Author: Bookworm
George Bernard Shaw once said:
Home is the only place in the world where human flaws and failures are hidden, and it also contains sweet love.
That's true.
Home is everyone's weakness, and some precious feelings are hidden only in the home.
As the recent hit "The World of Man", it tells the story of the ups and downs of life experienced by three generations of a zhou family in the past 50 years.
Although their lives are not rich, and everyone has experienced different hardships in life, it is fortunate that their parents love and brotherhood.
However, after carefully tasting it, I found that there was such a truth hidden behind it: it turned out that the stupid child really came to repay the favor.
The old Zhou family has three children: the eldest son Zhou Bingyi, the daughter Zhou Rong and the younger son Zhou Bingkun.
Zhou Bingyi is "someone else's child".
I studied well from an early age and was admitted to the Philosophy Department of Peking University in the year when the college entrance examination was resumed.
In the words of Zhou Bingyi, "Simply put, it is the mother of all disciplines."
You can imagine how good he is.
After graduation, he went from being a top official in a state-owned factory to an employee of a central government, and his life was full of scenery.
On the eve of graduation, he also thought about returning to his hometown to become an ordinary teacher and serve his old mother.
But it was destined that his pursuits and dreams would push him into a bright future.
The second daughter, Zhou Rong, is the same as her brother Zhou Bingyi, the same talent, the same full of ambitions and ideals.
She was admitted to Peking University in the same year as Zhou Bingyi and later became a university professor. After going abroad, he read books, wrote and wrote, and became a writer.
Even if the marriage did not go well, she was successful in her career.
She was also touched by the red sweater that her mother had knitted for her, and cried that she wanted to accompany her mother.
However, such a child will eventually have her ambitions and ideals, as well as her persistence and stubbornness, and it is impossible to always have children and grandchildren around the knees.
Compared with his older brother and sister, the third son, Zhou Bingkun, only has a primary school diploma.
Reading from a young age is not top-notch, and it looks more thick and honest, which is the "old knot" in my mother's mouth.
He did not have the lofty ambitions of his brothers and sisters, but his kindness and benevolence were also incomparable to his brothers and sisters.
Although the humble Bingkun is not like his brother and sister, he can fight for the face of his parents, but when his mother is paralyzed in bed, only he serves before and after the saddle and runs back and forth to take care of him.
Stupid, he is more like a person who has come to repay the favor.
Many parents, after watching this plot, have a feeling and send:
"I worked so hard to raise my children, and as a result, the children went abroad and had a job, so who will accompany me when I come?"
"Or don't raise your child too well!"
"Children have children's lives, they succeed, and aren't parents also glorious and proud?"
It is true that no matter how good the child is, the child who makes parents feel most comforted in his later years is Zhou Bingkun.
This scene made many parents sigh.
In the face of children who have the ability to fly far away, they no longer need and rely on their parents, but count the increasing number of gray hair and fine lines, facing the loneliness of old age.
There is a video of an old grandmother in Hunan that has aroused a lot of discussion.
In the video, she tells her loneliness alone:
Too lonely, alone.
My daughter went to the United States, my son went to Guangzhou, and I had eight grandchildren, but they were not by my side for the sake of livelihood and for the sake of the family.
However, I am alone now, so lonely.
In just a few words, the words exhausted the heartache and helplessness of an old man.
She expects to be accompanied by her children and grandchildren, and she has to understand her children's choices because of reality.
In May last year, data from the seventh national census were released.
The mainland population reached 1.417 billion people, of which 264 million were over 60 years old, accounting for 18.4%.
This means that there are actually many empty nesters left at home across the country.
Like Mother Zhou, she is proud to see that the children she has raised have such excellent results.
But how many "Zhou Bingkun" can accompany their parents?
Therefore, most parents choose to live alone and give their children freedom.
They have worked hard for most of their lives, and they do not easily tell their children about their suffering, and their children are always the first in their hearts.
Nowadays, many parents are looking forward to jackie chan and daughter into phoenix, and they pin too many hopes and expectations on their children.
"Or don't raise your child too well!" It became a joke.
Every parent seems to be riveting a chicken baby, even if the qualifications are mediocre, they want to do everything they can to make him stand out.
But they all ignore that every child has differences, and not all children have only one way out.
I once heard a passage from a principal and am still impressed:
Respect each child's differences and raise them slowly.
Some children are born with the qualifications to read, and some children do not. Unqualified children come to repay their parents' kindness.
Because reading is particularly good, the future will go to the United States, Britain, Canada, meet can only rely on video, reading is not qualified to wait for us to get old, can often accompany us around, today take us to eat beef balls, tomorrow take us to eat seafood.
In the end, don't envy what kind of sons or daughters other people have, many things have long been doomed, do not have to be too demanding, careful education, accompany growth, their children are the best.
Indeed, as the headmaster said.
Whether his child is gifted such as Zhou Bingyi or has mediocre qualifications such as Zhou Bingkun, learning is not the standard by which he is good or bad.
To cultivate a child, there has never been a fixed pattern, but the appropriate way should be chosen according to the differences of children.
Do you know Wang Anshi's "Wounded Zhongyong"?
It is a story about the prodigy Fang Zhongyong, who was gifted and intelligent from an early age, and at the age of 5 he could write poetry and even export chapters.
In the end, however, he became an ordinary man.
Even if the prodigy does not choose the right educational method, who can say that the future will definitely be able to get ahead?
Even if you look at the children who are partial and backward now, as long as they choose the right education method, who can say that they will not be happy and smooth in the future?
"In the World" tells us that even Zhou Bingkun, as long as he loves life, is kind and filial, he is a good child and a successful person.
Don't ignore the nurturing of the day after tomorrow because the child is smart, and don't ignore the other advantages of the child because he is stupid.
Looking directly at the differences of each child is the best beginning of the road to education!
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