Big Bull Busy Marriage Emotional Case Series
Keywords: divorce, love, lover
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Love can make people fight for themselves, and even not fear life and death. Everyone can doubt this statement, but no one can deny love itself!
This is the original words of a friend during the noon chat, and the intention of this sentence is very positive.
Some people say that love is a false paragraph, some people say that it is the tears of youth, some people say that it was the innocence and ignorance of the past...
In the impression of many people who have come over, with the increase of age and experience, more and more people have begun to doubt love, and even doubt marriage.
In fact, this is not the fault of love, but the fault of the human heart.
After a period of calming down, you may want to understand that they turn a blind eye to people's hearts, so they complain about love later. It is not terrible that other people's hearts are wrong, but they are afraid that their own hearts are also wrong but they are ignorant.
A divorced lady once recounted her complaints about love:
I loved him for more than 4 years, stayed with him for more than 2 years, divorced for him, turned face with his parents for him, left the children for him...
I truly loved him, willingly accompanied him, and dared to give up everything. I had no other demands, but only that he keep his promise, divorce his wife sooner, and give me a name.
Because of my appearance, he and his wife were separated for more than 2 years.
In those 2 years, I was with him day and night, and my relationship became better and better, which was the happiest time of my life. Even if we have not yet achieved the title of husband and wife, we are still willing to truly love each other, and our feelings are better than many couples.
I said in my heart that I had already regarded him as my future husband. Everyone knows that he and his wife have little affection and will divorce sooner or later. I just have to wait patiently, and I can always wait until the day I marry him.
Unfortunately, he left without waiting for that day, leaving me alone.
I loved him for years and followed him to complain, but in the end he gave me something?
You can't believe it, in the last moments of his life, he lost his conscience. He hid from me, left all the family property to his wife and children, completely ignored my existence, forgot my efforts.
He broke my heart.
If this is his return for love, is this love too deceitful? I couldn't understand how he followed him without complaint or regret, and he did this to me.
Do you say there is still true love in this world?
First, love the right person, but marry the wrong person
In the following, I will tell you about this lady's marriage case, which is worth some people's deep thinking. Some of the logic in marriage feelings is very straightforward, but sometimes people's hearts are too complicated.
The rest of the text is told in the tone of this lady, in the order of timeline, I will only truthfully describe, in order to improve readability, a little collation.
I've loved, hated, been naïve, sad, helpless, bitter, all for a man. Now it seems that those experiences are all the fault of love.
I originally thought that even if it was wrong, even if the marriage was wrong, the love would not be wrong.
Marrying the wrong person is not terrible, divorce is not terrible, terrible is not the determination to dare to hate, dare to love, dare to start another relationship.
But now, I finally realized the reality of life and the cruelty of love. When I met a cruel man, determination had no effect, and tears were useless.
Where is there eternal love in this world?
The same women, I matured several years later than many women. Thinking back to my past emotional experiences, love is just the innocence and ignorance I once had, and it is also a wasted time of youth.
Some women understand this truth when they are just adults, they talk about reality and are never naïve. So they avoided the pit, married the best man, and since then they have been happily married and have had a happy family, so their marriage is worth enviing.
Some women are not very lucky, until they want to cry without tears, they slowly understand the truth of marriage. If you marry the wrong person, the marriage cannot be happy, and you can either endure it for a lifetime or you can only try to start over.
I was the latter, and when I was young I belonged to the most ignorant category. But I dare to polish my eyes for love and dare to look for another suitable man.
One of the most regrettable things in my life is that I originally loved the right person, but later I married the wrong person in ignorance and gave birth to a child...
A woman's youth cannot withstand squandering, ah, who can understand the feeling of marrying the wrong person? Do you want me to put up with it all the time?
People live for themselves, and no one reminds me what to do. I understand conscience and morality, but I know the emptiness and helplessness of life even more.
Second, after getting married, I found that I did not love my husband
I had a boyfriend when I was in college, and we had a great relationship and spent more than 3 years together. During the days of study, the love between the two of us became the best romance in the eyes of many people.
You ask me how good that love really is?
I want to tell you seriously, it is too good to be true, and many people have envied us. My boyfriend is tall and handsome, and he takes me out every weekend, and many sisters are jealous that I don't have to live in the dormitory on weekends...
