Intense curiosity is an important trait for children to explore more unknown worlds and help them make greater progress, but safety hazards also accompany them along the way.
If there is no correct guidance from parents, if you are not careful, your child will cause a lot of trouble because of too strong curiosity.
Driven by strong curiosity, a bear child wanted to pick a neighbor's peach to eat, but accidentally fell and fractured, causing a series of troubles for himself and his family.
Innocent neighbours were also victimized and were asked for compensation by the boys' parents. In the end, the neighbors had to make concessions and compensated for part of the medical expenses. The practice of the parents of the bear children has aroused the dissatisfaction of the majority of netizens.
@HuiHui Muzi: What kind of parents is this, it is simply incomprehensible. If only I had not compensated any expenses.
@ small pills: parents are too much, they did not manage the child well, but let others bear the burden of accidents, no wonder children are also so bearish.
@Keiko: The neighbors are so wronged that there is no need to take any responsibility.
In fact, the whole thing is that parents do not guide their children correctly, resulting in omissions in educational responsibilities. Parents not only do not pay attention to their children, but also do not set a good example.
How can parents avoid their children becoming "bears"?
1, state the stakes and make rules
Security is the most basic, its own security can not be guaranteed, the rest is empty talk.
In the process of educating their children, parents must explain the stakes to their children, explain the truth to their children clearly, let them know the importance of life and health, and resolutely do not do dangerous things.
It is necessary to make rules for children, so that they understand that there are rules and regulations for everything, and not doing things according to the rules will ultimately suffer.
The establishment of rules creates a barrier to the safety of children, which can help them cultivate safety awareness and love life.
2, get along positively and strengthen communication
Many bear children are ignorant at the beginning of the incident and lack their own discernment ability. At first, you may just be curious and want to try it, not knowing that there will be such serious consequences.
Therefore, parents usually communicate with their children and try to be friends with their children in order to understand more about their children's ideas and facilitate the right medicine.
Strengthening communication also invisibly closes the distance between each other and strengthens the parent-child relationship.
3, lead by example, teach by example
Parents are the child's first teacher, and the famous parenting expert Professor Li Meijin once said: "All the characteristics of children come from their parents."
Children in life constantly imitate the behavior of their parents, this ability is super strong, if the parents are good conduct people, the child will also become polite, sensible people, rather than becoming malicious destruction, mischief bear children.
The innocent and affected neighbors also became victims of the whole thing, and they did not have to bear the compensation, but in the end they also made compromises in the face of pressure.
From this point, it can also be seen that the parents of the bear children not only did not play a good exemplary role, but also invisibly connived at the child's behavior, right and wrong.
The tragedy caused by the child himself pushes the responsibility on others, and this practice of evading responsibility will also have a negative impact on the child.
Parents are a mirror of children's growth, and children's growth path is full of many unknowns.
Parents should do a better job of exemplary role, actively guide their children to cultivate correct values, and do not let them become "bear children" that everyone hates.