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#一个人如果不结婚, will you be happy # I think a person can be happy if they are not married, but it may be different from the happiness that other people who marry. Because

#一个人如果不结婚, will you be happy # I think a person can be happy if they are not married, but it may be different from the happiness that other people who marry. Because the measure of happiness should be whether the individual will be happy, whether he can be mentally and materially satisfied. Rather than relying on marriage as a criterion, whether a person is married or not and whether they are necessarily happy is not the determining factor. Marriage can bring happiness, and of course marriage can bring pain. What matters is whether this kind of life you choose will bring you joy and happiness, and if you can, whether you are married or not becomes irrelevant.

Of course, we cannot deny that marriage can bring happiness to people, marriage is a person from the original family to another small family "way", we are united by love, living together, supporting each other, giving each other warmth, we are each other's closest people. And in the future, couples will also conceive the next generation, jointly nurture and witness the growth of the next generation. It can be said that marriage makes our lives more colorful, and can also make people feel the warmth and happiness of family life.

But this does not mean that only marriage will make you happy, and if you are not married, you will not be happy. Because some people may not be married in this generation, but they have always supported each other with the right person, except for that one certificate, the two people still maintain a substantial married life. Or maybe some people are celibalists, don't need family bondage, but put more time and energy into work career, in these things, she can feel more joy and happiness. So how can we say that unmarried people are unhappy?

In my opinion, happiness is very subjective, and only the happiness you feel is true happiness. Those who use other people's standards to bind themselves and measure their own lives are the most difficult to get happy. In particular, to determine whether a person is happy by whether they are married or not, I think it is not necessary. If one can also be spiritually rich and materially sufficient, then I think this is happiness.

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