My boyfriend and I have long agreed for a lifetime, willing to share hearts and minds, and never give up until the white head.
At that time, love was very sincere and simple, and under normal circumstances, we could become husband and wife. Unfortunately, my parents have always disagreed with us and blamed his family conditions for not being good enough.
Only half a year after graduation, my parents let me go home for a blind date.
I struggled for days, and finally broke up with my boyfriend in tears and left him fiercely. In fact, I was already pregnant with the baby at that time, but under the opposition of my mother, I had to give up this relationship.
Now that I think about it, I not only gave up the most true feelings in my life, but also gave up the best future.
After recuperating, I resolutely returned to my hometown. Everything follows the arrangements of my parents, and I go on blind dates and meet again and again.
In this way, I ignorantly chose another path in my life. On a blind date, I met my husband (ex-husband) and fell in love with him.
At that time, we had both just lost love, and when we first got together, some words were very chatty. I thought this was another love that God compensated me for, and it was also a fate with him.
Sometimes fate is clever, but there are many pitfalls that cannot be discerned. I can't tell why, I was touched by my husband during the blind date, and I loved too hastily...
At the urging of the two families, in order to add my name to the house book, I married my husband in a vacuum. But after getting married, I found out that this marriage was not happy at all.
I admit that my husband is a good man who takes care of his family and is very stable in his dealings with the world. But I can't deny that this is not the life I want, let alone the family I want.
Love can't be forced, I really don't love him, I can't persuade myself!
Third, insist on divorce for love
My husband's family conditions are very good, in line with my parents' requirements, there is a car and a house, but he can't give me the love I want most. This alone negates the future, and it is difficult for me to accept him for a long time.
He has a lower education than me, has no culture, doesn't speak funny, and isn't much taller than me. A big man is not as good as his own wife, and I think when his wife is very faceless.
When I got married that year, the "I do" I promised was a temporary promise, and I couldn't possibly love him forever. It didn't take long for me to discover, yes, that spending a lifetime with him in a long marriage was a distress.
After having children, the two of us were like partners, walking around the children all day, and life was boring and tedious. Unconsciously married for 7 years, he became more and more honest, like a wooden man, and did not understand my mind at all.
4 years ago, I met a man who knew both cold and hot at work. We understood each other like confidants and slowly developed feelings. He took good care of me and said he liked me...
After taking that step with him and being brave together, the feeling of love seems to be remembered in my heart forever. I just want to be nice to him and enjoy his kindness to me at the same time.
Because of this love, after 7 years of confusion in marriage, I finally found another way of life. As long as we cross the most difficult few steps, the future life will be a smooth river.
I know it's not very glorious, but I have no love for marriage. Since there is a person I like who is single-mindedly good to me, I have no reason not to accept him.
We quietly loved for 1 year, and a lot of touching things happened. For him, my husband and I had a fight and turned my face. For me, he also tore his face with his wife.
The 2 families often get divorced, but even so, we still haven't broken up. It is the attachment of love, and there is no complaint or regret with him.
If divorce can bring me happiness, I'm willing to give up everything first and wait for him to get a reply.
I believe that as long as we truly love each other, we can rebuild a happy family. He promised me, promised to divorce his wife and marry me in the future.
I was relieved and filed for divorce from my husband for his commitment. I don't want anything, I just hope that my husband will take care of the children in the future.
Of course, divorce is not easy, even if I am willing to leave the house, my husband does not agree to divorce. My parents also beat me, if I dare to divorce, they will not have my daughter, never want to enter the mother's house...
At the crucial moment, it was love that gave me strength. In the face of so many difficulties, I persevered for half a year, and finally ended the marriage as I wished.
Fourth, love is nothing more than lip service
My parents were so disappointed in me that my ex-husband wouldn't let me visit my children.
In order to pursue love, I was only 32 years old and betrayed my family. I admit that sometimes I regret that the divorce was too hasty, but when I think of a new future, I have to be brave.
I want to step on the road of life and follow the road of love to the end.
I want him (the lover) to keep his promise, get a divorce sooner, and marry me into the house. But he has an unspeakable secret, his wife is not a good stubble, would rather live with him than divorce. They quarreled again and again, and although they quarreled more and more fiercely, the marriage did not move at all.
