let him go to see more, he will have a "everything in the word" posture.
As the drug was constantly injected into the body, the father also changed, becoming nervous, nagging, mother-in-law, began to desperately want to live, and often rushed out of bed in the corridor crazy, had to tie him to the bed, under the two years of torture in the dark, and finally left ugly.
I also have a little money in my family, but I can also feel the feeling of spending money like water, at that time we directly beat The Cardy 300,000 and then gave it to my uncle, fortunately I had an uncle who retired at home, otherwise the nurse would be more than two hundred a day.
In the face of terminal illness, you are not Papa Ma, your family's savings are the result of everyone's efforts for more than ten years, or even decades, and the basis for ensuring the operation of the family.
Targeted therapy is to take money to drag out time, and these real money and silver are for you to pay. Relatives must be supportive of your treatment, maybe everyone has the same mirror in their hearts, but who will carry this pot? I have great admiration for my cousin here, she is the president of the university, and only then did she quietly and I suggested giving up treatment.
Don't take your relatives' opinions to heart. They scolded you for not filial piety today, scolded you for being ruthless, your life is booming, do they dare to say hello when they see you? They each praise you for your filial piety and benevolence, you are ruined, you have no food and clothing, will they look up to you?
What is virtual and what is real, you must have a mirror in your heart, so that there will be no regrets in this way. It's worth following your heart. --- is from netizen Lu Xiaoyi
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