Just now, my mother-in-law suddenly transferred 400,000 yuan to me, she is an old lady in the countryside, my father-in-law has long passed away, she has been in the city for less than two months, where did she get such money? With doubts, I went to my mother-in-law, and after learning the truth, I was in a dilemma.
My mother-in-law lived in my sister-in-law's house, and since my father-in-law's death, my mother-in-law moved from the countryside to the city, first living in my house for a few days, and then being picked up by my sister-in-law to her house.
The sister-in-law has two children, the youngest is in elementary school, she picked up my mother-in-law, let her pick up the children, help her with housework. My sister-in-law is busy at work, her husband is also often on business trips, and my mother-in-law happens to be her good helper.
Although my sister-in-law and I do not live in the same neighborhood, our two families are not far away. After my sister-in-law graduated from college, my husband helped her find a job in the city, and soon after the job, my sister-in-law had a boyfriend, and after more than a year, the two of them got married and made a home in the city.
My mother-in-law does not live in my house, but I still often go to visit her, my mother-in-law is also a mother, before she was in the countryside, I was inconvenient to go often, and now when I am around, my husband and I have time, I will buy some fruit, look for her old man's home nagging.
My mother-in-law's situation, I understand, she and my father-in-law have lived in the countryside all their lives, but also for two college students, when my husband and I got married, as long as the dowry of twenty thousand, my mother-in-law also borrowed a part, the first two years, we helped her to go to school.
Now, my mother-in-law suddenly transferred 400,000 yuan to me, which surprised me, where did she get so much money? Even if she had found a job in the city, she would not have earned so much in less than two months.
With doubts, I went to my sister-in-law's house, and it happened that my mother-in-law was also at home, she was cleaning the house, and when she saw me coming, she asked me to sit down on the sofa first, and when she finished cleaning, she would talk to me.
I cleaned up with my mother-in-law, and soon we finished cleaning, and my mother-in-law washed me fruit, and we sat down on the couch and started chatting.
I first asked my mother-in-law about her physical condition, and she said that in the recent period, her health was fine, and she didn't need me to worry about it. Knowing that my mother-in-law's health was not in serious trouble, I was relieved.
Next, I asked my mother-in-law: Mom, just now you transferred 400,000 yuan to me, I have received it, I understand your situation, how did you suddenly have 400,000? Where did the money come from? You tell me the truth, otherwise I don't feel safe about this money.
After listening to my question, my mother-in-law sighed a long time, and she shook my hand and said: I told you the truth, you don't blame me, my mother-in-law is also old and confused, I don't know how important it is, far and near.
It turned out that more than a month ago, the mother-in-law's old rural house was requisitioned, and she received 1.5 million yuan in compensation, and after the money arrived, she did not tell me, nor did she tell my husband, she only told her daughter about it.
My mother-in-law is also selfish, although she also knows that I am good to her, and my husband often gives her pocket money, but she still believes in her daughter's aunt, in her heart, she is planning to retire at her daughter's home.
After the 1.5 million compensation money arrived, she left 500,000 yuan for herself and 1 million for her daughter. She had thought that if she gave her daughter 1 million, her daughter would be better for her, but what she did not expect was that her daughter thought that this money should be given to her, and she still had a lukewarm attitude towards my mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law also told me that since she lived in her daughter's house, although her daughter was okay with her, she was not as good as me. Especially her aunt, who doesn't treat her very well, often has nothing to do, the two quarrel, and my mother-in-law is not happy here.
Just over ten days ago, the mother-in-law felt unwell and wanted her daughter to take her to the hospital for examination, but my sister-in-law actually said that now she is busy at work and will take her when she has time.
But after saying this, my sister-in-law drew her eyebrows and beat her sideburns, and then went shopping with a few friends. Her own shopping was even more important than my mother-in-law's health, and through this incident, my mother-in-law was even more disappointed in her daughter.
Later, when I came to visit my mother-in-law, I found that she had a bad face, and took her to the hospital for examination, and the result surprised me, and the doctor told me: Your mother-in-law is caused by malnutrition.
At that time, I also asked my mother-in-law: My sister-in-law's family conditions are also good, their family's living standards should be OK, you live in her house, how can you be malnourished?
Although my mother-in-law did not elaborate with me, from the look in her eyes, I already had a general understanding of my mother-in-law's situation. I wanted my mother-in-law to move back to my house, but my mother-in-law did not agree, she said: Your sister-in-law is very busy at work, I help her cook, pick up the children, but also to reduce her burden.
My sister-in-law knew that my mother-in-law had 1.5 million in her hand, so she gave her 1 million, and there was still 500,000 left in her hand. Last night, the sister-in-law asked my mother-in-law for money again, she said that she wanted to change cars, she needed two or three hundred thousand, let my mother-in-law give her another 300,000. My mother-in-law did not give it to her, and my sister-in-law was very dissatisfied with my mother-in-law, and when she slept, she slammed the door shut.
After thinking about it, my mother-in-law felt sorry for me, so this morning, she secretly transferred 400,000 to me.
My mother-in-law took my hand and said to me: Although you give you less, you must stay, and I have left 100,000 myself, and I will use it for my own pocket money.
I don't want the 400,000 that my mother-in-law gave me, that's her money, she can deal with it as much as she wants, but my mother-in-law has to let me accept the money, in order not to make my mother-in-law sad, I will no longer refuse.
I also want to take my mother-in-law to my house, I take care of her, but my mother-in-law does not agree, she is afraid to go to my house, my sister-in-law got cheap and sold well, but there is something to say.
What do I have to do to get my mother-in-law to move to my house? Or what do I have to do to make my sister-in-law kinder to my mother-in-law?
Talk directly with your sister-in-law, it is best to call your husband up, as a daughter, she treats her mother in this way, that is, filial piety, your mother-in-law's tolerance, and your hesitation, is the connivance of your sister-in-law's behavior, education and education, is to help her, she also has children, she is not worried about her behavior, will it affect the physical and mental health of her children?
Respect the old and love the young, should let her understand the meaning of this sentence, should let her know the mistakes and repentance, this is also your sister-in-law's obligation and responsibility, let her realize her mistakes, do not tolerate her, now she may hate you, one day in the future she will be grateful to you.