I don't understand, what is that woman clinging to? Your husband doesn't love you anymore, the person he loves the most is me, can't you leave him calmly? You only have a name left, while you are still young, you can't go find another one and give me the name...
Whenever I think about these questions, of course I get anxious.
Fortunately, he understood me, took care of me, and never left me. Since his wife gambled to move out and separate from him, I moved into his house and lived there for 2 and a half years.
We get along like husband and wife, loving in life and helping at work. I said in my heart, I think of myself as his wife, and I don't hide anything from me. Even if I help him take care of the children, I am serious.
In the eyes of many colleagues, at first they laughed at me. Later, they didn't dare to laugh, and even some people admired my persistence in love.
Even if his wife occasionally came over to take the children out to play, she basically turned a blind eye to me and did not dare to provoke me. I naively thought that she had acquiesced to our relationship, and that the well water with me did not violate the river water.
Who would have thought that in the end he would play me?
The fame I was waiting for was nothing after all, and the sense of security I had sought for was just a farce.
Maybe I don't have that life, and he doesn't have that life. His liver was not good, half a year ago he was suddenly emaciated, his face was yellow, even his eyes were yellow, and it was already late after going to the examination.
Later, I learned the cruelest truth of love, what is love? It was just a rumor on his lips, just a talk.
Fifth, love is the human heart, marriage is reality
At that time, I wanted him to pick himself up, take good care of his body, and treat him bravely. But he said it was too late, he didn't want to suffer anymore, he didn't want to spend more money.
I couldn't help him, accompanied him home, and took care of him as much as possible.
At that time, I was very touched in my heart, and I took it for granted that he was good to me. He gave up himself for the promise of love, how great should this love be?
Later, I took care of him tirelessly for several months. Even if he cried in the middle of the night, I would get up and feed him water, never complaining.
But he forgot about me at the last moment of his life, and when I went out to study, he gave all his things to his wife, even the car I drove for 2 years.
When I came back, he couldn't speak anymore, he just hummed. His wife drove me away, and said that I would not want to take even a pair of chopsticks with me.
I blamed myself for not going out to study, but I didn't expect him to be so vulnerable, and I didn't expect him to change all his verbal commitments in an instant.
In those days, I saw that his health had improved, he could barely walk around, and then he was relieved to go out to study, who could have imagined such a fast ah? If I had thought about it earlier, I wouldn't have left him half a step.
I thought his wife must have said something clever to him or coaxed him to sign. But his wife showed me the video he recorded himself, you should have seen it, it was those ten minutes that broke my heart.
His heart is too fierce, completely disregarding our true feelings. A total of 4 years, the first 2 years bravely fell in love, the last 2 years bravely lived together. I've always loved him, he's loved me, I took him as my husband, and he swore to leave the house to me and divorce my wife when I get back.
Even if I was wrong at the last moment and shouldn't have gone out to study, he shouldn't have denied what I had done to him. In his heart, what is love?
How I wanted to ask him, let him touch his conscience and tell me. But he couldn't speak, and now that the man was gone, my ups and downs had just begun.
I finally understood that love is all lies in men's mouths, deceiving the most sincere women. I don't believe in love anymore, it's all a deceptive trick...
This marriage case will be talked about here for the time being, the case of the previous days, there will definitely be a follow-up after the Spring Festival. She said she must get back everything she had lost and theorize with his wife to the end.
I will not express superfluous views on this case, after all, the article itself is an opinion. Leaving aside what cannot be said, the rest can be truthfully described, and everyone who comes over has their own opinion.
In life, there are too many grievances and wrongs, and the sea of red dust people inevitably loves and hates impermanence. There are disturbances in the secular world, and there are always people who are inadvertently hurt by love.
As the saying goes, marriage has entanglements and grievances, and fate has gathering and dispersion. This is not the fault of love, but the fault of the human heart, and some so-called love is just a grand excuse.
Some people feel that their families are not worthy of love, so the outside is more looking forward to it. But in the end, a man with a conscience, the most loved person is his wife and children.
If a man is willing to abandon his wife, why does he really love you? If a woman can even throw away the marriage, why expect another man to believe in your love?
Love may be a period of time, mixed with people's hearts and emotions, but marriage is a real life.
Many times this "reality" seems cruel, but it is precisely the last bit of conscience that is born as a human being. Therefore, some people complain that love is too fake, perhaps they do not deserve to be loved.
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