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On the first day of the Chinese New Year, when I went to the village to visit the New Year, I really saw all the sufferings of the world, and these rural elderly people really did not live as well as a family. The first one I went to was a 91-year-old man whose wife had died a few years earlier

On the first day of the Chinese New Year, when I went to the village to visit the New Year, I really saw all the sufferings of the world, and these rural elderly people really did not live as well as a family.

The first one I went to was a 91-year-old man whose wife had died a few years ago, with no sons but only daughters. At home alone in the New Year, guarding a large yard and taking care of himself. According to the villagers, the old man pretended to be deaf and blind in order to live in his daughter's house. This also reflects a problem, without sons, it is difficult to provide for the elderly.

The second home I went to was an old man in his seventies. Seeing her a few years ago, the body was still very good. This time, when I saw her, I was already lying on the bed and couldn't move, because I had just fallen and injured not long ago. This time I went to the hospital for examination, and I accidentally checked out Alzheimer's disease.

When she greeted her, she stopped joking loudly as she had in the past, staring straight at the wall on the side, not answering, and not rolling her eyes.

The old man had two sons, a daughter, and the eldest son had been missing from the family for more than twenty years, and had just returned not long ago, without a wife. The second son is more than fifty years old, has a bit of a brain problem, and finds a wife who is also mentally retarded, and gave birth to a son two years ago, and the son can only be handed over to his sister to take care of. Now the old man only relies on the eldest son to take care of the old man alone, and the other two children are exhausted and can barely live their own lives. But the eldest son also has no savings, staying at home to take care of the elderly, and life has become a problem again. And how he will retire in the future is also a hidden danger.

Their family built a two-story building a few years ago, but the home can be described as a four-walled family, and there is only one offering table for sacrifice in the hall, and the furniture is only some tables and chairs, benches, and no side objects. Television is nothing.

Therefore, even if you have a son, it is still difficult to provide for the elderly.

In the third home, the old man is more than sixty years old, has a son and a daughter, and has the best life, and is just an ordinary rural family. The elderly usually take care of their children at home, and the children work outside the home, and then plant some land to subsidize the family. The main thing is that the two people are in good health now, and they will not drag down the children.

After visiting them, I was really touched. For many rural elderly people, aging means that they can no longer take on some responsibilities for their families, and illness means that they have become a complete burden on their families.

Once you get sick, if you have a thin family and no money for treatment, a serious illness can hollow out a family. Pension is also a big problem, not to mention the rich old age life, how to maintain a normal daily life, is a problem. After all, children also have to live, and it is impossible to be tied to them and take care of them all the time. #Hot Spot Observatory New Spring # #文化大拜年 #

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