Born in 1983, starting yesterday, imaginary age forty, officially entered the middle of middle age, and opened the second half of life.
The first child and only daughter is 5 years old, fortunately it is the birthday of the second month of the lunar calendar, that is, it is about to turn 4 years old, and the kindergarten class has just been in the middle of half a year (in fact, it is only more than two months). I don't know how many other children my age are younger than me or even unmarried.
Divorced for more than two and a half years, to June on three years, do not plan to remarry, there are fixed boyfriends ready to look good, do not plan to get married and no longer have children, in addition to no money, there are a series of problems, that is, there is money is also a problem, currently get along for two years, the relationship is stable, get along harmoniously.
There are houses and cars without savings, the last salary and subsidy paid years ago, and all personal loans were paid off. The house is not the best location, the car is also a basic starting scooter, belongs to the out with legs back to have a nest.
The biggest thing to rely on is to have a stable job, drought and flood to ensure the harvest, not tired, and can not open their bodies to do other things, but also to avoid running around, the two women can shelter from the wind and rain.
Mom and Dad got married early, now Dad is 59, Mom is 60 years old, the body is still good, not to the time when people need to take care of it, but the energy is poor in memory.
I don't know if I'm doing well or not, self-assessment:
The girl is beyond expectations, thinking that at most 50 points, but the appearance (not because I am a mother, think that my children are good-looking, is the comment of others) and IQ synthesis, properly 90 points or more, the rest is to see her future efforts.
Feelings, because of the divorce, is a failure, but now with the boyfriend to live very well (specific how good, usually life has written, you can go to see), is a plus, barely counted on 80 points, if the boyfriend first marriage and no divorce plus the current state, really do not brag, proper 100 points.
Economically, I heard that many people are now desperately working hard for car loans and mortgages, basically in debt, I, there is no rich and noble life, now belongs to the state of no debt and no deposits, count a 70 points.
In terms of health, in addition to being fat, there is currently nothing wrong with it, can score 80 points, although sometimes I care, but I can't change it (polycystic ovary syndrome, I don't plan to have children again, it's not so important), and I don't bother to change (I don't like sports).
Parents are healthy, not in debt, younger siblings have a house and a car and a deposit, no drag, although there are some small contradictions in some things, but not to the complete red face or the situation of breaking up, this point, 100 points.
At work, many people want to work easily, although some of the treatment has not kept up, and I don't know if there is any in the future, but I am content, 90 points are there.
Overall rating: 85
At first glance, I feel good about myself, and the next step is to save some money, just in case I need it.
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