"What is the relationship between your family?" I don't know how to circle, I can't understand", in the morning rounds of the room and the patient's family communication, the inexplicable relationship made me feel that the IQ was pressed on the ground

"What is the relationship between your family?" How I am confused, I can't understand", in the morning rounds of the room and the patient's family communication, the unclear relationship made me feel that the IQ was pressed on the ground and rubbed.

Check the skin of bedridden patients during the morning rounds, and when a female patient admitted to the hospital yesterday was admitted to the hospital, it was found that the buttocks were not wet due to the use of hip diapers at home, and they were not replaced in time, resulting in serious incontinent dermatitis, so they belonged to key personnel and key handover objects. Why her buttocks can become like this, and his wife ignored her, bored and impatient has a lot to do with it, yesterday when we helped the patient to change scrubbing, the wife was cold all the way, far away, the hands were unwilling to move, I thought it was the macho idea of the man in Guanzhong, excluding wiping the woman's ass, after helping to do his work: "You are his wife, this time you have to serve, in the past people served you, this time you have to take care of it." "I can't wait, someone will come in a moment, the woman will come to you to say to her", the patient's wife still has a look of not caring about herself, it seems that standing here is superfluous, indifferent attitude. Seeing this scene, since someone else came, I did not force him, and let the responsible nurse must guide the precautions after seeing her daughter.

As a result, in the afternoon, I heard that her wife and daughter blamed each other for the cost problem, and the daughter told the nurse: "I came to be responsible for contributing, if you pay for it, you will find her father", at that time, I thought of a strange family, and the mother's medical account was so clear. So when I checked the room in the morning, I directly said to the girl: "Tell your father to buy hip cream outside the pharmacy to protect the skin and promote repair", the girl's eyes widened with a look of complaint and anger, "I asked him to buy, then (Oh) didn't the people tell you nurses?" Now people let me take care of it, and the (oh) man said he didn't care." The title and code name "that person, Oh person" made me stunned at once, the Shaanxi dialect "Oh" is a code name full of contempt, only for people who are extremely disrespectful to use, as if yesterday was to say his girlfriend, for a while I was stunned, a moment of silence. "Who are you?" What is your relationship? "I awkwardly touched my head to ease the atmosphere." It doesn't matter, I don't know why I said it", the girl said sloppily and refused to say it to avoid my question. "He is the patient's wife", I continued to ask, "Yes", "then you are her girl, is your father", I looked at the patient lying on the bed, and then looked at the girl next to me, "Alas, your family's relationship, my IQ is not enough", I saw that the girl was reluctant to mention her father, so I no longer asked, the family has a difficult scripture, why should people's unspeakable secrets be asked to the root, and be literate. So he told the girl about the precautions and left the ward.

After idleness, I listened to the nurse tell me about the current situation of her family, the original patient's wife said that she was a monk on the mountain, twenty years of the family did not care, said that it was to break the red dust, the break was broken, the money and things in the family were pinched in the hands, no one was waiting to see, the patient's intelligence was low, coupled with the bedridden loss of labor ability, at most came back to pay a hospital fee, and then disappeared, more than twenty years The girl has had enough of this role of the father, so he has been completely disappointed, there is no respect for the elders, and some are only bored.

Hearing this, I wondered, how can the red dust be unconcerned, the cultivators do not say that money and goods are things outside the body, these can not give up and talk about the six roots of purity, not to mention that the cultivators must always have good thoughts, and get good results from good karma. "Compassion for all sentient beings" means to look at the ten directions and six sentient beings with one compassion, such as father, mother, brothers, sisters, children and nephews, and often think and enjoy the heart of suffering, otherwise it is difficult to enter the "Dharma compassion" and "no reason compassion", this is my feeling from reading Mr. Lin Qingxuan's prose, one's own opinion, just talk about making an article.