7 years old is the age of liveliness and love. But Teacher Qi found that Jia Jia in the class always kept her head down, obviously had some inferiority, and wore old clothes.
Teacher Qi thought that Jiajia's family was in difficulty, so he called his parents to the school to understand the situation. After Jia Jia's father arrived at school, Teacher Qi was a little incredible, because his father wore almost all the famous brands.
Although he was confused, he still told him about Jia Jia's situation. Dad said: "Our family is not without money, let him wear old clothes is to temper his will, boys do not want to be poor." ”
Hearing his father's words, Teacher Qi helplessly explained Jia Jia's situation. Dad understood that the educational method was not suitable.
If you only understand "poor children" as "poor" in terms of money, children are prone to develop an inferior personality.
Therefore, even under the concept of "poor children", it is necessary to ensure that boys are "rich" in some aspects.
1. Spiritual "get rich"
Spirit refers to the child's inner qualities, such as self-confidence, tenacity, kindness, etc., even if it advocates "poor support", but can not give up the inner spiritual quality.
If you let your child wear old clothes and pants every day, it will lead to inferiority and it will not be worth the loss.
Therefore, under the concept of "poor children", parents should cultivate their children's rich and good inner spiritual qualities, which is the most helpful education for children.
2. Interest "get rich"
Even if you are a "poor child", you can't ignore the cultivation of children's interest.
Before the child does not know what the interest is, the parents' cultivation of the child's interest is a process of casting a net.
You can find your child's interest by taking your child out to play, participate in interest classes, and do social activities, and after your child finds interest, parents need to close the net and encourage perseverance.
"Poor children" is not a simple material "poor", the purpose of parents raising poor children should be to make children "rich" in spiritual quality and interest, which is the "poor education" that really helps children grow.