#New Year#A son of the in-laws has three daughters, all of whom have established a family and have children, one for each family. Four small families, one large family, a total of 14 people.
The mother-in-law is seventy-three, and the father-in-law is seventy-eight. Usually, our four small families are in the field, and only the Spring Festival gathers in their hometown.
Gathered in the hometown, reunion, lively, everyone is very happy.
But eating is a big problem, they are all adults, and they are all old enough to eat and drink. Therefore, in addition to playing together, eating is more troublesome. You have to do it, you have to make it delicious, and you have to do a lot to eat it. [Teeth] [Teeth] [Teeth]
My family is the eldest, and the only son, I jokingly set a rule: the New Year starts from my family, a family packs a day, from cooking to washing a dragon to be responsible for the end, other families will play without distraction.
When the rules are set, everyone agrees, and the mother-in-law and father-in-law have no objections. After more than a year of execution, the effect is also OK. But I still feel uncomfortable. Whenever I go to my sister-in-law's house to cook rice and I don't brush it, I feel a little uncomfortable. It felt as if I was doing something wrong.
When making a decision, based on experience, I feel that it is most reasonable to do so, and when it is implemented, I feel a little uneasy in my heart as a person who suggests it. But I can't accept that my family only burns and washes every day, and my mother-in-law and a few sisters-in-law will not just keep us busy, so it is not necessary for everyone to be busy.
How do you evaluate my approach and my psychology? I hope to see my friends who are small articles to communicate and suggest it.
Mongol Gege in Huainan. Waiting for everyone to exchange and correct [prayer]
#Housework# #Spring Festival #Cooking # #Mother-in-law # #姑嫂 #
