#Shanghai Headlines##Shanghai Side Affairs#Morning Brush Headlines To see a friend, take a video about a child occupying two seats, Shanghai Aunt criticizes the child for not having quality, a sentence "You don't."

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In the morning, I saw a friend who saw a friend, took a video about a child occupying two seats, and the Shanghai aunt criticized the child for not having quality, and a sentence of "you don't educate me to educate" was on fire.

Seeing this, I can't help but think of the unpleasant thing that my sister went to the school for a parent-teacher conference some time ago and came back.

In fact, nothing major has happened, which is estimated to be a normal thing in China, that is, the teacher's evaluation of the big baby of the sister's family makes the sister not very happy.

My sister told me that the teacher suggested that she could consult or see the language barrier teacher. The teacher expressed that the big baby's language ability had a language barrier and could not speak clearly. He has a somewhat cowardly personality and cries when he can't answer the teacher's questions.

I believe that any mother who hears someone say that her child is not good is in a good mood.

It is somewhat similar to the situation in which the Shanghai aunt accused the child of lack of quality as soon as she came up.

So in the final analysis, it is still back to the topic of "children's family and life education" that is never outdated.

My sister's personality is very good and strong, and it is very uncomfortable to hear the teacher evaluate her child like this. Video chatting with her found out that something was wrong with her, and I didn't know why when I asked.

I have always thought that the education culture of foreign countries will pay more attention to the advantages of the child's own personality than at home, and it turns out that it is no different, and the school chosen by my sister is still an aristocratic school.

Let's not analyze whether foreign aristocratic schools will have some problems of racial discrimination like some high-end schools in China, take the children themselves:

Because Dawa is her sister's first child, she has no experience with children, and Dawa only drinks formula milk from a young age, not breast milk. Not yet a year old, because of the pressure of life, my sister and they have to go to class during the day, so during the day, Dawa can only be sent to daycare.

Professor Li Meijin's "Psychological Upbringing" once mentioned that if a child starts to constantly learn to change the caregiver at a very young age, when the child grows up, the soul will naturally lack of security and self-confidence.

My sister also asked Dawa why she was crying when answering questions. Dawa replied, I am afraid that the answer is wrong. I asked my sister, when she was at home, was Dawa the same?

She said yes. I said, do you also deny him that you don't affirm him? My sister said yes.

This reminds me of a story of a mother treating her child: it was also a parent-teacher meeting, and the teacher denied the child's efforts because the results of the exam were not good.

On the way home, the mother did not say a word, thoughtfully, took the child's hand and walked slowly. The child has doubts in his heart, not knowing what the teacher said to his mother?

He asked, "Did I not behave well in school and make you unhappy?" ”

The mother looked at the child in surprise, then crouched down, smiled at her own child and said, "No, you are doing well." ”

Because this mother knows her child and clearly sees that her child is working hard. Although the school teacher did not affirm her child, she was convinced that her child would get better slowly.

In the end, the child did slowly progress and grow up at his own pace.

Therefore, the education of modern children is far less simple than those of us on the surface, of course, it is not very complicated.

Just like now, when we were young, we were completely free-ranged, and we were not raised to endanger society, and we abided by our own way of life.

I don't know if it is a problem of life pressure itself, or personality, many people will be irritable as soon as they encounter unhappiness, and then there will be various quarrels.

What do you think about the education of children?