Write about individuals one by one, and learn to be a person for a lifetime. The two pressures on the head become the sky, carrying the burden and holding up a piece of the sky for the family.
When he was young, his father was young and handsome, and he worked alone as a coolie to support the whole family. In order to earn more money, he followed his relatives to Beijing to work, leaving his hometown at the end of the New Year every year, and returning home in the winter month (November of the lunar calendar).
The most memorable thing is that in the middle of the night in the sweet dream, I suddenly heard someone knocking on the window, and suddenly my father's face appeared on the window, and my mother got up happily to open the door. Dad came into the house with a cold breath, and the family couldn't go to sleep, chatting happily around the quilt.
Dad took out the toys and stationery he had bought for me and told me to study hard. Dad's palms are wide and warm, but there are coarse cocoons, dad is a mason, the hometown is called a big worker.
He is careful and meticulous, many customers want him to do indoor work, paste porcelain diamonds to paint the wall, he is happy to agree.
Now there is a dinosaur toy and an electronic keyboard in the house, which my father brought to me from Beijing at that time, and he said that he found no one in the garbage heap and took it back.
I regard it as a treasure, it is a beautiful memory of my childhood, and it is also my father's love.
Dad was particularly handsome when he was young, tall and tall at one meter and eight meters, with big eyes and double eyelids, a long face, and a cheerful personality. No matter the wind or rain, spring, summer, autumn and winter, except for the few days of the New Year, he is working hard every day. Moving bricks is dark due to years of wind and sun.
Dad at that time was a piece of the sky in our family, holding up the future of all of us.
As he grew older, Dad had a slight hunch on his back, but his spirit and personality were still very good.
At the end of 18, Dad suddenly had joint pain, and he could not find the cause everywhere he checked and saw the doctor, and then his hand joints were swollen and severely deformed, and he found the cause - he had rheumatoid arthritis.
My mother was flustered and overwhelmed, and my sister and I advised her to inquire about the doctor and give my father a good treatment, at least not to deteriorate. After inquiring about it, seeing a doctor everywhere and taking medicine, Dad's health improved, but it still recurred from time to time.
Since then, I have found that my father has suddenly aged a lot, which is completely different from the people who carried me to the theater and played hide-and-seek with me in my memory.
Because of his physical reasons, he can no longer continue his old business, and he feels that as a man, he cannot rely on his family to support himself, and he has to make money on his own. I inquired about going to Zhejiang, found a job of security, saved money every month, and then his body was really not good, his feet were swollen and he couldn't walk, and his shoulders hurt and couldn't sleep, so he returned to his hometown.
But he sighed every day, feeling like a wasted man. With our comfort, his mentality improved.
I have also grown up, the father who used to shelter us from the wind and rain did not spare any effort, now we should also shield him from the wind and rain, I only hope that God will treat his father well, let him be healthy, stop suffering, live a long life, and enjoy life.
