After the college entrance examination results came down, the friend's son did well in the exam and prepared to put on a feast. Borrow my Mercedes E300l to pick up and drop off relatives and friends. After a busy day, a friend sent me a red envelope in the evening,

After the college entrance examination results came down, the friend's son did well in the exam and prepared to put on a feast. Borrow my Mercedes E300l to pick up and drop off relatives and friends. After a busy day, a friend sent me a red envelope in the evening, and I opened it to see that I was angry and decided not to have any contact with him again.

After the college entrance examination results came down in the past few days, whose son in the circle of friends did well? More than 600 more than 500. My son from a rural friend scored 618, which is already very high, and the last ordinary 985 should be no problem.

This friend was very happy and was ready to invite friends and family to celebrate his son's good score. On the second night after the results came down, I received a call from a friend. First of all, I would like to congratulate my friend's son on his success.

My friend said: The child's exam is so good, I am ready to hold a few tables of banquets, you must come when the time comes.

I said, "That's no problem, you said I'd go whenever I wanted."

The friend said: In addition to letting you come, there is another thing I want to ask you to help, I know that you have just bought a new car not long ago, I don't know if you are willing to help your brother a favor?

When he said this, I understood what it meant, and I said: It's okay for my car to drive casually, isn't it simple?

He said, "Okay, then say yes, tomorrow I'm going to set up a few tables in the county hotel and use your car to pull a few guests."

I definitely know that my friend is for face, my car just bought a good one, and wants to use my car to pull customers. To tell the truth, this friend usually rarely contacts, when he was a child in the countryside, he often played together, and when he grew up, he ran to contact things less, and this time he called and said that this request, I could not help but agree.

In order to give my friend face, I decided to do a whole car wash of my car. The distance from my friend's hometown to the city is not very far from me, and it is almost 30 kilometers back and forth.

I left home at 5 o'clock in the morning, and at about 6 o'clock I arrived at my friend's hometown, I thought that their family might not have gotten up yet, but I didn't expect that the old people were up early, and it seemed that they were excited and did not close their eyes at all.

My friend arranged for me to say that my main task was to send some relatives in the countryside who were inconvenient without cars to the city and let them eat a banquet. There are still a lot of relatives and friends, and four or five cars are prepared.

When it is about seven or eight o'clock, all the relatives and friends are successively going to the friend's house, a car can take up to 4 people, and 5 cars can pull 20 at a time. I first took a few of them to the hotel, and then came back to pull their relatives and friends.

When I returned to their house again, I was completely stunned, densely packed. To say less, there are 150 people, I thought to myself how can this be more than the number of people who are married, does my son need to invite so many relatives and friends to get into college?

I pulled 4 guests in one morning, and the last trip passed at almost 12 o'clock. There are a few more cars in the back to help him pull relatives and friends, to be honest, I think his arrangement is particularly unreasonable, first of all, so many guests have not been prepared in advance, only with this kind of small car to pull people is too slow.

It was fine to go back in the evening, some friends couldn't wait to take the bus to rush back, so I only pulled two guests in the afternoon.

Before leaving, I jokingly asked my friend: Help you work all day, because the guests did not drink a cigarette and did not let you smoke?

The friend smiled and said: Oh, we are all old guys, the cigarettes have been distributed at noon, now there is no more, the wine is also drunk, there is a chance I will invite you to dinner.

When my friend said this, in fact, I was particularly disappointed in my heart, because I felt that I had come to help you, and I didn't even have any tobacco or alcohol, and I didn't even say a word of thanks, which made me feel particularly uncomfortable.

After returning home, I received a red envelope from a friend, and the friend said: Thank you, if it is not for you who really do not know what to do today, this red envelope represents my little heart, you must accept it.

I clicked on this red envelope and saw that there was only 88 yuan in it. I almost threw my phone down in anger, and sent me 88 yuan all day and sent me away?

To make face for him, I sent my car to be washed, and then I filled it with oil to pull his friends. Because I was going to drive, I didn't drink a drop of wine, I didn't smoke a cigarette at noon, I didn't say a word of thanks when I left, and finally I was only sent an 88 yuan red envelope.

To tell the truth, I really want to return this 88 yuan to him, I think as a friend is not to say that you have to care about this money, but I think the basic etiquette that should be between people must have it, you borrowed my car I agreed, after using it, at least to fill up the oil, now only send me 88 yuan red envelope, I really don't understand what he means.

I ended up deleting this friend, and I don't think I'll have any dealings with him in the future. Do you think I did the right thing by deleting this friend?

@Elegant Single Woman's Point:

First, after reading this matter, I feel particularly angry, how can there be such a friend who does not understand etiquette? After borrowing someone else's car, the minimum etiquette is to fill up the oil to the red envelope at least 100 yuan, to be honest, your friend is really too stingy, not to interact with him is correct.

Second, as a friend, your approach is very righteous, before lending the car to a friend, not only send the car to the car dealership to surprise, but also fill up the oil, and work hard to help friends to deliver guests.

Third, and this kind of friend to break off contact is a very correct choice, to be honest, your friend is too ignorant of Chinese people's sophistication, as a good friend, although you can't think about too much money, but sometimes these people should still be given.