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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Su Qian said: "Character determines destiny. A woman's character also determines the fate of marriage. ”
Indeed, what kind of personality a woman is, and what kind of state will often be presented in the relationship.
Some women behave too cowardly, tolerate men everywhere, and prefer to let themselves be wronged rather than make demands on men, and naturally will not get his pity.
Women must overestimate men, you have no requirements for him, he may not thank you, maybe they will think you are a bully.
Many married women, the reason why they live a grievance is not that life is too difficult, but that they are heartbroken by men, but they are unmoved.
You accommodate him in everything and tolerate him everywhere, will he be good to you? Probably not, they will take it for granted, just treat you like a soft persimmon.
So, women have to learn that there is an effective way to make men care for you: learn to make demands. When you make the following three requests to him, I believe he will feel more sorry for you.
First, ask men to accompany you
In feelings, the love words on the mouth are empty, and only the companionship in action has the texture of love.
If a man often ignores you and refuses to spend time on you, then you have to offer it and ask him to take time to accompany him.
Women must not let men form a habit, once you do not ask him to accompany you, when he is used to the days without you, it is likely that he will not love you so much.
Men need to work, need to make money, it is not easy, but no matter how busy work is, there will always be a break.
At this time, you need a man to accompany you, and when he is willing to put his mind on you, he will get used to coming to you and feeling the trivialities of life with you.
If you have no requirements for him, just a person buried in the housework, even if you keep the family in a warm way, he can't participate in life, can't accompany you, where is happiness?
Therefore, women must learn to ask men, and when you need him, be sure to ask him to come and accompany you.
Many women are too reserved, or very kind, think that men are busy at work and do not want to distract him, so they let him go.
But as a result, a lot of men are not so busy at all, you don't ask for it, he really doesn't want to come back.
I think that as long as women do not make unreasonable trouble and appropriately ask men to accompany them, this is completely correct, and there is no need to worry about anything.
If you want to trap a man's heart, it is not that you pay alone, but that you want to let the man participate in the family chores with you.
Only if a man is willing to face life with you, he can see your goodness and see your efforts.
If he does not come to accompany you, and you do not ask him, the feelings of both parties may gradually fade.
If so, will you still have warmth at home alone? Without companionship, no amount of money makes sense, after all, this is the instinct of love.
Only when two people look at each other and love each other in a dull life, will the days go by and become happier.
Second, ask men to reject the ambiguity of the opposite sex
Any relationship needs to be single-minded, especially after marriage, and maintaining loyalty can make the relationship more harmonious and satisfying.
Therefore, women must make demands from men, be sure to keep him at a distance from other members of the opposite sex, and actively reject the ambiguity of the opposite sex.
Women really don't know too much, if you are always so kind and weak, find that men are ambiguous with the opposite sex and do not say, he may not cherish you more.
If you want to have a position in the minds of men, you must maintain the demeanor you should have, and when you are tough, you must not be weak.
Whenever you find out that a man is in close contact with other women, or gets too close, you have to stop it in time.
At this time, your attitude must be tough, do not give him any chance, let him dare not do something sorry for you.
In front of men, women must know how to swear their dignity, but also let him clarify your principles and bottom line, once he touches your bottom line, he cannot forgive.
In fact, a woman will not be half-hearted about you if she makes a man always have concerns.
Your principles, your bottom line, must be followed by men, and at no time can the requirements be lowered.
When women should be gentle, they must be gentle, and when they should be tough, they must also make men awe three points.
Only in this way can you firmly grasp the man's heart, at least so that he does not dare to be easy to you, let alone dare to be unfaithful to feelings.
In reality, many examples show that the more principled and bottom-line women are, the more they can get the pity of men.
On the contrary, those women who are too sensible, tolerate men everywhere, have no requirements for him, but are disappointed by him.
Therefore, when a woman gets along with a man, she must clarify your bottom line, require him to be single-minded about his feelings, and reject all ambiguity of the opposite sex, so that he can love and cherish you more.
Third, ask men to give you a basic material life
Love or marriage, women must let men give you a basic material life, if there is no certain material foundation, it is difficult to get happiness.
No matter how good love is, there can be no lack of bread, if even life cannot be guaranteed, what future can we talk about?
Moreover, if a man does not pay a financial cost to you, he will not cherish you, because he does not spend money, he does not feel your good, even if it is lost, it will not be a pity.
If you want a man to care about you in his heart, you must make him pay a certain cost, at least let him dare not lose you easily, because he can't afford to lose a lot of paying.
If you don't let him spend money and don't have any demands on life, he may feel that he has picked up the cheap and will not be grateful to you at all.
In life, there are too many women who do not ask for it, and even paste men upside down, what is the end result? Most women are let down and not worth it.
Therefore, women should learn to ask men, the most basic is to let him give you the basic living material.
I don't approve of women asking men for no reason, but on the basis of living conditions, men still have to satisfy women.
Of course, while men pay for you, you must also learn to pay, after all, life is the responsibility of both parties.
However, when a man does not give you the security of life, you should not accommodate him, but take the initiative to ask him.
One can make men more responsible and more motivated, and the other can also maintain a happy life, which is very beneficial to the family and children.
If you always think about him, do not dare to ask for it, do not dare to trouble him, maybe he will lose motivation and be even more unwilling to give you a stable life.
Whether a woman has a good life in marriage or not basically stems from having a quality of life, if life is always a chicken feather, can you still feel happiness?
In short, women want men to cherish you, and if they want to be happy, they must take the initiative to ask men to make him responsible for the rest of your life, for life and children, which is the basis of happiness.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Fu Biao said: "A good man needs to meet three criteria: heartache for women, heart for the elderly, and heartache for children; you can not be a woman, but you must understand women." ”
A man's ability to make his family happy often depends on his attitude towards his family, whether he can make achievements or not, as long as he is willing to work hard, he believes that he can create a happy life.
In this process, women must also learn to make demands of men, especially when the man himself is not willing to work hard, you can not indulge him.
Therefore, if you want men to pity you, women may wish to make three requests to men:
Ask men to give you companionship, ask men to reject the ambiguity of the opposite sex, and ask men to give you a basic material life.
When he can do this for you, you will get the happiness you really want, and he will certainly cherish you even more.
All in all, women get along with men, do not have to aggrieved themselves, what they want, can be generously brought up.
After all, if you love him and care about him, you will have requirements for him and expectations for the future.
Men who truly love you, believe that they can understand your thoughts, give you what you want, and protect your life.
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