Some people say that children taught by rich people are the best. Because wealthy families can give their children very good educational resources.
The children of the poor, on the other hand, receive less educational resources than the rich families, and they need to work ten times harder than the rich to obtain the same resources as the rich.
And is this really the case? In order to study whether innate factors determine a person's personality, or whether acquired education affects a person, the United Kingdom launched a living experiment and made a documentary - "Twin Strangers".
The triplets were adopted by rich, middle-class, and poor families at birth, and 20 years later, the children adopted by the rich were more successful.
From this experiment, it can be seen that whether a family is rich or not does not completely determine the future personality of the child, but more depends on the family's education.
What are the effects of family education on the personality of children?
First, the words and deeds of parents will affect the family atmosphere, and the family atmosphere will affect the child's personality. In a harmonious and respectful family atmosphere, children will also be positively affected.
Second, education that is too harsh and rude is not suitable for the growth of children. Children need positive appreciation in the process of growing up, not a negative suppression. And don't use domestic violence against your children.
Third, the lack of communication in the family education, so that children have autistic personality. But if there is a lack of communication, the child's voice is not known at all, and the parents only instill their own ideas in the air, regardless of whether the child accepts it or not.
Children's long-term lack of communication will only close their hearts, and psychological problems will occur in the long run.
In short, whether in poor or rich families, do not ignore the education of children, do not be too strict with children because of poverty, and do not be too conniving with children because of wealth, parents must think deeply: the decisive role of family education in children's character.